Sloppy Seconds

[findinganswers 369]

I just responded to a post about letting someone cum in your wife. What are the feelings about sloppy seconds? We have been playing with the same couple, our friends for a couple of years. We have not been using protection and it is a given that we are cumming in the wives. My wife and I had always cleaned up after sex and I figured most couple do. I hadn't gone down on her after I came. On occasion she would get me hard again before washing and we would have a second go at it. It was just my cum in her. Now with swapping new things happened. My wife would excuse herself after they finished but our friends would play as soon as he was hard again. No washing. My cum still in her or dripping out. I felt strange just watching that at first. I didn't know if I should be doing the same thing to my wife. I did one time and I felt strange but it felt the same as if I went for a second time without her washing. Maybe she was hotter or more lubed.

What do others do?

[adamgunn 1,460]

With one couple we really trusted, after a few months we decided to go bareback. After we had a session and they left, my wife and I often had reclaiming sex, as we did after couples and men where they used condoms.

 

My wife was a freak about using tissue on herself after sex, but still when her insides were coated with our friend's sperm, it was always much silkier, lube wasn't necessary at all.

 

Yeah, it was hot and wonderful. But still, don't let this fantasy get away from you; worry about STDs and pregnancy; play safe.

[Erik13 157]

I personally wouldn't be into that, but to each their own.

[Guest]

I enjoy sloppy seconds

[bryonboru 60]

It is definitely a different feeling, especially when her BF is thicker than me.

 

I would do it over and over, it is freaking fantastic.

[padoc 1,701]

While I don't seek it out not do I have a fetish, Im fine with sloppy seconds when it occurs, usually as a reconnection boink. If Mrs Doc isn't quite done after her partner is, I'm quite willing to jump in if that's her desire.

[couplers 4,564]

Among our closed little group, the guys certainly don't let sloppy seconds stop them and the women enjoy the mess. As to going down, the guys don't necessarily seek it out, but will do it for us if asked. We women are bi, and like licking pussy and sucking dick after two have finished.

[DaddyzGurl 31]

We do the "sloppy seconds" thing & I absolutely LOVE it!! My man loves fuking me right after another has finished inside of me. He tells me to stay laying down on my back until he is ready to enjoy me (normally after our company leaves). We stick with a small circle of playmates & he always screens very well for us so we play as safe as possible.

 

I can't get enough of the way he lingers with & admires my body after getting filled by another man. I can really tell how much he enjoys it by how he takes me afterwards! I hafta admit that one major reason I enjoy being with other men is because of how great & sexy he makes me feel after! I also like to clean off my hubby's dik after he soaks it in my filled V.

 

If we play with a female I always hope she is also okay with getting filled up because then I eat my hubby's cum out of her & clean her up as much as possible.

 

However, we do feel like pubic hair is pretty gross & we prefer you shaved. Its cleaner in general but you can also tell if there's any visible soars or what not.

[SpinOX 24]

I love it

[Numex 2,364]

If you're swinging, sloppy seconds is going to happen. Why not enjoy it?

[oc1234 435]

A little history. We started playing with our best male friend in 1986. In fact he and his wife were the ones that seduced us into playing. That was a time before HIV so we did not worry about going bareback. I remember the first time when we were seduced. We were all nudists and got together on a weekly basis and we had gotten to the point that there was a lot of flirting between all of us. Our male friend and my wife were on the living room floor and he was massaging her. I was on the floor across the room massaging her. I looked over and saw that my wife and my best friend were having intercourse. Even though my wife and I had never discussed it, it just seemed right to me. I pointed out to his wife what was going on across the room and she gave me a little smile. After seeing that I started being more sexual in my massaging and in a few minutes we started having intercourse too. After a few minutes I realized that I knew her husband had had a vasectomy and my wife had had her tubes tied, but I didn't know about her so I asked. She mentioned she had had her tubes tied too, so we continued and we continued until I came inside her. After that my friend who worked nights and my wife who wasn't working got together many times during the day, which I really found exciting. Unfortunately his wife, although a good friend, was not that interested in me but was playing with others.

