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Well to all of you who know of me, I must tell you that the Mrs. and I have finally had our first threesome! I thought I might be a little weirded out by watching another man fuck my wife, but I wasn't. But there is one thing that concerns me. After he and I tagged-team her, she still has not had her orgasm. She suggests that the 2 of them go again because she is so close. Well they did, and she sang like I have never been able to make her do before. Now, this threesome is her b-day present, and the man is one that she has had sex with before during a trial open marriage. So I definitely wanted to her to get off, but feel a little (read: a hell of a lot!) jealous that it was him who got her off in that matter. Other than that one sticking point, I must say that I had good time as well watching her play out her fantasy of D/s, and mfm. Any ideas on how to counter this feeling? I don't want to ruin the memory of last night(5/25/04) for feeling jealous.

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Men aren't the only ones who have "performance" issues, it's just that for women it's not as obvious and typically manifests itself in different ways.... 1. We have a hard time getting wet, but more likely it's 2. It takes a lot longer than normal for us to have an orgasm (if we can at all). So this being your first 3some there's a lot of anxiety involved. On her end she's worried about how you feel seeing her with another guy (are you jealous, is she doing anything that might make you upset?, etc). So keep all that in mind.

 

That's not to discount your feelings as there are just as many thoughts running through your head before and after. Which leads me to one question. Was there an option of YOU going again with her to be the one to get her off? Or were you still recovering? If it had not been him, would she have gotten off at all? Keep in mind that often with us ladies if we are close and we don't get it THEN, waiting and starting is like starting all over again and she may never have.

 

If it was a situation where you and he were both ready to go again and she chose him over you then I can see where that would lead to some jealousy, and the only answer I can give you there is "new toy syndrome" (even if she's had him before, he's the rarity whereas you she can have anytime, which means even again after he leaves or you guys get home).

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I totally agree with Julie on the performance thing. Us females have the same problem as guys, its just thought about as much I think b/c its not so "visual," lol. We haven't had too many experiences, 2 couples & a few mfm. They have been spread out over a 2 year period, so everytime we have an experience it sort of feels like the first time all over again. I have yet to have had an orgasm by another guys at all. Your girl just might have been nervous & it just so happened the orgasm happened with him. But never discount your feelings. They are very natural & justified. I would sit down & talk with her. Chances are talking about it yo her & explaining how you feel & her explaining the situation will help. Like I said we haven't had too many experiences, sometimes we have a little jealous feeling, but we talk about it, then it feels all better!

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Well, try thinking of it this way: you both were responsible for getting her close. It just so happened that he was the one that took her over the edge. It could just have easily been you, right?

 

I wonder though, if this has anything to do with you knowing of her previous experience with him? Perhaps it's something to ponder anyway... :)

 

-B

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knowing that you love her and she loves you, and you want to see her happy and satisified then thats what it's about. also she went home with you that's all that counts. my opinion with mfm is that it is for the enjoyment of all especially for the female. she gets the well deserved attention. that's my thoughts whatever it's worth

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I enjoy watching my wife have fantastic orgasms with our playmate. When the two of us make love, she gets off several times, but when we have a threesome, the newness of the other man is obviously more erotic and often he is the one who brings her to climax most often. After all, the MFM threesomes are what makes her fantasies come true and I'm glad she enjoys them.

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This is a good question, and one that I’ve somewhat faced, but not to this extent. My wife and I have only been in this lifestyle for three months and we have had two experiences with one couple and been to two private parties, where my wife got jiggy wit’ it at both (the most recent last weekend). So here are my feelings as a newbie.

 

My wife didn’t orgasm in either of the two experiences with the other couple, or at the first party where four guys went down on her one after the other and then I got her off when I went down on her. She said one of the guys was really good at giving oral, but she just couldn’t get over the edge until I took over, because, she says, it was the familiarity of being me.

 

At the party last weekend we ended up in a bedroom with another couple but the experience was strictly between the girls, and she came hard with the other woman. It took her quite a while even though my wife said she was really good at oral, it was me there kissing her and telling her I want to see her cum that did it. The common denominator in the equation both times was me in one-fashion-or-another. Which is really cool.

 

Now, my wife is very vocal and physical when she comes; body jerking, spasms, etc. So watching her cum is exciting in-of-itself. The woman’s husband was thoroughly wowed by it. And for a little while afterward I felt kind of strange because for the first time I watched someone else make her cum really hard, as hard as I do. I think watching a man make her cum like that would be even harder (male ego I guess). It boils down to even though I want her to have a really good time, I don’t want to be playing second chair in my own band, either. So I understand how you are feeling. And how do you talk to her about it without making her feel guilty about having fun?

 

I think one thing to remember (and I tell myself over and over) is that the sex is not better, it’s just different. And sometimes it is the situation, not the other partner that makes it so good. She probably would have cum just as hard with you. Do you remember sex with another woman that was really good and more memorable than regular old home bedroom sex because maybe it was the situation? Maybe you did it where you could be caught? Or it was really spontaneous? Same thing. You don't pine for it, it's just a memory. It’s not BETTER than sex with your spouse, it was just DIFFERENT and the situation was DIFFERENT.

 

Now, the only thing that would personally hurt my feel-bads, and maybe is really bothering you, is that she could (should?) have picked you to finish, but she didn’t. Add to it that it was an ex-lover just multiplies the feelings you are having (this is the reason we have a “no ex” rule).

