one final thought on this. If you were not swingers, would it have been ok? If Mrs. Naughty were single would it be ok to seduce someone who she knew to be engaged and was about to be married?
Is it ok to mess around with a married person, if we don't know for sure that its ok with the spouse? Have we lost that much respect for marriage, even as swingers. If we don't respect someone else's marriage, how can we expect someone else to respect ours?