 

My wife playing with our male friend turned into the two of us playing with her. As time went on, sloppy seconds became very common and even an occasional DVP. At that time he had no trouble cumming and it was always inside her.

 

He and his wife got divorced and each got remarried and everyone knew we were playing with him. My wife and I continued playing with him and we all had a lot of fun. His new wife died of a heart attack in her early 50s and we became even closer to him. We all even agreed to a poly relationship which worked very well. It was not exclusive. One of the problems he had was masturbating so much that he couldn't cum through intercourse, which was a disappointment. A couple of years ago he got in touch with woman he had known years ago. Her husband was fine with them playing, and even though his new playmate said it was fine for my wife to play with him, we stopped because there seemed to be the potential for too much drama. We are still friends with him, but don't feel comfortable playing with him.

[M1F2KTJ 473]

I persuaded my wife into not "cleaning" herself after another man came in her. She felt "messy". Yes it wasn't normal to feel that wet down there but she grew to be comfortable with it in a sexual situation. She can't get pregnant so everyone goes bareback.

 

I usually get the party started if we are playing with someone new. When I get that feeling like I'm going to cum I'll pull out. I want him to feel her like I do. She is so wet and lubricated after someone has cum in her that I can barely feel her.

 

It is sexy to know that she is that wet from another man cumming in her. It doesn't take me long to add to the party.

 

I prefer how she feels before someone has cum in her. That's why I let the other guy cum first.

[oc1234 435]

For me, I always prefer the feel of my wife after another man has cum in here. It is far better lubrication than anything you can buy and it really makes it easy for me to cum. Actually the few times we have had DVP with our friend are my real favorite. We have always gone bareback with him so each of us can feel everything that is happening and especially that sudden feeling of extra lubrication when either he or I cum.

[Roliin75 53]

Are we the only ones who don't play bareback? Doesn't matter how "friendly" we are, not going to happen.

[AngelandTiger 364]

No Roliin, you are most definitely NOT. No bareback play here. First of all, my wife cannot use any other birth control other than barrier methods (condoms) for medical reasons, and she is still within childbearing years. However, even if this were not true, given the state of STIs today, unless we knew the other couple VERY well (and let's face it, you can't really know anyone as well as you know yourselves) it wouldn't happen anyway. And, even if there were not possibility of STIs or pregnancy, my wife feels that bareback sex with anyone but me is just too intimate, and rather a violation of our bond together.

 

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[ratta73 36]

We are a married couple that has been having threesomes with our male friend for close to three years now,she has always let both of us cum in her when we first started doing this she would clean after one of us came in her but now that doesn't happen anymore,she has gotten up to seven loads in her when we get together..all three of us get alone great as much fun a the sex is we enjoy joking around about it to..anyone new to this will be shy about it a first but the more you do it the more fun you will have

[DaddyzGurl 31]

I just wanted to ad that this lifestyle feeds off of open-mindedness & the fact that some play with protection & others have their ways of playing safely without isn't something we should judge one another over unless there's penetration involved then you may judge weather or not you will play with that person but to each their own & if you come here asking if you are the ONLY ones who use or don't use protection I'm sorry but I have to admit it sounds foolish because those of us who live the lifestyle have more sex than the average & it is a question that not only doesn't need to be asked but also screams amateur making me believe you haven't ever played in the way of which you say you do otherwise you would know for a fact if anybody else has the same "protection preference" as you. That being said, your question, to me, is mocking & very closed-minded (the opposite of the sort of mind "swingers" possess. So really did you have to really go there & ask such a foolish question? Or am I wrong? Lastly, plz try to be mindful of others preferences because we all have different ones & each couple has a their own things that make them unique as a couple but that's also one reason why swinging is so much fun is because as a couple we get to enjoy other couples & we get to learn what sets them aside from the other couples making them new & exciting to us weather or not we agree with it. This is the point where our judgment comes in to play but its disrespectful to others to call them out on their preferences & if you're gonna keep the closed-mind then you should find a new community where they play that shit.