 

At the party where the four guys went down on my wife, one of their wife’s was going down on me while her husband ate my wife out, and after we finished and stepped back from the group, all the other guys pounced on her. What I loved the most as I watched was when the time came and she was ready to go home, she pushed them all aside, straddled her husband and finished the night with him, in front of everyone. The message we all got was “you were all great, BUT THIS IS MY MAN.” Even if she did cum with them, she finished the night with her husband. It was really cool to see happen, and had to be a big ego booster for hubby.

 

This might be the real cause of your anxiety. I know it would be mine. You need to get to the heart of why you feel this way, and then present it to her in a non-confrontational manner that says “it’s okay that you had a great time, and watching you have a great time was a real turn-on for me, but next time I would appreciate it if you…” I bet she does, too.

 

You two are really, really new, and toes will be stepped-on on both sides, so openly communicating about it will be very important. With every experience we are finding new things out that we never thought of.

 

WS

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mxd,

 

I have heard Mrs naughty say things and make noises that I have never heard while I was fucking her.

 

The way I look at it is that is why we got into the lifestyle. I want her to enjoy pleasures she has never known. What would the fun be if it wasnt as good or better than me. I think alot has to do with the fact that she is feeling like a slut. That Really turns her on. The feeling that she is being a naughty little slut factored in with the fact the guy she is fucking knows what he is doing is a combination that sends her over the top.

 

And all I can do is :claps:

 

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She suggests that the 2 of them go again because she is so close. ..... but feel a little (read: a hell of a lot!) jealous that it was him who got her off in that matter.....

 

I wouldnt feel jealous about that. I know thats easy to say but the way I look at it he is there to make her cum. He is the stunt cock. Think about it... She is having a MFM and is about ready to cum. Does she want the cock she gets every night or the "strange" cock. Of course it is going to be the "strange" cock. If that wasnt a big turn on for her she wouldnt be there. Mrs naughty will usualy have an orgasm with me at least once in an MFM but doesnt always. When we do a MFM the night belongs to her.

 

I will admit that sometimes I will think to myself..."Holy shit, I have never made her sound that way".... Then I just smile and think "Your right and thats exactly why your here." Its all about her! :)

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Thanks to all who replied! Let me start off by saying that I wanted her to finish and get the full effect of being ravished. Yes I too believe that it was the "new toy" syndrome but at the same time she knew he was recovered enough and I was still recovering. Also interestingly enough, his technique was very different from mine, now that I remember it all. But I will chalk it up to a trade-off.

 

He is into the bdsm lifestyle, something that she has an interest in. He was there to train both of us, me to Dom/ her to sub. So I knew sex was going to be a part of it, and I wanted to share my wife's fantasy of taking on two men. We had already done as much as two guys could do, and she still wanted more. So I left the room so she could concentrate on her orgasm, and let them go at it again.

 

I will say that I have come a long way from when she first met him(I was devastated, but I had agreed to it) and was completely comfortable with eveything that was going on. It was just that I have only brought her to g spot orgasm during intercourse twice in 7 years and it was during a lengthy session for that matter( clitoral orgasms aplenty! ;) ). After thinking it over, I must conclude that it was all about positions, and having seen the way he did it, I know that I will too. Just had to be awakened from boring, routine-sex and I think this did the trick. And to tnohcpl, you're right :) . This beautiful creature is at home, with me. And that makes all the difference.

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Hey Naughty's! I just saw your post! You're right, he was the stunt cock, and I have to admit she loved being a little slut for both of us. I agree that the fact of him knowing what he was doing and her being naughty about it was enough to do it. I guess in my head I'm plotting how to use that to make it better for us in our personal playtime. But you once said that it was a great turn on to see your wife in ecstasy during these encounters, and now I see why! So to you a very big Texas thank you!

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I guess in my head I'm plotting how to use that to make it better for us in our personal playtime.

 

Thats easy!!

Talk to her about how much she liked it!!

 

It will send both of you thru the roof!!!! :fun:

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mxd,

I will admit that sometimes I will think to myself..."Holy shit, I have never made her sound that way".... Then I just smile and think "Your right and thats exactly why your here." Its all about her! :)

 

Yup! That's it! Certainly how we view things.

 

It's also a good way for me to learn a bit more about doing things even better for Red facelick

 

I must say I haven't (yet) found myself feeling jealous in any MMF encounter, just totally turned on. Red does make a point of ending up with me anyway, which serves to reinforce our bonds - not something we ever conciously decided to do, it just always happens that way. We discussed this thread (after I printed it out for her) and concluded that the only chance of either of us feeling any sort of jealousy in any encounter (MMF or MFMF) would be if one of us was feeling in any way left out of the proceedings. Since we do make a point of being aware of how each other is getting along (and the watching each other is so much part of the fun) I doubt it's likely to happen.

 

As usual the rest of you guys have covered all the bases pretty well, so I'll leave it at that.

 

(I do seem to be picking up a lot of Americanisms reading the board!)

 

CB

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One other thing to consider regarding MFM is what happens afterwards. When I've been invited into a threesome as "stunk cock" (I like that term!), I invariable talk with the couple after the big event. That's when I learn that, while the threesome was an erotic blast, the play they have afterwards between just the two of them is even more intense! Then I'm the one who's jealous! :)

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When I've been invited into a threesome as "stunk cock"

 

 

"Stunk cock"? That's an odd kink...

