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About polyamorous

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 10/01/1979

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    attached male
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    NY
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  1. I am an engaged male in a very happy and healthy relationship. Recently, my fiancee brought up the idea of polyamory and had someone specific in mind. I said ok with a very strict set of rules to begin with as I get comfortable with the idea. I am 35, consider myself to be handsome, athletic, intelligent, eat very healthy, take care of my body, good hygiene, profession career, nice guy, likeable person and have a great smile. I have been looking for a woman to date for myself on various dating websites. I let women know that I am in an open relationship, that I am looking for a friend to go on dates with and hang out. So far my experience has been extremely poor. I've sent out ~300 messages in the past two months and estimate the following, 80% no response, 15% spam/robots, 4% hookers and My fiancee is 25, gorgeous, athletic, eats very healthy, intelligent, outgoing with a great personality, etc. Her experience, on the other hand, has been the complete opposite. She doesn't even have to send out any messages, she gets flooded with messages from both males and females. She has a large amount of people to choose from and the flexibility of being picky with her choices. She has been very supportive and patient of me with this new open relationship adventure. She has even helped picked out my pictures and wrote my dating profile page. However, I am getting frustrated with the lack of responses and this isn't enjoyable at all for me. I am hoping to get some feedback from both men and women here. From the men, are you having similar experiences? From the women, what are women thinking? Are single women completely turned off by men in an open relationship? Are women only looking for serious relationships leading to marriage? What am I doing wrong?
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