**RANT OVER**

[Roliin75 53]

Your rant likens you to someone with road rage. Take a look back at my response and maybe it's the way you read it but I simply asked a question.

[Numex 2,364]

... I usually get the party started if we are playing with someone new. When I get that feeling like I'm going to cum I'll pull out. I want him to feel her like I do. She is so wet and lubricated after someone has cum in her that I can barely feel her.

 

It is sexy to know that she is that wet from another man cumming in her. It doesn't take me long to add to the party.

 

I prefer how she feels before someone has cum in her. That's why I let the other guy cum first.

I prefer to go second regardless if it's my wife or his. It's not because I want him to enjoy the tighter feel. It's that after I blow my load, I lose interest in watching what they're doing. So it just gets me more excited watching them first.

 

You're right on both counts - a sloppy cunt has hardly any friction, but the thought of her doing this sends me off quick.

[Numex 2,364]

One of the problems he had was masturbating so much that he couldn't cum through intercourse, which was a disappointment.

WTF? Who would jerk off when there was a woman available? I only do it when I'm away from family and friends.

[oc1234 435]

People can become addicted to internet pornography. They then want to watch it for hours and start edging. Over time, that can lead to the person finding he can get hard but finds it almost impossible to reach organism. After all, if you have trained yourself to delay orgasm for hours while masturbating, your body gets accustomed to that. It is a very serious problem.

[Erik13 157]

So I said I would never do this. I was out with some friends the other night and my wife had her male friend over our house. I wasn't sure if they would play or not since things have gotten more vanilla with him lately. He was gone by the time I got home, and they did play. I was jerking off while my wife told me the details... next thing I couldn't resist and stuck in in her for sloppy seconds!!

[Numex 2,364]

People can become addicted to internet pornography. They then want to watch it for hours and start edging. Over time, that can lead to the person finding he can get hard but finds it almost impossible to reach organism. After all, if you have trained yourself to delay orgasm for hours while masturbating, your body gets accustomed to that. It is a very serious problem.

 

I don't jerk off unless I'm alone, but this is me with a pussy, I like to keep it going a long time because I enjoy it so much. Problem is my ex-wife and one long-term girlfriend before her were always getting off before me and asking what's taking me so long. My wife now enjoys a long ride (even after she's just fucked and orgasmed with another guy), so were good. But I'm careful now not to overstay my welcome if I'm in another woman's pussy or ass.

 

Other problem is that if it's late and I'm really tired, if I go too long I can't get cum. But I'll go down on the girl for a while and give it a rest, then can blow my load. You're right though, keeping it going too long can be a problem.

[Funlatincouple 44]

In reference to clean up, a quick napkin swipe at best or her hand. It depends on the position I would say. She never, nor have I asked her to stop “playing” to clean up. We both really enjoy that piece of the fun for all things mentioned within these post.

[Lombardswingers 18]

I guess I’m the only one who doesn’t find having another guys cum on my dick to be “sexy”. I certainly wouldn’t go down on a woman knowing that another guys cum was inside her, that’s just a huge turn off to me, and would immediately end any kind of sexy thoughts I might be having. If it’s my own cum, that’s a different story, I wouldn’t necessarily enjoy that, but if I was asked to, I would. I’m fine with incidental contact, it’s going to happen, and I’m fine with someone we know well cumming inside my wife (if that’s what she wants), hell, sometimes cum ends up flying around and gets on people (yes, including myself) accidentally, that’s just part of the game, but intentionally dipping my dick into a pussy filled with another guy’s load is just disgusting in my opinion.

[Alura 2,773]

My late wife once said to me, "If I allow a man to put his cock in me, Darling, I expect him to come inside me. If I didn't want him to, I wouldn't be fucking him."

 

Another time she said, "When I have cum inside me, I feel so sexy! When we swap and I have two men's cum inside, it's even sexier! Did you know that 60% of women have cum in their pussies at any given time?"