 

:D

 

Spoomonkey

 

PS - The payoff in the lifestyle is DEFINITELY the play afterwards... We had a single friend over and had a great time (We used him as a "stunt cock" - because he was fairly hygenic...). But as - good as the encounter was - me and the missus still spent another hour and a half "debriefing"...

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But as - good as the encounter was - me and the missus still spent another hour and a half "debriefing"...

 

I envy you! We ALL had to get up early the next day, go to work, etc. No debriefing yet, but we keep the comm lines open. I am quickly building to the point of just coming home and taking her right then :8-0:::lol:.

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PS - The payoff in the lifestyle is DEFINITELY the play afterwards...

 

Absolutely!!

 

That was what did wonders for my batting average the other week.... :D

 

Didn't do any harm yesterday either!

 

CB

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"Stunk cock"? That's an odd kink...

 

:D

 

Sheesh. How embarrassing is that? :eek: [Hunting feverishly for the "t" key and a king size bottle of disinfectant....]

 

I suppose I could edit my message, but where would the fun be in that? :o

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Originaly posted by mxd:

I envy you! We ALL had to get up early the next day, go to work, etc. No debriefing yet,

 

Mrs naughty and I have made it a rule not to swing on a night where we both have to work the next day. Mainly because we work different shifts so we do not get to enjoy that day after "Bonding" you get after a night of swinging.

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Mrs naughty and I have made it a rule not to swing on a night where we both have to work the next day.

 

I will definitely remember this rule for the next time. Not only did we not do anything (more sex, talk, etc.) I was so charged from the experience I did not go to sleep until mid morning, and had to be at work at 3p.m. So needless to say I was a walking zombie all day long :lol: .

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having feelings means that you are a human and not an wild animal, so feeling a bit jealous is ok, talk with her, may she was turned on by the fact that you are there watching. and after all, there is the possessive dysfunctional jealousy and the sweet romantic, I'm sure you fall in the 2nd cat.

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One other thing to consider regarding MFM is what happens afterwards. When I've been invited into a threesome as "stunk cock" (I like that term!), I invariable talk with the couple after the big event. That's when I learn that, while the threesome was an erotic blast, the play they have afterwards between just the two of them is even more intense! Then I'm the one who's jealous! :)

 

Me and my girlfriend just had our first MFM threesome this weekend and after he left we had the most amazing sex we've had in a year. Doing a running commentary of how nasty she was the whole time lol

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"He is into the bdsm lifestyle, something that she has an interest in. He was there to train both of us, me to Dom/ her to sub. So I knew sex was going to be a part of it, and I wanted to share my wife's fantasy of taking on two men. We had already done as much as two guys could do, and she still wanted more. So I left the room so she could concentrate on her orgasm, and let them go at it again."

I disagree with this. If someone is into BDSM lifestyle and training someone to be dom/sub this DOES NOT mean sex is a part of it. My master teachings BDSM and powerplay to lot of couples and individuals. And his primary choice is to make the couples learn through there own experiences initially. I understand your wife's fantasy involve other male. But someone who is supposed to teach should also make sure YOU are well aware of why it's being done and the principles of powerplay.If the sessions turns into FFM or MMF or MMFF full swap you always stay the Master the alpha male for your wife. That's the first rule of powerplay and control. Less jealousy issues that way. Since she will be under your command even if others are involved. And under your command doesn't mean you have to always participate. In MMF Even if she's with some other guy, her mind will make that experience more intense because she would know you are watching or participating. Master-slave relationship is true dominance and submission. And from my FFM/FFF experience, just the presence of my master in the room gives me the best sexual experience of my life even if he is just watching.

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I am not sure why, for round 2, your wife had to select one or the other of you rather than going forward for a second round. Given that she did, it was "good form" that she would choose the guest rather than the husband.

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On 5/26/2004 at 3:17 PM, mxdtxn774 said:

Well to all of you who know of me, I must tell you that the Mrs. and I have finally had our first threesome! I thought I might be a little weirded out by watching another man fuck my wife, but I wasn't. But there is one thing that concerns me. After he and I tagged-team her, she still has not had her orgasm. She suggests that the 2 of them go again because she is so close. Well they did, and she sang like I have never been able to make her do before. Now, this threesome is her b-day present, and the man is one that she has had sex with before during a trial open marriage. So I definitely wanted to her to get off, but feel a little (read: a hell of a lot!) jealous that it was him who got her off in that matter. Other than that one sticking point, I must say that I had good time as well watching her play out her fantasy of D/s, and mfm. Any ideas on how to counter this feeling? I don't want to ruin the memory of last night(5/25/04) for feeling jealous.

I totally understand you bro. My question is why would she ask him to go for a second round and not ask her husband which is you to go for second round with her to get her to orgasm. That would be my question to her, I’m standing right next to this man and you pick him to finish you off and why would you make that choice over me? I totally get what you’re saying and don’t let anyone tell you that your feelings don’t matter. I know I would be a bit confused and a bit angry. Especially if she says she is close to an orgasm, there’s no way I would think that she would not choose me to finish her off but she was a different dude. I think that is way out of bounds.

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On 5/26/2004 at 4:30 PM, JustAskJulie said:

Men aren't the only ones who have "performance" issues, it's just that for women it's not as obvious and typically manifests itself in different ways.... 1. We have a hard time getting wet, but more likely it's 2. It takes a lot longer than normal for us to have an orgasm (if we can at all). So this being your first 3some there's a lot of anxiety involved. On her end she's worried about how you feel seeing her with another guy (are you jealous, is she doing anything that might make you upset?, etc). So keep all that in mind.

