3sumff
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- Birthday 06/04/1974
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Relationship Status
couple
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Location
California
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Interests
traveling is definitely on top of the list
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Swinging Experience
5+years
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Favorite Club(s)
Couples Oasis
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3sumff started following How many straight guys have taken a finger?, Swinging? Not without me!, Indecent proposal? and and 6 others
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We have done it before and enjoyed it, but we are pretty open about that stuff.
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We had our very 1st party. The party itself was awesome. Everyone seemed to enjoy themselves and my girlfriend and I sure did. I enjoyed watching her and she enjoyed watching me. The only complaint I had about the party was that we were expecting more people to show up:angry: We were expecting 7 couples to attend. 3 showed, 2 canceled and 2 just never responded. Mind you...I didn't email any of these couples. Except for the people who attended. The couples who showed up were our friends, which made the whole situation comfortable and fun. I can understand canceling, but for the other 2 who just didn't say anything to us. We were fairly disappointed. Out respect, they could have made something up. Oh well, don't mean to bitch about a wonderful night. Well another party is in the plans hope there are more couples. If you are from California...let us know. The Central Valley Area!
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We just needed to work on us for awhile. We aren't hardcore swingers. We just like to play every once in awhile. It had been about year since we played. It was a lot of fun. Felt good to have the connection we were missing.
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We are going to be in the bay area this weekend. I believe most likely we will be at the Power Exchange. Any couples wanting to meet there or meet at bar before head to your place or Power Exchange is fine. We can not host due teenagers being in the room. Hope to hear from you couples. For a little more info on us...look up our profile on SLS...luvhotplay. P.S. The Exotic Erotic Ball is happening this weekend. Oct. 25, but we can't attend.
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We went to a Halloween party last night! Actually, it was a swinger's dance party. Let me tell you...it was a blast! It has been almost year since we have done anything in the LS, and what a way to be reintroduced. There were some great costumes and some very nice people, especially the couple we ended up playing with. I just wanted to share my thoughts. Some good memories were made last night.
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"Rammed"...that sounds nice! lol
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We wouldn't have any problem with that! If she wanted to do it, then more power to her. It is just sex, NO BIGGIE!
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That is too funny, Aster! You are grown woman! Don't analyze anything...enjoy. I know if my girlfriend were single she would be doing the same thing you are doing. That is because she told me so...lol! Sure is nice to hear a woman be open to what she wants and doesn't want. Enjoy!
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We have always done the candle light thing! Its the perfect lighting!
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Do you need to feel attracted to your playmate when swinging?
3sumff replied to cpl36996's topic in Look and Feel Your Best!
I found out a long time ago that all the people we have swung with. My gf was not very attracted to all the male part. Faked all the time, but once. Man, she is good at faking it! It leaves me wondering....lol! She let me know there needs to be some connection between her and the other guy. I just would like to see her have a good time. Period -
I agree totally! Dirty house and kids in the pics is a big turn-off. Actually, there is one more bone I have to pick. I am very surprised by some people who post pics that actually think they look good in. I mean I am no model or anything, but I would choose the best looking pic where everything just seemed perfect to me. Dirty house, kids, dirty clothing or a picture of yourself where you look a little up kept. C'mon, post something that makes you look the most appealing.
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Having a couple over after the toddler goes to bed?
3sumff replied to newbieswinger's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
You are correct...I have had sex with my spouse. Keyword, My spouse! It is just my opinion. Absolutely do what you feel is right! For us, it is not something we would engage in. Toddler, Adolescent...it doesn't matter. Perhaps, we are just more on the conservative side. -
Having a couple over after the toddler goes to bed?
3sumff replied to newbieswinger's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
All I have to say is family comes first, and everything else is secondary. The well fare of your child should be on the top of your list. Swinging should come when after the proper arrangements are made to play! -
Telling close friends that you're swinging?
3sumff replied to slevin's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
My friends all know we are "swingers." It's no longer a big deal anymore. Well, maybe my friends gf's don't like it so much since we are open about it. I am sure they would rather we keep it to ourselves. Since a lot of my friends will hint about how they wish their gf's would be a little open-minded like my gf. We do it for the shock value and laughs. I guess it is a little immature on our part. It also doesn't help that gf gets along with all the guys and none of the girls. Oh well! Now, when my family caught wind of it. I was not very happy. My family can be a little brutal when it comes to razzing one another about personal issues and secrets. Never would I want my mother to hear about it. Things have gotten with my family though. We never fessed up to anything. Thank goodness the razzing is over! -
Would you play with soft swingers?
3sumff replied to BonnyaClyde's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
We don't care! When we started out we were a "soft swap" couple only. It was very short lived, because the thought of being sexual with the other person became to unbearable. We figured what was the point in that. We wanted to have sex! However, if we met a couple who wanted to start off slowly, "soft swap," we would be game. Its nice to play a different game once and awhile. Eventually, I believe the couple would be interested in a "full swap."