 

"I didn't know that, Sweetheart, but I have heard that 60% of statistics are made up on the spot," I replied.

 

"Sloppy seconds" weren't a treat for us, it was a normal part of swinging.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,023]

. . . "Sloppy seconds" weren't a treat for us, it was a normal part of swinging.

Exactly.

[JessicaJamison 858]

So its my body and I decide who cums where outside of my husband.  But if I fuck a guy and he comes and there is no getting him back to hard, if I'm not done, someone is getting sloppy seconds.  

[couplers 4,564]

On 11/24/2020 at 5:54 AM, JessicaJamison said:

if I fuck a guy and he comes and there is no getting him back to hard, if I'm not done, someone is getting sloppy seconds.  

If there no one to take sloppy seconds, then guy #1 is going down on me until I am satisfied.  My feeling is that there are times I swallow his cum, so he can go down on the mess he made.

[twohots4u2 188]

There is nothing like sliding my hard cock in a pussy that has just been filled with a guy's cum, mine or another guy's.   Cum is a fantastic lube and a pussy that has just been fucked is so hot and fantastic feeling.  My swing buddy liked to have two guys join us for a swing session.  Some of the guys were long time special friends that we trusted to be disease free.  I liked to have the last fuck of the night, especially after she had just fucked the other two and was full of their hot cum!

[hunterdonNJcpl 1,369]

Love sloppy seconds. The last time we played was a bareback MFM and we each came inside my wife twice. It was heavenly.

[findinganswers 369]

So much has changed since I asked this question almost three years ago. At the time I was turned off by my own cum and kept away from any sloppy seconds from our friends. Just like never thinking I would ever swing, I never thought another man’s cum would be an issue. 

Now we are swinging and part of swinging is other men are swinging with us. We primarily swing with one couple and have had some parties with several couples. Being we are not using condoms there is definitely going to be cum in all women involved. I do enjoy watching the women play and lick the cum that will be there. 

We were with four couples and when we switched partners none of the other guys hesitated and I just went for it. As others mentioned it was very slippery and no different than me just going back in after my own cum being there. 

Another way things changed,, I have given oral while my own cum was dripping out and recently someone else’s cum. 

[couplers 4,564]

On 6/21/2018 at 7:50 AM, DaddyzGurl said:

We do the "sloppy seconds" thing & I absolutely LOVE it!! My man loves fuking me right after another has finished inside of me. He tells me to stay laying down on my back until he is ready to enjoy me

Whenever it is hubby, Red and me in an MFM, Red always goes first because he likes me "fresh" while hubby likes going second because he can enjoy the show with me and Red in his pre-orgasm excited state rather than watching after he's released.  This comment made me realize, however that in going second, hubby always flips me from my position with Red to the opposite position, doggy or missionary.  I need to ask him why.  Probably has something to do with quantum mechanics, those two must be Fermions.

Edited December 2, 2020 by couplers

[2quirky806 52]

We haven’t gotten to that point yet but it is something I really want to try. I don’t want to eat it but I do want my wife filled with multiple loads and over flowing while I slide it in and have very vigorous sex with her. The thought sound very hot to me. My fantasy is to start her off lay the first load and then let 2 to 3 other guys load her up and for me to finish the night off. But until we have a group of people we really trust which is hard to come by and we are fixed that’s just going to stay in the spank bank for now. 

[discreetplay 235]

To echo 2quirky806, we haven't gone bareback with any couple yet but would like to. We just haven't established any connections where we would be relatively exclusive, to where we would go without condoms.

 

I think the sloppy seconds thing is more the Mr's fantasy than mine. I'm not opposed at all, given the cycling condoms as the guys move around is annoying and bareback is just so much more fun. However, we are in the same boat as everyone else in terms of avoiding STIs is required. Once we establish a connection with another couple (s) where we play only within a small group (2-3 couples) we'll look into dropping the condom requirement.