 

That's not to discount your feelings as there are just as many thoughts running through your head before and after. Which leads me to one question. Was there an option of YOU going again with her to be the one to get her off? Or were you still recovering? If it had not been him, would she have gotten off at all? Keep in mind that often with us ladies if we are close and we don't get it THEN, waiting and starting is like starting all over again and she may never have.

 

If it was a situation where you and he were both ready to go again and she chose him over you then I can see where that would lead to some jealousy, and the only answer I can give you there is "new toy syndrome" (even if she's had him before, he's the rarity whereas you she can have anytime, which means even again after he leaves or you guys get home).

Julie, just to make these clear my husband and I love your comments on all subjects!!!!!

 

I’m not gonna say I disagree with you but I’m just gonna say what the way I feel, by the way this is Badgers Wife. 
 

if this woman just had a threesome and one of them being her husband with a additional partner. And this woman just got finished having sex with both of them but almost getting to a orgasm, I’m not sure that I would be able to not look at my beast of fury being my husband and have him finish me off. The boy toy already had his chance with me with addition of my husband, why would I not let my husband finish me off to a orgasm and choose the boy toy over my husband. That just seems pretty callous  and of course my husband would be upset especially if he is passed over by his own wife. Or am I seeing things not correctly, I just can’t see purposely picking someone over my husband when the boy toy already had a chance at me. 

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On 5/26/2004 at 7:11 PM, BradAndJanet said:

Well, try thinking of it this way: you both were responsible for getting her close. It just so happened that he was the one that took her over the edge. It could just have easily been you, right?

 

I wonder though, if this has anything to do with you knowing of her previous experience with him? Perhaps it's something to ponder anyway... :)

 

-B

It wasn’t just so happens, she picked the boy toy to finish her off. It was her choice to do that. It just didn’t happen by coincidence

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On 5/27/2004 at 2:20 AM, Guest Mr&Mrs-naughty said:

mxd,

 

I have heard Mrs naughty say things and make noises that I have never heard while I was fucking her.

 

The way I look at it is that is why we got into the lifestyle. I want her to enjoy pleasures she has never known. What would the fun be if it wasnt as good or better than me. I think alot has to do with the fact that she is feeling like a slut. That Really turns her on. The feeling that she is being a naughty little slut factored in with the fact the guy she is fucking knows what he is doing is a combination that sends her over the top.

 

And all I can do is :claps:

 

As far as :

 

 

 

I wouldnt feel jealous about that. I know thats easy to say but the way I look at it he is there to make her cum. He is the stunt cock. Think about it... She is having a MFM and is about ready to cum. Does she want the cock she gets every night or the "strange" cock. Of course it is going to be the "strange" cock. If that wasnt a big turn on for her she wouldnt be there. Mrs naughty will usualy have an orgasm with me at least once in an MFM but doesnt always. When we do a MFM the night belongs to her.

 

I will admit that sometimes I will think to myself..."Holy shit, I have never made her sound that way".... Then I just smile and think "Your right and thats exactly why your here." Its all about her! :)

Badgers wife,

 

So you’re saying that if your wife is having sex with you her husband and another man and she is close to coming and both of you are standing there ready and she chooses the playmate over you instead of asking you to finish your off. You would be OK with that. I seem to think that is far-fetched. The idea that you were not catch feelings if your wife chose someone over you in this situation is laughable.

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5 hours ago, findinganswers said:

Been reading your responses regarding what’s right or wrong, you are too opinionated when you have no experience. Like others I wonder what your agenda is. Are you preaching on the sins of the mind? Swinging involves letting you and a partner enjoy others not just you. 100% I would want my friend finish off my wife, I get to do that everyday. Unless you are comfortable with that you should not swing and should not make statements on other’s wants. 

Why is that when someone has an opinion and when they are learning about the lifestyle and they have a question or or question what somebody is doing or what somebody is saying, its always some response, you’re not in the lifestyle so you have no opinion at all. Don’t you think that’s a little rude to tell someone you should not have an opinion at all because you aren’t in the lifestyle even though you are learning about it. I have been to a club with a friend of mine and his wife and it wasn’t a very good time  and my wife freaked out. But yes I am not in the lifestyle completely but I’m sitting here learning from everyone else. So regardless I still have an opinion. Sorry if you don’t like that.

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45 minutes ago, 10thBadger said:

Why is that when someone has an opinion and when they are learning about the lifestyle and they have a question or or question what somebody is doing or what somebody is saying, its always some response, you’re not in the lifestyle so you have no opinion at all. Don’t you think that’s a little rude to tell someone you should not have an opinion at all because you aren’t in the lifestyle even though you are learning about it. I have been to a club with a friend of mine and his wife and it wasn’t a very good time  and my wife freaked out. But yes I am not in the lifestyle completely but I’m sitting here learning from everyone else. So regardless I still have an opinion. Sorry if you don’t like that.

Because swinging is complicated and a different experience for different people.  And for some reason without having any experience you seem to be coming to a lot of conclusions about the lifestyle which is kind of odd.  You're taking the position of what should and shouldn't happen or how people should or shouldn't feel about certain things and the experience and emotions involved in it are far more complex than you are making them out to be.

