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Lots of the guys here like to talk about how much they like watching their wife get fucked by another man, either in a threesome or swapping, but they like to see it. These guys give two reasons; they like to see their wife enjoying herself, and they like to watch the action themselves...it gets them hot knowing some other guy is doing his wife.

 

Most of the other time it's the other way around for me. Sure, I like it that my wife is having a good time, we wouldn't do this otherwise, and it is hot watching her in action. For me though, it is way way hotter looking down and thinking, whoa, that's another man's wife that I AM fucking. When I blow my load in her that is what is in my mind, it's another man's wife taking it.

 

I don't say anything to a wife, but seeing her wedding ring while fucking her gets me hot. The one where I really lost it though was when this couple we swapped with had just got engaged, and she only had an engagement ring. While we were screwing I saw the ring and stated thinking how I was fucking his girl he promised to marry, and although I usually have good control, I blew my load right then, way too early.

 

Any other guys like this??

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For me though, it is way way hotter looking down and thinking, whoa, that's another man's wife that I AM fucking. When I blow my load in her that is what is in my mind, it's another man's wife taking it.

 

Just my theory...I think it's personality, maybe even a dom and submissive thing to an extent.

 

My husband loves watching me, he does not even care that much if he has another man's wife...he loves handing me over, so to speak.

 

There are men who really enjoy, and prefer, being on the other side of the equation...

it's kinda good that there are both.

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Just my theory...I think it's personality, maybe even a dom and submissive thing to an extent.

 

Maybe you're right, but it seems to me in our situation it's my wife that is the dominant! Not any of the guys or me. Don't get me wrong, I don't mind watching her with another guy, it's just not the "big thing" for me. When another man's wife and I are enjoying ourselves, I don't feel like I'm the top dog or anything, I just really appreciate the fact I get to enjoy a different woman with no fuss by her husband and the different feel.

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I had a conversation with a Psychologist some years ago at a seminar about this very subject. She had a theory that men do like to have other men fucking their partners because it is genetically programmed in them. Our penis' are shaped the way they are because they push the other man's semen out of the way in the race to the finish line.

 

Also the competitive instinct is strong in men and when the know their partner has been fucked by another man, our testes go into overdrive and we produce much more semen with the subsequent increase in testosterone that makes us hornier! I do know that when I watched my partner getting a good seeing to, I would get hornier than a bull in the mating season!!

 

I don't know how true this is though.

 

I do notice though when I was fucking another's wife her husband was watching intently and often liked to get close to see my cock going in and out of her so perhaps the theory is accurate!

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Every couple is different and we all have different reasons for enjoying swinging. As a woman I do enjoy seeing my husband enjoying someone else (or them enjoying him). It makes him all the more appealing to me to know that others want him, too... that he's pleasing someone else.

 

The idea that you are looking at it and thinking "oh that's someone else's wife" makes me think that you may be enjoying a cuckold type aspect, that you enjoy putting another man "in his place" sort of, and creating a situation where you feel like you are dominating him/them.

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The image that is burned into my memory forever is when his wife gripped the base of my cock with the hand she had her wedding ring on and sucked my cock while he watched.

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The idea that you are looking at it and thinking "oh that's someone else's wife" makes me think that you may be enjoying a cuckold type aspect, that you enjoy putting another man "in his place" sort of, and creating a situation where you feel like you are dominating him/them.

 

For some guys that is probably it, but I would say not for me. First, it is clearly the women "dominating" in our sexual adventures, whether we are all getting together or just two of us for a quick fuck, it is the women that set it up. That's just the way it is with our group. Second, I never act or even get the feeling in my head that I'm putting a guy in his place. It's just that I appreciate getting to experience her and glad that he is sharing, a feeling I don't get with a single girl. Sort of like when somebody lets us use their boat or great car for the weekend. I'm just comparing how I feel in contrast to all the other guys here that just like MFM. It's also I like to prove myself with the other woman and do a good job. Like when you see somebody with something and you ask, "hey, can I try that"?

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The thought that I was screwing another man's wife never occurred to me until II read this thread. As I look back, I was aware that my playmate was married to another guy, as almost all of them were. But, I never used that knowledge for arousal or even gave it a second thought. I had some arousal or stimulation from the thought (or sight) that my wife was with another man.

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I am a voyeur and an exhibitionist...both activities turn me on a lot! Therefore, I LOVE watching my wife fuck another guy or girl!!! At this point in time my wife isn't comfortable with me fucking another girl, but I guarantee you that if/when she is comfortable with that, I will be extremely turned on by that also!

 

When I was single, I fucked a married woman and the sight of her wedding ring on her finger while I was sliding my rock hard cock inside her wet pussy was mind blowing! I was also talking to two different couples on-line that were married and the husband wanted a single guy to fuck his wife. I met my wife at the time that one of the couples wanted to meet up with me, so I called it off because I didn't want to "cheat" on my new girlfriend at the time.

 

So I have been on both sides of the coin and enjoy them both immensely!!!!

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Thinking about this more, I'm thinking the same thing when I'm fucking the other guy's wife as when I see my wife enjoying another guy, this is a woman so sexxy that she need to get it from multiple guys. For me, I think that's the biggest part of it, that these are good women because they have a good attitude toward fucking multiple men.