[UgotMeSprung 7]

My wife and i have been swingers for 10 yrs plus. She is what u call a hotwife. A true slut. She fucks lots of men and i love it. Nothing turns me more than to watch her walk in the room with her short skirt on knowing she just fucked a guy and seeing his cum drip down her legs. I get so hard so fast i can't help but fuck her before it drips all out. I also love to eat another man's cum out of her as well. Point is.. There are a lot more men that like this then i think will admit to. 

[Playman64 205]

38 minutes ago, UgotMeSprung said:

knowing she just fucked a guy and seeing his cum drip down her legs.

I would always enjoy seeing other men’s cumming running down inside of her thighs.  I never was into cleanup but I sure like the feeling of other men’s cum in her as I pushed in. 

[couplers 4,564]

On 12/2/2020 at 8:41 AM, 2quirky806 said:

I do want my wife filled with multiple loads and over flowing while I slide it in and have very vigorous sex with her. The thought sound very hot to me.

I read an article in Slate magazine several years ago about why men's dicks have heads - it to scoop out the previous guys cum.  Experiments were done with artificial semen, real vaginas, and dildos with and without heads.

 

"The study of sperm competition in humans, though, is fairly new. In a study published in 2003, researchers at the State University of New York-Albany used a variety of dildos, artificial vaginas, and a homemade semen recipe to test whether the penis might be elegantly designed not only to deposit semen in the vagina, but also to remove it. The researchers speculated that when a man has sex with a woman who has recently slept with another man, the first man's semen is pulled out with the second man's penis (because it gets caught behind the second man's coronal ridge, which separates the head of the penis from the shaft). This lends meaning to the term "sloppy seconds": Sex the second time around is sloppy, because the semen that is removed ends up, well, making a mess.

 

"The researchers found evidence to support their hypothesis: Dildos featuring a coronal ridge, like a real penis, displaced 91 percent of semen that got there first. Dildos without ridges displaced only 35 percent.... That the human penis might have evolved as a semen displacement device is "not an outrageously ridiculous idea," says Todd Shackelford, an evolutionary psychologist at Florida Atlantic University. Size, too, may matter here—the longer a man's penis is, the more likely it is to deposit semen out of reach of other men.

 

Of course, if a man has sex with a woman twice in quick succession, then there is the risk that he will displace his own semen. But researchers believe that men have evolved ways of preventing this from happening—for instance, men usually need to "recover" for a few hours between orgasms [Petra note - the "Coolidge Effect," however, shows that a man recovers much more quickly when presented with a different woman], and they rarely continue to thrust after they ejaculate. Both of these behaviors help keep men from accidentally removing their own goods."

 

The full article can be found at Men, women, passion, and sperm. - By Melinda Wenner - Slate Magazine

 

So the desire and behavior is evolutionary - if some guy is fucking your partner, you want to get in there quickly afterwards, remove his semen and deposit yours, so you perceive it as "Hot."

[PeterJ 926]

Interesting experiment, and a plausible conclusion.  One small detail. Your introductory paragraph reported the researchers had used “real vaginas”. I believe you may have misread or miswritten. 
 

.”.. a variety of dildos, artificial vaginas, and a homemade semen recipe...”

 

That noted, it might have been a more fun experiment with real vaginas. ??

[hunterdonNJcpl 1,369]

17 hours ago, couplers said:

if some guy is fucking your partner, you want to get in there quickly afterwards, remove his semen and deposit yours, so you perceive it as "Hot."

Truth. 1 on 1 sex is usually over once everyone has one orgasm.  But MFM is like tag-teaming with the men able to cum multiple times - and thus the woman as well. I definitely have much faster recovery when I see my wife take her turn with the other man.

[couplers 4,564]

On 12/4/2020 at 2:30 PM, PeterJ said:

I believe you may have misread or miswritten. 

Thank you for the polite correction.  I would characterize my mistake as a "misrecollection."

[JR-Jack Rabbit 2]

I love it like more than words can say. Makes me so damn horny, I would love to have a girlfriend or wife that did it all the time. Let me know. I want a woman that tells me what to do. I want seconds so bad.

