o.k. long post coming up...as for me and mys/o here is the story...we dated when we were 14 years old I was the holdout meaning social upbringing told me no not till your married sufficith to say I heard my pappys word in the back of my mind even though my young hard cock spoke otherwise...anywho we loved each other. I know sounds like a romance novel but we found each other later in years and have been together now for 2 years. I don't mind telling you that she is very sexual as I am (late bloomer) we as older adults had convos. about our whole lives and understood that we didn't have to have sex with each other that in fact we loved each other a feeling that never went away even though we hadn't seen each other in 21 years. now to my point us being sexual creatures knew instantly that we were in love and knew that sex is sex and love is love. other then hashing over the details we are embarking on what I think is gonna be the best thing since finding each other again because we (loved) each other even when there was no sex involved. as long as we stay on the same page as far as what we are looking for in this experience and talk talk talk (sometimes the talk is better than the act and I haven't even experienced it yet...lol) to me it is an experience you share together the good bad and ugly...