oakridgecouple
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- Birthday 02/11/1971
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Relationship Status
Couple
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Location
Oak Ridge, NJ
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Interests
We host great parties and he is a great chef!
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Occupation
Foodservice
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Swinging Experience
Pretty new <3 months
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SLS Name
jimandrebeeca
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oakridgecouple started following Your First Swinging Experience?, SLS vs Adult Friend finder, Common Newbie Swinger Mistakes and and 3 others
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Common Newbie Swinger Mistakes
oakridgecouple replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Curious About Swinging?
Understood, chicup. We definitely do not expect to be seduced into swinging or sex. We are there for a reason, afterall. Anywho, we have had lots of fun and are looking forward to many more great experiences to cum...- 226 replies
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Common Newbie Swinger Mistakes
oakridgecouple replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Curious About Swinging?
A question about #4. As a couple we are "newbies". Is it wrong to expect someone to woo her in advance of a MFM? or at least a little effort? Obviously we had a not so great experience the other night. All we ask is that you try to make her want to be with you. Maybe, just maybe, when you get yourself a beer, offer to fill her pint as well..... We are not looking for freebies, nor would we ever "milk" a potential playmate. We ended this meeting very quickly seeing it was going to go nowhere. In my opinion a woman who is confident enough to express herself sexually and enjoy life this way, is deserving of a little effort....(and being an incredible piece of ass don't hurt ) Oh, and when i went to pay our tab, his drink was on there as well......... Sorry if it sounds like we complaining a bit here, are we off base? thanks,- 226 replies
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For us, certifications kind of authenticate a male that we might be interested in. We have yet to meet someone from SLS yet but trying. The thought is that if they have some then they may understand what we are looking for.
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SLS vs Adult Friend finder
oakridgecouple replied to oakridgecouple's topic in Finding People to Swing With
Thanks for the replies, we do like SLS and think we'll stay put. We get lotsof messages from "the type", the guy who is hung like a horse, super orally talented, a complete gentleman and can go for hours..... Anywho, we will keep searching. Thanks again, Jim & Rebecca -
We were just wondering if one site was better than the other for finding a male for MFM. We have someone we have been playing with, and he is great and gets it. However, she is starting to really open up and would like to look for new experiences. Or if there is another avenue anyone could suggest we would appreciate it. Thanks in advance.
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Your First Swinging Experience?
oakridgecouple replied to JustAskJulie's topic in First Swinging Experiences
Ours was totally out of the blue. We had talked about it for some time, but did not have the opportunity We were working a fund raiser nd she said to me, there's your guy. Pointed to a mutual "friend" of ours. I approached him at the bar later that night, I think he almost fell over. We hung out for a bit, went to a local hotel and the rest as they say is "history".....to be continued -
MFM with a really good friend?
oakridgecouple replied to funky's topic in Finding People to Swing With
We have been playing with a friend of ours. He not what you would consider a "good friend", but a friend non the less. Advantage is he knows us, we know him and limits and boundaries are well defined and followed. Down side is he knows us & we know him. But we have played with hime 5 times now and eveything seems to be going along quite well. We also knew e was attracted to her before we approached him. Nothing hotter than seeing her being pleased by someone else that has wanted to do so for so long. Just curious, where you guys going? -
Are you a guy or a woman? the guy Yeah, I figure it is probably some kind of porn. But, what kind in particular? I masturbate to videos of us sometimes, but most often three ways What is your fetish? I have a slight foot fetish, once in a while a good old foot job gets me off Group/lingerie/anal/gay/boobs just a couple of examples. Also, how do you masturbate? One hands, with KY warming liquid. How long do you masturbate and would your SO be upset about that? Depends, sometimes 10-15 minutes, sometimes 3..LOL and no she would not, unless she is ready to go when se gets home unexpectedly and I just rubbed one out. Do you know what your SO masturbates to? Oh yes, she loves the MFM porn