This was a wonderful thread to read this morning!
Yes, it is all in the attitude, I have seen people big and small with attitudes
that I dont care for, but I must say, some of the kinkiest people I know
are not height/weight porportionate
BBW is in! Trust me, I know (now). However, I do relate to your concerns about weight, I felt the same way when I first started out. You will soon find out that people are more interested in your personality than you size.