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What exactly is the difference between the two? What are the activities, limits and vibe of each?
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On-premise vs. Off-premise swinger clubs
JustAskJulie posted a topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
An On-premise club is one where they have provided space for the sexual activities (swinging) to actually occur at the place where the party is being held. An off-premise party is more like going to a bar.. you find someone and invite them back to your place to continue the fun (no sexual activity takes place at the party itself). What are your thoughts on which one is better? and why? -
We have been reading the forums for a long time. We have a question for those that go to the on premises and off premises clubs. How often do you see couples in their mid to late sixties? -
What kind of things are allowed in an off premise club? How far can you take it on the dance floor? -
A thought on newbies, and first time club outings...
Guest posted a topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
So, once again, I was thinking (yes, I know, that explains the smell of burning around here... ) Namely, about what might be an easier first time outing to a club, for newbies. Obviously, there are several things that come into play in such a thing, but in general, here's what I thought... If the newbies are ready and willing to swap (soft or full,) then it doesn't really matter, off or on-premise. If, however, the newbies are not ready for any swap (myself and the wife,) then an on-premise might actually be a better choice. Here's my reasoning, see what you think. Going to an off-premise club, you've got a few things that would make the newbies potentially more nervous, as well as potentially opening them up for a somewhat more negative experience. First, if it's in a bar, unless it's a take over / closed door event, they have to be possibly concerned about someone they know wandering in. Second, as in order to play, you need to go to a hotel (either if it's attached to the bar in question, or at least nearby,) the newbs either need to spring for a hotel room, or hope someone would be willing to bring them along to watch / play separately (unlikely, I would expect) Now, quite likely, they'd meet people (we're presuming the newbies are at least outgoing enough to introduce themselves to others,) but once people start getting down to hooking up, the newbies would begin to find themselves excluded. Again, I can understand why the swappers would do this, they're interested in getting laid by someone other than their spouse, and the newbies in question won't help with that. Now, take those same newbies, and send them to an on-premise. It's much less likely they'd be concerned about someone they know wandering in, after all, if someone they know is there, it's pretty obvious why. As for the play, if the newbies feel up to it, they can wander around the play areas, just watching, or enjoy themselves in the play area. They'll still meet people, but I would think they'd be less likely to get excluded from conversations later, after all, the swingers there likely already have people they can hook up with, or have already played some, and are relaxing between rounds, and might be willing to put the newbies at ease. Cost wise, I would think it would be a wash between the options (presuming the newbies check in at the hotel), figure $60 for a hotel room + $20-30 for the event. On-premise, figure $75-100 for an event. Obviously, depending on the crowd at either on or off-premise, the newbies could end up with a markedly different experience than posited above. They could go to the off-premise, meet a group that is perfectly willing to take the newbies along back to the hotel (imagine the desk clerks face when 6+ people go by heading for one room!) and let them watch, and not mind the newbies playing off to the side. They could go to an on-premise, and have the misfortune of running into a bunch of cliques that feel that if you aren't willing to swap, they're going to brush you off / ignore you the rest of the night. Just some thoughts... Jason -
Just reading the Menages Yahoo Group posts and it seems that as of last week they have now gone off-premise until further notice (and so has TSC, according to what is posted there). I'll post more once I can confirm directly what is going on. But from the sounds of it the Mayor is going after all adult venues and in an effort to stay ahead of the curve and give them less to go after the two on-premise clubs have decided to go off-premise. Here's the letter that was read to the club members last week:
