Sophy

I do definitely recommend hormonal contraceptives; I am 40, in theory fertile, and I have been on birth control for years (Depo); on top of that, we use condoms except with our close friends and two couples where we play bareback. In the last ten years or so, three different fertile men have been ejaculating regularly inside me (including my husband), and we have never had any pregnancy scares.

Sex has always been a risk; I have known this since I started my sexual life when I was a teenager. We both do understand the risks, and we both manage them for us the outcome is much more rewarding, saying that this is our current situation: We do not use condoms for oral, for me the taste of the condoms is a big mood-breaker, flavour or no flavour, sucking on a piece of rubber is a bad experience for me. Also, most of the time, I handle the male orgasm in my mouth. We use condoms for penetration; we have condomless sex only with our closest friends, people we have known for years -> these are only two couples. I am HPV Vaccinated and we get tested twice a year. Once again, we both understand the risks; we made an adult decision.

We do get tested only twice a year, and we only play without condoms with the other two couples; as part of our "special group" agreement, they also get tested every six months. Condoms are demanded outside our "special group." I am HPV vaccinated Our Family doctor is aware of our Lifestyle, and no questions are asked

Bringing my play-partners to ecstasy is what I find more enjoyable in the lifestyle; I have never had any problems handling male orgasms in my mouth, cum is a reward for a well-done job.

Clearly, she wanted to feel used by you; that is a common fetish couples have; it can be very hot if it is done with someone you trust. The message was she felt comfortable enough with you to give you a blank check to her body. From a female perspective, I would expect kinky dominant rough sex involving face-fuck, anal and some dirty talking. Next time, don't be shy, have in mind that your actions will not only please her but for sure will please her partner who will be thrilled to watch or being told what you did to her

As a bi-woman, I do like to do oral to a girl as much as I like to receive it. Every woman is different; depending on our mood, we may want one thing or a mix of different things. Rather than relying on a particular technique, you should do it passionately and always pay attention to your play partner. Listen to her moans and breathing, and pay attention to the subtle movements she makes; she will guide you in the right direction. Do not be afraid to innovate or improvise at the moment; you will be surprised how many of us like to get our asses eaten, for example.

For hygiene and health reasons, I always use condoms for anal penetration, even with my husband and the couple of close friends that I have vaginal condomless intercourse. To each their own, but my preference is not to get penetrated vaginally if the dick was in an ass before, even if it was my ass; also not a fan of sucking a dick immediately after the dick was in an ass, but I suppose that I have done that inadvertently in parties.

In addition to my regular hygiene routine, I use an enema. During action time, any good lover knows that if you want my ass you have to earn it, that means: lots of lube and foreplay.

Like I said before: How can you have sex without foreplay? How can you have foreplay without kissing?

I don't know about other people, but if a girl goes down on me, fingers me, uses toys on me and makes me cum and vice-versa, It Does Count for us.

Most men I know and have been with, including my husband, wouldn't do such a thing, not in a million years, and to be honest, I do not know how I would feel if I saw one of them doing it; it may be the fact that I like my men straight, not judging, it is just my preference. Now, on the other side, I have always been very well known for being fond of cum, and a pussy dripping cum is one of those sights I can simply not resists, and most like, I would go down on her and make sure she is well-taken care. Also, I love it if it is the other way around, and I am the one "receiving the goods" and the posterior attention from another girl.

My Husband being a man may have a different take on this; but not me. I won't suck your dick or lick your pussy if I haven't been "prepared enough"

Wow, it seems like yesterday, and it has already been ten years…. We were very active and consistent; we attended dates, house parties and clubs almost every weekend; of course, some of these encounters were “repetitions with the same people”, but still significant enough numbers to lose count. Now, I can tell that, me being Bi and my husband being straight, I do outnumber him by a large margin. If I have to guess a number, I would say I did 30+ people in my first year; this includes all types of interactions, soft-swaps and full-swaps.

We do avoid people with the No-kissing rule, kissing is a crucial part of the interaction, How can you have sex without foreplay? How can you have foreplay without kissing?

No, I haven't tried DVP, I am not interested in getting stretched; on the other hand big YES to fucklicling, one of my favourite ways for the guys to finish.