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OK anybody outside of the lifestyle that is learning, nobody should comment because you don’t know anything. Good to know!! But I guess all my years of life experience chip and count for anything because I am outside of the lifestyle even though I am learning about it. Great thanks for the support

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1 hour ago, 10thBadger said:

OK if you say so great have a wonderful evening

If only that were true. Ever notice very few engage on your comments and even less ❤️ your posts? You have no idea how many have put you on the Ignore Poster list. 
You are truly a badger, annoying and pestering. ☮️ 

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You are most likely seeing things correctly for yourself and your marriage as is your right.

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      The guy that went in there with us, quickly got naked and tugged at her red thong. She took it off and handed it to me. This whole time, she was playing with my dick, it's about 5.5". The guy was much larger, about 7". She looked at it and winked at me. She told him she likes it rough.
       
      He had it fully up and moved close to her pussy. She stared into my eyes, grabbed his dick and guided it to rub her pussy. He took his clue and shoved it in. She reminded him to not be gentle. He obliged and fucked her like a whore. She begged for more by saying, "Oh yeah, fuck me, fuck me hard...look babe, he is fucking me so good, he is so big, look, he is fucking your wife right in front of you....oh yeah, fuck me." About four other guys and a couple were now watching her get fucked. I asked her if I should tell them to leave, she said no, she likes it. She slowly turned to them so they can get the full view of a dick in her pussy while she was playing with mine. 
       
      Once the guy got done, she said, "Okay honey, this was awesome," and kissed me multiple times thanking me for a great experience. She said she wanted to stay for a few before we walked out. She wanted to walk around and be noticed as the woman who had just been fucked, since rest of the crowd was just hanging out.
       
      We cannot wait to do it again.  
       
    • By Skhan
      It's a long ride on your way to your first threesome.  No matter if you are driving 2 hours or 2 minutes, it seems like you are forever getting there.

      You don't know if the thoughts in your mind or the blood in your cock will explode first.
       
      You have nothing to go on but a few grainy photos; usually one, maybe two if you are lucky.  And the eyes... the eyes are always blotted out in those photos. No one wants to be recognized by friends or family.  They never realize that friends or family would have to be swinging to see those grainy photos in the swinger magazines.  Those "dirty" magazines hidden in the back of the combination book store/record shop.
       
      Yes, you were nervous going to the checkout with those swinger mags, purchasing some mediocre cd or magazine to hide from the other patrons the depravity of the sex acts dominating your thoughts.  The relief you feel when you are sitting in your car with your treasure.  The thrill of looking through the candidates, sifting through the obese or obnoxious looking couples to find that perfect gem, the one couple that displays "couple or single male wanted."  You don't focus on the husbands, just the wives to see if they are hot.  Hell, they don't have to be hot, just the average to middling females who aren't looking for 10 inch cocks.  They nearly all ask for 10 inch cocks for a 7 inch cock holster.  You curse your parents for the mediocrity of your birth right.
       
      You find a few candidates. You mail to the reference number on the photo c/o the magazine forwarding service, enclose your Polaroids....and wait.  You buy an answering machine...and wait.  You check your messages for two weeks...and wait.  You wait and you masturbate to the thoughts of what you want to happen.  The answer doesn't come by phone, but by mail.  The couple writes and expresses interest.  Apparently your cock pick wasn't all that mediocre, or it's your young flesh she desires more than the cervix pounding from the other bullish candidates.  
       
      They send photos. Colored ones. Kodachrome.
       
      They give you a phone number. A city two hours away. They are a better than average couple.  No heavy weights. He is bi, she is straight. Your are 24.  They are 33 and 35.  You haven't tried bisexuality before, but your heart is racing now, anticipating something new, something erotic...your first threesome.
       
      You call the number. The wife answers and you give them the phony last name that you made up on the letter, and they give you the phony last name that they made up.  It's part of the game.   You banter nervously. They ask questions. You ask questions.  "What do you enjoy?"  "Do you like anal?"  "Do you like cum in your mouth?"  It doesn't matter.  If they said that they were going to cut your throat afterward, you would still go.  You are hooked. You set up a weekend meet at a motel at their location. King-size bed. Hard to explain to the motel clerk why you are asking for a king-size bed.  They don't ask. They've seen it all.
       
      The husband picks you up at the motel. Nice guy. Personable. Not his first rodeo. He drives you to their place, which is a surprise, but you are so nervous that you don't remember the address or how to get there. You go in. You meet the wife and son. She doesn't disappoint.  She is a looker. The teenage son is off to a friend's place and you are just someone going to a party with his parents. He doesn't know that you will be soon fucking his mother.  After the son leaves, they show you photos of their past swinging adventures.  If you had doubts, then now you are sure that this isn't their first rodeo.  Your cock or your mind. Both are about to explode.
       
      They follow you back to the hotel room that you rented.  Locked door, "Do not Disturb" sign.
       
      She kisses her husband and it starts. The disrobing. You are nervous. What to do first. Follow their lead and try not to appear overbearing or demanding.  She's on the bed, and he dives into a mouthful of vaginal bliss. You nervously start kissing her, massaging her breast, kissing her nipples.  Then you get on your knees and present your mediocre cock for her to devour.  She doesn't hesitate.  She has your cock buried down her throat while the husband buries his tongue in her bush.  The husband comes up for air, and moves to her breast, teasing.  You move to the holy of holies.  You lick, suck, and drink in the juices, probing with deep tongue thrusts, tasting the walls of her vaginal cavity while she is licking the husband's cock. Your member is not much different than his. You are relieved.  
       
