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We have set up social first time meets and been stood up and ghosted a couple times. Really makes you step back and reevaluate yourselves. The hardest example was a couple that introduced us into the world of bisexual play. We dated them for a number of months and enjoyed our playtime. Suddenly they seemed to move on. It would have been nice to have an email or text reply so we could at least have closure. Finally after 6 months they replied that they are just going into a vanilla relationship. True or not? At least we can now move on also.

It looks like we are about the longest so far. We were 31 years married and finally empty nesters looking to recharge what we had. I (hubby) was a bit more reserved and had the first time jitters but through communication and patience I was able to settle in and enjoy right along with her.

This is wonderful feedback from others who have had the same discussion as us. Our adventure of couple's dating has been unsuccessful. We did find a couple recently that was the perfect match except they had no desire to be exclusive so we could play bareback. That was the dream killer to my wife. So we continue to shop. Maybe we got spoiled that our first "Dating relationship" was with a single male that was our first connection and we were together for more than 2 years. Still we refer to our dream as "Married and Dating"

WOW Talk about finding a new level of shallow personality!!!!! Everyone is entitled to their opinion yet someone that is uninformed may read this and have a mindset of a nudist camp before ever experiencing it. As a couple that loves the nudist lifestyle, we see that most of the couples have a less impressive body type, and of course there is always those other pretty couples as well. Are we really going to let looks define our experience???? This couple says no.

I wish I could type some magical recipe that would make everything work out right for you. Sadly it sounds as if we had written your posting for you. It must be more common that people suspect.

We have not frequented the clubs for lack of anything local but have attended swinger events within our traveling distance. It seems to be more common for her to receive more of the attention from the males but somehow I have had better play results with my limited connections. We have the rule of asking each other as a courtesy and that takes away any finger pointing and tension that could arise later. In fact we both know that we are free to be present if the other finds any playtime. Nothing to hide, just getting pleasure from seeing our partner getting pleasure. Took a gazillion heart to heart talks to get to that point.

This sounds a little different and bit bit less judgemental than your original reply. I have never had a cock in my mouth and I may never but I am open to the idea if it becomes part of the play in a MfM My wife has a fantasy of both myself and the other male cumming inside of her and we get to lick it off of each other's cocks. Who am I to deny this wonderful little lady one of her fantasies? So yes I would do it but I am certainly not out shopping the internet for it to happen.

If we drove to any bar within a half hour looking for fun it would be our fault finding something dissapointing. We would be fortunate to find someone who knew what a razor and deoderant was. Always wander at least 2 or more hours away and just get ourselves a room for the night. If play partners are found we have a safe location to return to, if not we just fuck each other's brains out and call it a fun night anyway!

So, how about another perspective? As for us as a couple, we are open to new adventures. Our fun could be over tomorrow for some unknown reason so we hate to pass up an opportunity if it presents something new. The "Single Male" is an interesting creature. We can't lump them into one catagory. The one that we have no time for is the single male trying to play without the knowledge of his female partner. If they are married we ask that the female partner comes along with them for the first social meeting to confirm that they truly do have a hall pass. We have yet to have any takers on that scenario. My wife scans some sites on a daily basis in case that diamond in the rough happens to show up responding to our profile. She is also the type that is not looking for 32 glorious cock pics. If that is all you have to offer, just keep on moving. She says they have to get into her brain first before they will ever get in her pants. I never second guess her choices. She has a wonderful sense of sorting them out. Once they are screened they know that this is not a one time thing.They will need to be repeat offenders. It has worked for us to stay occupied while we search for those elusive couples for "Married and Dating".

I am not sure if this is the proper heading to place this question under but it is a first swinging experience for us. We have only played with a single male so far. He was with us for over 2 years so this delayed our bucketlist item of finding that couple for "Married and Dating". Now it seems as we may have located a couple to share an extended experience with. BUT getting to my question. As the other husband has spent time getting to know my wife it became apparent their fantasy together is for him to be her dom and she is more than willing to let him collar her and become his submissive. I would not say I am 100% in favor yet I know I don't have the knowledge to become a proper dom for her. The question I am asking is "How unusual is it for a wife to be collared to a man who is not her spouse. I imagine that is a talk I also need to have with the other wife who will undoubtedly become my playmate. Any thoughts/

We have 2 groups that have house parties and both of them have a closed secret Facebook group.

We can probably shine some light on this subject due to the fact that we are both nudist and poly swingers. For those with question marks in their brains, we refer to ourselves as poly swingers is because we will not hook up with a single or a couple for just one night. BUT back to the question. We live in a family oriented nudist club and despite our posititve attitude toward the lifestyle we do not mix swinging and nudism. I do notice negative comments from nudists about swingers and it does make me sad. Why we can't co-exist? We know of other swingers at our nudist camp but we do not interact. If things ended badly we would be seeing them on a daily basis, so we choose to refrain.

For us it isn't about size. That is one of the last things my wife looks at when perusing profiles. In fact she relishes the mystery. I have the good fortune of being a member of the 8" club so she actually prefers something smaller for some fun. Our last boyfriend was barely 6" but he had the most awesome upward curve to his erect penis. He could give her g-spot a working over that made me wonder at times if any hotel guests would call the police. She always had to have an absorbent pad underneath when fucking him because she would squirt pools of female cum with him. At first I was a bit intimidated but eventually fell into the comfort zone enjoying the fact that she could find this pleasure in her life. Happy wife, Happy life

If my wife would have asked me to stay close and keep an eye on her that would have been my number 1 mission. The time it took for her to become a rape victim is way longer than she should have taken to go to the bathroom. He carries nearly as much responsibility as the predator. Plus his casual attitude about the STD is unbelievable

I see by the responses the replies to this thread are many years old so this thread is dead already. Yet I felt compelled to answer for the both of us. We are not very excited about just swinging once and done. It has happened once for us and may happen again in the future when we just want to get naughty and get after another partner(s) but for us we are very poly minded. I am not able to understand the insecurities of so many of the replies so far. What makes it fun is to take that other person into our relationship and love him or her as our own. Our love is not that fragile that we have to be threatened by our partner professing a love for our exclusive sex partner(s). We had a male that stayed exclusive to us for over 2 years and now we have a oouple that are the only ones we see. We are able to mix social with sexual in our poly attitude toward swinging