[Numex 2,364]

On 12/2/2020 at 8:41 AM, 2quirky806 said:

My fantasy is to start her off lay the first load and then let 2 to 3 other guys load her up and for me to finish the night off.

You will like it.  We husbands in our group agree - there is nothing like reclaiming your wife after she has enjoyed an afternoon or evening of sex with other men who have ejaculated inside her vagina.

 

One recommendation to try is not to go first (or even fuck another woman or jerk off), but let the unbearable excitement build as she fucks another guy or two or three (up to her, for Daniela it depends how fast they are).   I like couples swaps, but the MMFs where he goes first are also special. 

Edited July 23, 2021 by Numex

[2quirky806 52]

On 7/22/2021 at 7:29 PM, Numex said:

You will like it.  We husbands in our group agree - there is nothing like reclaiming your wife after she has enjoyed an afternoon or evening of sex with other men who have ejaculated inside her vagina.

 

One recommendation to try is not to go first (or even fuck another woman or jerk off), but let the unbearable excitement build as she fucks another guy or two or three (up to her, for Daniela it depends how fast they are).   I like couples swaps, but the MMFs where he goes first are also special. 

I hope that we came find a group or make a group around here where we live. 

[Numex 2,364]

2 hours ago, 2quirky806 said:

I hope that we came find a group or make a group around here where we live. 

We formed our group among married swinging couples who we met through the traditional ways and became friends.  We shared the common desire to be uninhibited in the way we engage in activities, including playing alone and playing bareback.  We got together and all pledged not to play outside of the group even with condoms, pretty much upon penalty of death.  If you want to play outside the group, you can leave, no questions asked, no recriminations.  No one has left thus far.  We were all tested twice, and have free from the usual worries of swinging.  You might think that the temptation is there, but with the quantity and variety of sex available to each one of us, the temptation is less than for a monogamous vanilla couple. 

[couplers 4,564]

On 7/15/2021 at 8:49 PM, JR-Jack Rabbit said:

I would love to have a girlfriend or wife that did it all the time. Let me know. I want a woman that tells me what to do. I want seconds so bad.

She's out there, you just need to seek her out.  You could look on swingers' sites, but my recommendation is just to date in real life and when after the first couple of dates the conversation turns to sex (don't push it too early but don't wait too long), let her know that you will be monogamous but you do not demand monogamy from a partner - even a future wife - and it would make you happy for her to play around on her terms.  Many or maybe most won't consider the idea, but definitely a few will and will love you and be happy for it.

[Anon321 519]

Cumming inside my GF is discouraged most of the time but sometimes she allows it and sometimes it just happens.  Personally I wouldn't put my dick inside of my GF if another guy just came inside.  Some guys don't care but I don't like it.  It's a matter of preference.

 

We never thought that a guy had to cum inside of her for it to be considered "sloppy" seconds either.  I still enjoy fucking her after she's be fucked really hard for a while.  She can look like such a hot wreck it's hard to explain why it's such a turn on but it is.

[couplers 4,564]

On 8/9/2021 at 11:24 AM, Anon321 said:

She can look like such a hot wreck it's hard to explain why it's such a turn on but it is.

We've had that discussion in our family, how when one of us has really been hard at it, she/he is very attractive.  Works both ways for us women.

[Aikibobby 51]

I have always fantasized about this. I finally got to experience it last month. We have a friend that we know very well and trust. I got to eat one of his creampies out and on another occasion I was able to slide my dick into his creampie. Both was GREAT!!!

[KarenssexSwingcpl986 32]

Wife always had other man cum inside her first, then me. After the first time, I was sold. She is dry, his cock was really fat.

After he had ground into her, the dry friction of the intercourse had made the inside of her vagina red hot.

When it was my turn, I couldn't believe the sensation my cock felt to the heat. Then there was the slickness of her vaginal walls, that was covered with slime. That was the first time, I just slid in that  easily.

 

Needless to say I came in her in less than a minute. Sloppy seconds are the best.