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Help me with your question. Are you asking if Swingersboard has a facility for chat? Are you asking, rather, if I "chat" with swing acquaintances using mobile devices? 

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5 hours ago, SW_PA_Couple said:

Help me with your question. Are you asking if Swingersboard has a facility for chat? Are you asking, rather, if I "chat" with swing acquaintances using mobile devices? 

Just Chat in general 

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While it might be nice to have a chat feature here on the board, the problem with having chat is that nobody really uses it. SLS has/had a chat feature and it always seemed to have nobody in it.

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We had a Chat feature here for a long time.  I've thought about bringing it back, but to be honest, then it was more trouble than it was worth, and now probably would be the same.  The organized/moderated chats were fine, and I enjoyed participating in them myself sometimes.  The other 167 hours of the week, it was just problems with the same few guys in there behaving poorly and not what this site is about or what we strive to be.

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15 hours ago, Ghost69 said:

Just Chat in general 

OK, I understand, you're not asking about chat specifically here at Swingersboard but rather chat in general. My wife and I both chat with lifestyle acquaintances, frequently. We see no harm in it. We trust each other to not get into conversations that are not appropriate. I regard to sexting, my wife seems to get a charge from this activity. I long ago decided that it was boring -- I prefer the real thing.

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My GF sexts quite a bit with guys.  Sometimes I'll read them and it can be pretty hot.

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On 3/16/2020 at 5:28 PM, Ghost69 said:

Chat or Sexting

 

Does anyone on hear do this and where?

No, don't really have time and worry about the dangers of recording things.  The closest we get to it is watching and being watched among ourselves, which I at least, find hot.

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