      The position changes. She lays on her side. He enters her vagina from the rear, leaving her clitoris exposed. She discussed this with you on the phone.  Licking her while her husband fucks.  You go down and start to lick that clitoris, less than a inch from the pounding cock. You remember that he is bi. He wants this. You hesitantly reach up, and start to cradle his jewels, all the time her juices mingles with the fleshy taste of cock.  You can't bring yourself to put his cock in your mouth, so you go on licking the clit and fondling the balls until he grunts and fills her with cum.  He withdraws. You switch position.  His cum lubricates her vagina.  There is nothing sloppy about these seconds. You pound her while he licks and returns the favor of cradling your balls.  He doesn't suck you off, not sure if you will be offended. It doesn't matter he says. They just love fucking.  
       
      You release your semen into her, and you all relax, sitting and talking while a double load of cum streams from her pussy. You regret what the hotel maids will have to clean up. She pees. Returns. The ritual starts again. This time the cunnilingus is mixed with unfamiliar flavors. His cum. Your cum.  You don't give a fuck.  The thrill of the three-way has over ridden any social mores that you were raised with.
       
      More sex. More bi touching. This time you pull out and shoot your cum over her.  With that baptism, the holy rites have been completed. There are photos and kisses given. Promises of future sex.
       
      This was your first threesome.
    • By C3po
      This all started around forty years ago when my wife Beth and I had dated for a few years then married. It wasn't long after we married that I introduced her to her first big realistic porn star dildo.  When she first saw it she laughed and said, "That'll never fit in my pussy, are you nuts?!" But she agreed to trying and found not only did it fit but she really enjoyed it. She was amazed by how much she enjoyed it.  So much so that she requested I use it on her quite a lot. She also discovered she enjoyed big cock porn, she was fascinated by it. Soon was I combining using a huge dildo on her at the same time she watched big cock porn, this led her to experience huge orgasms. She couldn't get enough. She was finally exploring her sexuality and expanding her outlook on sexual pleasure.
       
      One night after some really hot sex I  questioned her if she ever fantasized about fucking other men, especially well-hung men. She responded that of course she did, stated that most women had this fantasy, and she believed it was quite common. So I pursued it further and asked her if she wanted to try another man's cock and how much did she really desire to do it? She said that it sounded exciting and fun but she would never do anything to endanger our marriage. I said,  "What if I told you that I wanted to watch you have sex with another man, one that had a really big cock. Would you then consider it?" She laughed and said she'd be game if it was something I was serious about and really wanted her to do. She said, "Come on, let's be real. It's exciting and fun to imagine it, but to really do it? Please! That's a major game changer."
       
      So I said, "I'm very serious. I've watched the way you enjoy the dildos especially while watching big cock videos. It turns me on big time seeing how excited you get and how many times you climax from doing these two things at the same time. I want to watch you do it for real. No BS, just watching you getting slammed by a big cock would be a huge turn-on for me. So what do you really think now that you know that I'm serious and am giving you this opportunity?"
       
      I could see her giving it some serious thought, she didn't get mad or upset at me or the idea, no resistance whatsoever to my request.  The more she considered the idea the more it appeared to me that she was very intrigued with the idea and it excited her.
       
      She started asking all kinds of questions, like wouldn't I be jealous, or think the worst of her, or what if she really enjoyed it and wanted more or didn't feel comfortable screwing another man, then what? Were there any rules and what were the consequences? Was I absolutely sure that I really wanted her to do this, because once done there was no going back!
       
      After she finished asking everything she had concerns about I answered all her questions and we talked about the rules/boundaries we would have in place to keep it fun and exciting without any reservations or guilt. This was to make sure she fully understood my concerns and alleviate all of hers as well. It seemed she came to a decision at which point she smiled and enthusiastically said yes, she'd do it! Did I have someone special in mind she wondered? She said she had to agree to my choices for her sexual escapades or it wasn't gonna happen.
       
       I then informed her I was thinking of Bruce. Beth squealed with glee, she admitted she has had fantasies about Bruce for some time now and I couldn't have picked a better choice for her first time. She would absolutely love to fuck Bruce. She said she was getting wet thinking about sex with him.
       
      A few days later I met up with Bruce for an after work drink. As we enjoyed several drinks we talked a lot. Soon I steered the conversation towards my wife Beth. I asked  Bruce to be honest and tell me what he thought about Beth. He admitted he thought Beth was smokin' hot. She had a killer body and was just gorgeous, always was friendly, and liked flirting with him when they were together. I asked him if he' ever had the chance would he consider having sex with her? He looked a bit concerned by my question but answered yes, he wouldn't hesitate to take advantage of such an opportunity. So I told him that Beth really wanted to have sex with him, and that I was okay with them hooking up. I explained that was my kink watching her get fucked by other men, it really turned me on. Bruce considered it for several minutes then said okay sure, he'd love to fuck Beth. Just give him the details when we're ready to make it happen.
       
      When I got home I told Beth about my conversation with Bruce and what he said. She looked startled and said she couldn't believe I did that. So I asked her if what I did was so wrong and did she still want to go through with it? She excitedly said Oh hell yes she did, and no I wasn't wrong! So we made plans and set a date for Beth's first cock. 
       
      The night arrived finding Beth both excited and hot with anticipation. She was dressed to kill showing off her sexy body wearing no underwear. When Bruce knocked on the door I answered it and escorted him into our house. Beth entered the living room and gave Bruce a big hug pressing her chest and pelvis into him and then kissed him on the lips. Bruce kissed her back and he sat down pulling her on to his lap. Nether one of them wasted any time, tongues going everywhere, hands exploring and groping each other, clothes coming off. Soon they were both naked and Beth got a pleasant surprise, Bruce was very well hung. She giggled with delight.
       
