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About eldiablo311

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  • Birthday 02/21/1975

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    Travel, snowboarding, golf
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    Wife with another wife one time/ discussing other possibilities with wife still
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  1. Hi, I'm curious what you guys think might be the best site/app for finding a fuck buddy (male) for my wife. We've been trying Kasidie for the the recent months and haven't had any luck. It's there a better site people are using these days? Thanks!
  2. Hi, just a quick update. We are very happily married still and still participating in the hotwifing lifestyle! In fact soon my wife has agreed it would be hot to find a regular fuck buddy for her. Also we booked a trip to Temptations, so we'll see what goes down when we go! Looking forward to it
  3. I was considering joining Kasidie for one year....but it is saying $29.95 for a whole year! Is that correct or am I reading that price wrong?
  4. Hi, Just looking to get advice on which site is the best for meeting potential playmates (for my wife). We had used SLS in the past, but I am not sure if that is the best one. Thanks!
  5. Yeah, it's no worries about them hooking up regularly, he lives in a different state and we only see him a couple times a year. She has no feelings towards him, other than him being a good friend, afterwards...she told me this. I believe her.
  6. So everything went well! My friend stayed with us, and on the second night, I proposed that they go into the bedroom for a couple of hours of "alone time", shut the door, and do whatever they wanted. They took me up on it. My wife sucked his cock, he ate her out, they made out, he fingered her....however, he was nervous and not sure about the situation I think so he never got fully hard, so unfortunately they didn't fuck and my wife didn't cum. He ended up jerking himself off next to her while she was touching and making out with him. Also my wife said from what she could tell he had a really small cock, like as small as the smallest guys she has ever been with. However, she did feel very comfortable with him. Honestly, afterwards, I was kinda surprised at how nothing changed between all of us....we literally all got along as if it never happened, no bad or weird feelings whatsoever!
  7. My long time friend is coming out to visit us, from another state, and staying with us in our tiny one bedroom apartment. My wife and this guy really like each other, have flirted many times, and I have told both of them they have the green light from me to fuck if they want. I feel like if they do actually fuck, the situation you describe above will be what happens between all of us. I haven't seen her with a guy that she REALLY likes... so if this goes down, I suspect I will feel the same as you did! I feel it will be very intense and hot!
  8. This is exactly how we feel. My wife doesn't want to feel like a cum dumpster for guys that don't care about her. That isn't enjoyable for her. Sex is only good for her if she likes the person she is fucking. I would think regardless of who the person is, friend or no friend, if you are fucking them, especially on a regular basis, you would have to have some sort of feelings for them. Also, with regard to my wife "seeing him behind my back", she is a very honest person and I don't think that could happen... secondly my friend lives 8hrs away from us by car, and third my wife would know I want her to fuck him so she wouldn't have any reason to hide the fact that she was going to fuck him if by chance they were together alone sometime somewhere without me.
  9. Sounds like a good time! I think it could very possibly work out that way for us too, just the way all of our personalities are. We will find out! He is staying with us in our 1 bedroom apt at the end of the month!
  10. Thanks for the advice! So I have been thinking about it a lot, and I think like you said we have thought it through for awhile and we are respect each other, and my wife and I love and respect each other very much. There really isn't a way to know for sure how it will all play out, but I think going into it with that is a good thing. Like you said as long as before we get into it, I want to make sure my wife knows I love and respect her very much, and I want to know she feels the same way about me (which she does, just want to hear her say it again)! Lol So far the plan is my buddy will come to town for a weekend, stay at our apartment, "sleep on the couch", and we will all hang out and have fun going out and coming back having some drinks. I have already let them both know I a 100% fine with anything happening, as long as my wife is wanting it to happen. I think that's all I need to do. Now, I just need to shut up about it, and sit back, without pressuring anything to happen, and watch. But if it goes down, I definitely want to be there to see it!
  11. Thanks everyone for the advise! So I have a little more time to explain the situation now. So we all went on that Mexico trip a couple of years ago and there was obvious flirting between the two, the skinny dipping between us three at night in the ocean, and him coming back to our room for drinks afterwards for several hours...more flirting, and the discussing of our situation/open marriage and how they are both attracted to each other, the whole time my wife was sitting next to him in just a robe, nothing underneath. They both said they would fuck each other, but we were all concerned about crossing that line of doing things with a good friend. Cut to now, we went to the Xmas party at my friends house last week, and she knew she had my full consent to flirt with him as much as she wanted as usual. It got pretty obvious, my friends noticed! Lol! They were on the couch holding hands and had hands on each others upper thighs. So after that I have talked with my wife and my buddy and let them both know that I am 100% good with them doing anything my wife is comfortable with doing. My wife seems really into him, and that has been the problem with other guys she has fucked since we have been together...she hasn't been into them, and she says she needs to feel comfortable with someone for the sex to be good. She was attracted to the guys she fucked at the time in the past, but they were one night stands she met out at a bar in Vegas or such, and so she didn't feel comfortable enough with them physically to cum or for it to be really good for her. So I feel like there is natural chemistry between her and my buddy and this could lead to a GREAT experience for both of them...my wife may even cum for the first time with another guy. This is a natural situation of chemistry and attraction and I feel there is mutual respect with my friend and respect and love between my wife and I. I asked my friend how he would feel if this happened, and how he would feel if it all ended eventually, and he said that he wouldn't "be hurt or weird if it stopped or if this step did not start at all...hope you all would be cool with it too!". So I feel like after knowing him all of these years, and how he is, and knowing my wife that this could work out great. Obviously there are unknowns and something bad COULD happen, but that is the case anytime you invite someone else into your bedroom I feel. Maybe I am justifying this, but I kinda want to see what happens, they are so into each other and my wife is always soo in control about her feelings and not getting into this. I want to see her lose her mind over another guy, not divorce me, but just be begging me for another man's cock. My wife has said many times, this is my fantasy, and if it is going to happen, it has to happen on her terms and naturally...so I feel this is the most natural situation we have come across. They have obvious chemistry and attraction. What do you all think?
  12. Nothing happened, but there was a lot of flirting and skinny dipping happened between us three. So an update is we went to a party with my friends, and the friend that my wife likes (and he likes her too), the one that went to Mexico with us was there. My wife was hitting on him big time, I gave her the green light to flirt with him as much as she wanted. He LOVED it! Anyways now we are all talking about a possibility of him coming to our town for a visit, staying with us, and seeing what happens. I told both of them they have my permission to do whatever my wife is comfortable with, including fucking. Do you think this is a good idea? I guess it's hard to say...I know everyone is different. I really respect my friend and he respects me. We have been long time friends. My wife is very respectful and honest...so is my friend, so I feel like it could be a good thing. What do you guys think?
  13. Thank you for you words of wisdom! We really appreciate it!! We will use the tips you mentioned to "weed" out flakes, and others we don't want to meet. I am glad your wife stayed with you!! Lol I think as long as your wife and you go into it with the understanding that it will be an experience primarily for the too of you and that, you will respect the other person's feelings, but ultimately this is for you and your wife and the 3rd person is a temporary passenger in your relationship...then things will go smoother. That is the mentality we are approaching this with. I feel like if you have strong communication, love, and understanding of the goal/rules, then there is a much better chance of having success and a great time together! A great adventure together! Lol
  14. Thanks for the advice!! Any other thoughts are much appreciated!
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