Tobacouple
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Tobacouple last won the day on December 12 2012
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Canada
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Tobacouple started following Do you Facebook with your swinging playmate couples?, Why are men fascinated with cumming on the face?, Both surprised at each other considering swinging and and 5 others
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Why are men fascinated with cumming on the face?
Tobacouple replied to pinkroses's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
I don't think most men are fascinated by it. Doesn't do a thing for me. People are just mislead by the porn industry. Personally, after starting to swing, porn doesn't do much for me or my wife. Too fake. -
Both surprised at each other considering swinging
Tobacouple replied to XploreFun's topic in Curious About Swinging?
Several years ago, we started down the same path in much the same way you are describing. For us, it's been great. Just keep the communication going between you as a couple and proceed at the speed of the slowest one, (Neither of you should ever push the other) and enjoy the experience. -
Can friendship ever be part of swinging?
Tobacouple replied to Sensualbicouple's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
We've played and end up friends with several people. The friendship is different mind you, not quite the same as our vanilla friends (not any worse or better, just different). We've also played and not become friends with some too. It really depends on the personalities and each persons definition of friendship. -
We've been smoke free ourselves for 17 years. Both of us can't stand to be around smoke or in close contact with those that do. I really do believe us reformed smokers are the least tolerate. Smoking is a definite deal breaker for us.
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Where to find older swingers?
Tobacouple replied to fifty4x2's topic in Finding People to Swing With
52 and 60 here, and we know a lot more our age and older. -
For me, It's just like what Lionheart said. I'd also add, that on wife's behalf, her being with other guys has made her feel great about herself. She knows she's still attractive to others which has been great for her self confidence.
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I'm new here and need help, want to watch wife have sex
Tobacouple replied to Steve270's topic in Curious About Swinging?
This site, or attempting to get your wife to swing, isn't going fix your issues as a couple. Listen to what Lionheart and SW PA Couple have said. Go seek counseling and possibly medical help for your wife's lack of sex drive. -
A safe way to see if your partner is interested
Tobacouple replied to naughty_kitten's topic in Curious About Swinging?
For new couples, I think it's a great way to break the ice and stimulate conversation on their fantasies. -
Do you Facebook with your swinging playmate couples?
Tobacouple replied to NYFlirts's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
Facebook is just for the Vanilla side of our life.- 35 replies
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I think what others are trying to say is, trying to work on or fix relationship issues with the prospect or goal of swinging hanging over your heads isn't the way to improve your marriage. Both of you need to put all thought and talk of swinging aside until your relationship and communications improve. Swinging isn't a tool to use to adjust, fix or improve relationships. It will quickly expose the strengths and weakness in them though.
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I curve up. The wife loves the up curve. She say's it hits the right spot. I've never had a complaint any other woman either.
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Is distance ever a factor in deciding to meet?
Tobacouple replied to angelkin's topic in Finding People to Swing With
We look at the distance factor differently. We live in a small remote community. There are a few other listing on SLS in our community, but we don't pursue theses because of the size of the community. Our privacy at home is more important then the convenience of not traveling. We're typically traveling 2 to 4 hours to meet up with others. -
It came up in fantasies soon after we were married, but we never seriously talked about swinging till after 12 years of married life. It then took about 12 years before it actually happen. The reasons for the 12 years it took to realize success has a lot to do with careers, time and family. We tried to find suitable playmates numerous time through out those years but always never succeeded. It wasn't until we retired that the freedom and time became available for us to successfully swing. It's been a great addition to our life and marriage.
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Simple one word answer. "Yes"