      Beth took Bruce's hand and led him to our bed. She pushed him down on the bed and went to work on Bruce's big cock giving him an enthusiastic blow job. After a while Bruce flipped Beth on her back and went to work on her pussy and clit. Beth orgasmed in minutes, fully enjoying Bruce's skilled tongue. I stood in the background watching the show.
       
      Soon Bruce moved into position between Beth's legs. As he rubbed his cock against Beth's open pussy and clit she responded with loud moans and started pressing her pussy against Bruce's cock. As he slid his huge cock into Beth's pussy she had a big climax. As he went deeper he increased his speed and Beth climaxed again. She was enthralled with his big cock pumping her pussy, she was moving her hips and swearing, telling him his cock felt so good. She looked over at me and said she loved how good his big cock felt inside her. She told Bruce to stretch her pussy good, to fuck her hard. She was in sexual ecstasy, a place she'd never been before. Her facial expressions showed pure bliss and the sounds she was making were hot as hell. I never seen her so turned on, she must of had a dozen orgasms, many of which were huge.
       
      They fucked each other hard for a good twenty minutes then Bruce erupted into Beth's pussy, filling her with his cum. This gave Beth another climax. Afterwards he laid on Beth for a minute then rolled off her. He'd destroyed her pussy, it gaped open with his cum dripping out of her. They kissed and he got up to dress while Beth laid there spent. She looked at me and smiled big time. She said, "Your turn!", so I took sloppy seconds and enjoyed it beyond belief. Bruce watched us have sex then commented that watching real sex was so much hotter than any porno ever could be. He understood my enjoyment of watching my wife fuck other men. He said he'd like to do it again and Beth was all for it. So they made plans to hook up again. Then Bruce left.
       
      Beth and I talked about how well things went, and how she wasn't prepared for how much she enjoyed his big cock. It was mind boggling! She thanked me profusely for asking her to do this, the opportunity to experience such awesome sex. She says she'll never be the same again and is looking forward to more big cock sex. So our new lifestyle began.
    • By Falcon88
      My wife and I have been together for almost 25 years. Through out the years sex has been fantastic. No complaints on either side. We are very faithful and never cheated on each other.
       
      Then one day two years ago we were having a few drinks and watching porn. We watch all kinds of porn. That night we were watching some really good gangbangs. Curiously, I turn to my wife and asked her if she ever thought about swinging and group sex. If it ever crossed her mind. Surprisingly, she looked at me and said she’s been thinking about it for while. So we ended up talking about swinging and group sex for hours. We got online and read stories on experiences about swinging and group sex. The pros and cons. It turned me on taking about it but at the same time I got a crazy feeling in my stomach. Nerves I guess.
       
      So to make a very long story short we ended up having an open marriage and took up swinging. We both decided to have (safe) sex with other people until we felt comfortable on having our first group sex. All this took very long planning and preparing, especially mentally.
       
      Finally last November we planned out her first group sex. We carefully selected three familiar friends to join in the fun. Of course they decided to do it and agreed on our rules.
       
      So, it finally happened that November night. I really enjoyed watching my wife get screwed by more than one man. She had the time of her life. She had multiple orgasms one after another. The crazy feeling never left my stomach but I really enjoyed watching though. After the guys left we kicked back and talked about our experience. Then we go back about agreeing on what we’re doing and never to do it without the other knowing. We keep an oath of trust. Every time we have a date with someone we let each other know. It’s always planned out days in advance so it will never interfere with our personal lives. We have a great understanding.
       
      Since last November she’s been involved in several group sex averaging 3-4 guys each time. Of course I joined in most of the time. Lots of lube is needed. But now she wants to go a little further. She wants to do a gangbang of 6-8 guys. Seriously.
       
      Lately she’s been playing with large toys to get her vagina ready. She wants to try double-vaginal penetration. I’ve been preparing her by inserting a dildo in her while I’m inside. Very carefully with lots of lube. We practice every time we have sex. She even carefully inserts a large thick toy in her vagina while watching a movie and keeps it in there. Yes, our sexual curiosities has increased tremendously. My wife wants to explore even more and I’m all in.
       
      Well the day we both have been looking forward too occurred this past weekend. We managed to round up 7 guys for an all night gangbang. It involved a lot of planning and phone calls. We’ve noticed that guys will be all in at first then drop out later. But eventually we got things going. That night when everyone arrived she was kinda nervous but excited to have that many cocks at once. Most of all, she finally had double penetration in her vagina from two guys for the first time. The strange thing I seemed more nervous than her. Lol But she absolutely enjoyed it as much as I enjoyed watching her. She came hard many times. She doesn’t like anal so that wasn’t attempted.
       
      So after joining in all the fun and after almost two hours of great sex we had the grand finale. My sexy wife knelt down and we all gave her an awesome bukkake. Her face was drenched with cum. It was one heck of a hot night. After everyone left we took a long shower and stayed up almost all night talking about it. We were both so turned on that we were already making plans for the next one. But we are gonna take a break for about three weeks. It’s just going to be me and her for now.
       
