We are both bi. We look at in terms of "relationship bi" or "bedroom bi". Outside of the bedroom we would never have a bi relationship. But in the bedroom being bi opens us up to experiences. For us being bi and playing with someone can go from great sex to OMG that was awesome sex. There is something about playing with no restrictions and not having someone say" You better keep that away from me. Don't want it anywhere near me". Mr. May says he is never attracted to another man just attracted to the fun to be had.