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- Birthday 07/21/1973
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Couple
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Location
Lansing, Michigan
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Interests
We're outdoorsy, biologist types.
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Swinging Experience
3 years
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2lakeluvrs
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lakeluvrs started following How big does penis need to be?, Do you find red heads sexy?, Use of Cialis or other male enhancers and and 3 others
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The first time was fine for us. I could tell the Mrs. was totally owning the other guy. (My wife has muscle control that can reduce grown men to tears.) So I was really enjoying watching him try to last longer than 30 seconds. It was extremely arousing to see her doing that to him. My wife had a little bit of jealousy because the girl was very petite and pretty and was one of those that looked even better naked than partially clothed. But that jealousy went away quickly and it was a great night. The problem for me was a year or so into our swinging career when we were with a couple we'd played with once before and in the middle of it my wife quit her moaning long enough to scream that she was coming. That's when the jealousy siren went off in my head. I can only make her come from intercourse with no other help about once every 50 times, and here was this dude doing it on his second attempt. And it wasn't just any old come, this was a walls-falling-down orgasm. When the initial shock wore off, I realized the jealousy part of the brain must be wired to the arousal part, because while I was worrying about the fact that this guy had just given her better sex than I ever had, I was also thinking "I hope we can meet these people next weekend so he can do it again!" Now I hope to have that jealousy/arousal every time. It's one of the greatest highs I've ever had.
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If they have big brown eyes, I'm drooling all over them. Any woman with brown eyes gets me going, but red hair seems to add extra sparkle to the eyes. Reference Kari Byron from Mythbusters.
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Use of Cialis or other male enhancers
lakeluvrs replied to midnightplayer's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
I've heard some good reviews from guys we've played with, and since I sometimes have problems with nerves (or whatever) keeping me "down" during play I'd love to try out one of these meds. But how would I get them? I don't really want to lie to my doctor and say I have regular ED, because I don't. Tell the doctor I'm a swinger and sometimes need an extra boost? My doctor is female and that would make me feel rather awkward. Buy them from some dude in a gas station parking lot?- 38 replies
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I'm about 5.5", which they say is average, but to judge by the people we play with and what I see in the locker room, I'd say I'm below average. The funny thing is, swinging has actually taken away most of my insecurity about it. We've played with some couples where the guy was a good 7-8 and the woman has seemed to really enjoy my efforts (even passed on good reviews about me to my wife while they chatted privately.) So I no longer feel that awkwardness when we all disrobe and my little guy makes his first appearence. And the really ironic part of this is that my wife has discovered she really enjoys the occasional large (8") guy. She admits a large one feels different and in some ways better. So now, I'm hoping to see a guy bigger than me when we play!
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Trouble Getting Hard During and AFTER the swing
lakeluvrs replied to soulmates's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
That's happened to me several times. It all seems to be mental. In a couple cases it happened because I was detecting that the woman wasn't really into me or maybe didn't want to be in the situation at all. That's really awkward and makes me not want to have sex with her, thus no erection. She's really hot and naked and lying there with her legs spread, and her husband is banging my wife's brains out five feet away, but my brain is saying "something's not right here" and the penis shuts down. Other times it's just from thinking too much. As soon as I relax with a couple, it pops up with no problem. Now, with the couple we play with fairly regularly, I have trouble keeping it from getting hard when we run into them in the grocery store! -
Who brought up the idea of swinging? OR has it been brought up?
lakeluvrs replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Swingers Talk
My wife wanted to have a girl-girl experience, so I brought up the idea of a FMF and she thought that was great. When we discovered how difficult it is to find a F for casual FMF, we just slipped into couple swapping...and the rest is history. -
Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?
lakeluvrs replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Swingers Talk
I suppose you'd call us experienced. We've played with 10 or 11 couples. Mostly it's full swap same room play. Our next foray will likely be into MFM, or more precisely my wife playing with a guy while I watch. Not sure if that's cuckoldry or hotwife or what the term for it is. I lose track of all the terminology. We'd also like to try a house party sometime. All of our party experience is off-premises so we always ended up one-on-one in a room. -
Should we wait because of our weight?
lakeluvrs replied to cupl4fun's topic in Look and Feel Your Best!
I think the only thing that matters is how YOU feel about your weight. We are taking a swinging break right now largely (pun intended) because we've put on weight the past year. The Mrs. and I both have bellies now, while I used to be pretty flat and she was a curvy but not flabby shape. A lot of people would still give their left arm to play with us - or so they tell me when I share recent nude photos - but the problem is that the Mrs. and I both feel "blah" about our bodies right now. That means we won't enjoy being naked and playing with others as much. We won't let loose as much. As soon as we feel better we'll be back in the game. And it may not be weight loss that does it so much as just being more active in the summer making us feel better about our bodies. It's not how we look, just how we feel about it. I'd say if you're comfortable with your bodies, a lot of other people will be very comfortable with your bodies. -
Cuddling - Snuggling and time limits
lakeluvrs replied to two_for_fun1027's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
We're brand new, but I hope you don't mind me adding to this. It's something that we gave thought to. We originally had a no-kissing rule. That was the thing we'd keep as our personal thing that wasn't shared with others. We were also same-room only. Well, over time we tried seperate room, and then we let the kissing thing go out the window. We've come to realize our walks in the woods and our conversations about life and things like that are the bond we have that we don't (can't!) share with others. Anything physical is pretty much fair game in play. Now, the cuddling thing... Back when we we had the no-kissing rule we were playhing in a room after a party and the guy and my wife finished up with what seemed like pretty spectacular mutual orgasms from the sounds of it. His wife and I were still busy, but I looked over and the guy and my wife were spooned together and he was just caressing her in the most "loving" way. I did get a sudden surge of jealousy from that. Then a couple things hit me. First, they had just had earth-shaking sex and both climaxed and they were doing what comes naturally. Second, my wife was in heaven. She was watching me do my thing, which she loves - AND she was getting a post-orgasm cuddle, which she also adores. How could I not be happy about that? Since then, we decided our rule is to do whatever comes naturally. I think if we ever do seperate room again we might have a time limit. The one time we did it, me and the other woman were sitting talking long enough that we debated going back in the room for another round. Afterwards I discovered it was because the other man liked long foreplay while his wife and I apparently like getting to immediate business.