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harsh started following Transition Lines, Open Marriage: How to word it in ads, Swingers need a slogan and and 1 other
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Swyngtyme: If you have SLS at your disposal, do a search for CoachFun. He's in a similar (not identical) situation as yours where he's allow to play as a single, but also plays as a couple. By his profile, it looks like he's in a dry spell, but his certifications indicate some success, including a cert from his wife. For whatever it's worth. Maybe it was said somewhere on here before, but there are many different variations to the lifestyle that could equal the number of participants in the lifestyle. If it was easy, you wouldn't have come here for advice. But I don't view your situation as a distinct impossibility. We would give your profile an honest look. I just don't have that slam dunk piece of advice to put it over the top for you other than to encourage you and wish you the best of luck!
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Well, this could be very very stupid, OR very very innovative...... But if I were you, I would have my wife write my profile. She may be able dispell the inherent skepticism from a feminine point of view. The hope would be that she could also provide a testimonial on your behalf , thus riding you of the need to talk yourself up on the profile. A tag line like "My Husband is a man for all seasons". As the married male of a couple, I couldn't guarantee I would contact you, but I would certainly give it a read. For what it's worth.......
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"Swinging-Where 2 in the bush is so much better than a bird in hand"
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Reasons you haven't started swinging yet
harsh replied to lookingfornow's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
Basically catching fire with the notion of swinging 6 months ago, approaching my wife with the idea, and then my impatient self making it a topic of basic conversation with my wife for 2 straight months. She certainly wasn't averse to the idea and we even came up with some basic ground rules for whenever that first time came. But after 2 months, and I can't articulate it very well, the daily conversations seemed disingenuous from my end. No doubt we had felt the enhanced level of communication we both had created, but this had to be expanded and transcended into other areas of our lives together. The level of enhanced communication and discovery after 20 years of marriage has been mind blowing in a positive way, and some days not easy by any stretch. I have no doubt our time will come to jump in, and no doubt we'll be ready when that day occurs. The journey in getting there has been fun, rewarding and priceless for our relationship. In the meantime, I'll continue to lurk and learn -
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harsh replied to Spoomonkey's topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
"We've done so well tonight in getting to know one another; any chance of continuing this on a more intimate level?" I see it as a non pressure way of imparting your intentions, whether that ends up being tonight, tomorrow night, or next weekend, or maybe later.