      Yesterday she mentioned about having a messy cum sex in the near future after watching a great creampie movie. I was like, a messy cum sex? She asked me what I would think about her having a messy gooey bukkake and creampie night. Having about 4 guys cum all over her face while 4 guys cum inside her. Then rubbing the cum all over her breasts. Man, just listening to her drove me crazy. My wife was willing to be explosive. But that would take lots of planning because we are very cautious. My wife cannot get pregnant anymore so that’s really something we don’t have to worry about. It’s about the unprotected sex. We do know many cool friends well enough that we can trust but still we must remain careful. Yet, I’m sure it’s gonna happen very soon.
       
      I’ve been asked if we have taken it too far. If there’s actually any sign of regrets. Some close friends wonder about my wife wanting too much now. Our answer is no because we enjoy it and have a deep understanding and trust. We are responsible adults and are having fun. We first talk about what we’re going to do and have to both agree 100%. Any sign of doubt from either side we will not do it. We are friends with our sex partners but no feelings are involved or ever shared. We have proven that to ourselves already.
    • By AdamGunn2
      It was a fairly typical night at D.J.s Island, an early autumn evening. Mary and I hadn’t set anything up in advance, we’d decided to go almost at the last moment. From the second we entered the door our radar was beaming across the club, searching for a couple that might be searching for what we were also interested in - an enjoyable tryst.
       
      Mary took a few minutes to change into what she called a ‘trolling outfit.’ As I remember, that night it was a black babydoll with a loose bodice, thong, low heels. Many men admired her legs as I checked the forty or so women, many as scantily clad as my wife. None of our regular playmates seemed to be in attendance that evening, but we had our customs, we weren’t concerned. Perhaps an hour and a half later, I sat at a table next to the dance floor, Mary was on her feet, on the parquet, moving her body, seeing if anyone would move in. A slow sequence of men approached her, danced with her. Some would take liberties such as moving their hands under her garment, feeling the small of her back, perhaps place their palm on the roundness of her ass.
       
      I’d seen this many times before, I waited for one of two reactions.
       
      The first was that she’d spin away from the man; it signified she wasn’t interested in what he had to offer.
       
      The second was that she’d get closer, I’d watch her whisper in his ear. I knew the question, “Where’s your wife?” Some of them would shake their heads, they were attending as one of the few single men the club allowed, and when they received Mary’s response, they’d move away - that’s not what we were looking for at the moment.
       
      But the man might indicate where his wife was dancing a few feet away. When this kind of thing happened, Mary would glance to me and give our special signal - she’d put one hand on the back of her head, one on her stomach. When I got the cue, I’d come out, we’d dance as a foursome.
       
      As I approached, a man grasped the elbow of a tall attractive lady who was more modestly dressed, at least for the club. There was no conversation on the dance floor, the heavy volume of music and the thumping of the bass wouldn’t allow for speech. But I could tell the woman was interested in me, the four of us paired off and I often found myself facing this vixen. It was obvious they were as interested in us as I was in them, I could tell by the way Mary was rubbing against the man that she felt the same.
       
      After a couple of songs, Mary led the way off the floor, holding his hand, leading us off into a corner away from the speakers. As we sat, the man said, “I’m Ed, this is my wife, Marilyn.”
       
      Marilyn and I softly shook hands, I believe she raised the hem of her skirt to give me a view of her upper thighs. Ed had no problem seeing Mary’s legs, or where they met - she was sitting so that the babydoll was gathered to her side, leaning forward so her globes were exposed to his view.
       
      “Do you come here often?” Ed asked.
       
      “Every few weeks,” I responded, “you?”
       
      “This is our first time here.” Mary gave him a look that asked for further info. “We’re just starting this,” he admitted.
       
      Marilyn picked it up. “We’ve only had one time with a couple of friends. We liked it, heard about this place, decided to see if we could get into more trouble.”
       
      “Trouble’s our middle name,” I joked.
       
      Our conversation continued, where do you live, what movies have you seen lately, etc. It was a screen, of course, we were all calculating if the four of us would be pleasurable bedmates. I paid my attention to Marilyn, my wife had told me numerous times not to worry about her, she can take care of herself. My hand found Marilyn’s knee, she smiled at me, encouraged me to reach a tad higher. We bent towards each other, our mouths met.
       
      Marilyn opened her lips to me, the kiss was ardent, her mouth moist. She licked at my upper lip, her hand fondled the back of my neck. Our tongues clashed, promising cupidity, mimicking what I presumed our bodies might be doing in a few scant moments.
       
      We broke for a moment, Marilyn invited, “Would you guys want to go to one of the rooms?”
       
      I, of course, was all for it, but then I heard Mary. “Uh, not right now. But thanks.”
       
      We’ve always had the guideline that if one person doesn’t want to do something, she speaks for both of us. Regretfully, I pecked at Marilyn’s lips a last time, we stood, went separate ways.
       
      “You’re not upset, are you?” Mary asked me.
       
      “Of course not, not at all. You’re not in the mood?”
       
      “Oh, I’m in the mood all right, just not with Ed.”
       
      “Something wrong with him?” I asked.
       
      “I tried to get him interested,” Mary revealed, “but his kiss was a little cold, indifferent. I put my hand on his leg, he was too busy watching you and Marilyn, he never responded. My guess is that if we went into a room, he’d be watching you two, I’m not even sure he’d get hard for me.” It was a reasonable thought, it had happened to us a couple times before. “Hope you don’t mind, bet she’d have been a firecracker.”
       
      “Maybe. But you’re a firecracker too.”
       
      We headed back to the dance floor, in search of another couple.
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