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.......... These guys give two reasons; they like to see their wife enjoying herself, and they like to watch the action themselves...it gets them hot knowing some other guy is doing his wife........

 

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For me it was just the sex one on one with a different woman, the magic of the discovery.

Seeing my SO with another man was more puzzling than anything so i focused on my partner....now I'll say something that has nothing to do with your question, but when you cite the reasons most men say about why it turns them on to see their wives with another man, it's just like saying Pavlov's dog salivated because of the bell.....most men think ''I see her with another guy, see her having pleasure, I get turned on, so that's the reason''....simplistic and wrong.

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I think the notoriety of extramarital sex is what makes swinging hot, doing the forbidden and being married to a woman hot enough to be turned on by it, too.

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The image that is burned into my memory forever is when his wife gripped the base of my cock with the hand she had her wedding ring on and sucked my cock while he watched.

 

This is an old post, but I can relate. A lot of this has to do with the context. In the swinging situations we've been in, it hasn't felt especially taboo because it's all same-room and mutual.

 

With that said, I messed around with more than a few attached women in my single days, and rare is the woman who doesn't try to convince you her boyfriend/husband is somebody you shouldn't feel bad for. I distinctly remember a married woman who was supposed to be visiting a girlfriend and slept over at my place for the week, instead. I didn't make it into work on time a single day that week and had to start cashing in vacation hours because she was so horny and submissive. She had this informal roleplay thing going on where she wanted to be treated like somebody's slave, and her husband was supposedly just not... that guy.

 

So I've got her wrists tied to the headboard and I'm pumping her mouth, hard. Sure enough, the wedding ring keeps catching my eye and gets me thinking about how I'm misusing somebody else's wife. When I untie her and tell her to finish me on her face, she uses both hands and ends up catching it everywhere, including all over her wedding ring. I don't mention anything about it, I just go get us some drinks, and when I come back she's sitting there covered in my load, texting her husband about how she's really glad she's getting to see her old friend and will call him later.

 

She connected with a high school sweetheart after I was done with her, too. :rollseye: That poor husband, she must have been a real handful to keep content for more than a week. I never heard from her again and her girlfriend really didn't like to talk about her once we started hooking up, other than that she got pregnant after she went home. (Definitely theirs.)

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I want to watch my wife having sex with another man/men,she’s good at giving guys a wank n sucking cocks,she also swallows

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13 hours ago, Illuminati194643 said:

I want to watch my wife having sex with another man/men

Let her know that you love her and it would make you happy for her to have some fun sex on the side.  Let her do whatever, whoever, whenever, wherever she wants with you there or not, all up to her.  Once she is comfortable with playing, she'll get you involved on her terms.

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On 1/29/2018 at 6:33 AM, EastInWest said:

gets me thinking about how I'm misusing somebody else's wife...  That poor husband,

You were doing him a favor.  She went home happy. 

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This is extremely common.  I see this all the time with guys who fuck my GF, especially my friends.  It plays into the whole cuckold and dominance fetishes.  It's also taboo which adds to it.  And I can see there is often some kind of competition with guys.  Trying to fuck her harder, dirtier, kinkier than me.  Trying to get her to do things she wouldn't normally do or be treated in ways she might not normally be treated by an SO.  I think it's actually quite common and I can think of countless examples that I've seen this whether they want to admit to it being a turn on for them or not.  And some do admit to it and some just won't.

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1 hour ago, Anon321 said:

I think it's actually quite common and I can think of countless examples that I've seen this whether they want to admit to it being a turn on for them or not.  And some do admit to it and some just won't.

I'm not saying you're wrong, but I believe it's more nuanced than that.  For me, and many other men, it's not about competition - it's about having fun.  For us, once we decided what we wanted, it wasn't 'taboo' anymore. 

 

We often played with couples, but there were many times when we made a choice to play with a single male, either late at night after a swinging experience at a club, or just for a night's pleasure. My wife (like, I believe, a lot of women,) had greater stamina than me, she could easily have multiple men in one night. So we sought out men for the simple pleasure it brought to her. And the fact that she was being pleasured brought me pleasure.

 

I'm not saying there wasn't a part of me that enjoyed the sights, sounds and smells of her getting laid, but there wasn't a 'cuckold' portion to it for us. I had no desire to be humiliated, nor did she want to humiliate me. It was simply for the fun of it.

 

So, if you believe that I'm a guy who simply 'won't admit it', well, that's on you.

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16 minutes ago, AdamGunn2 said:

I'm not saying you're wrong, but I believe it's more nuanced than that.  For me, and many other men, it's not about competition - it's about having fun.  For us, once we decided what we wanted, it wasn't 'taboo' anymore. 

 

We often played with couples, but there were many times when we made a choice to play with a single male, either late at night after a swinging experience at a club, or just for a night's pleasure. My wife (like, I believe, a lot of women,) had greater stamina than me, she could easily have multiple men in one night. So we sought out men for the simple pleasure it brought to her. And the fact that she was being pleasured brought me pleasure.

 

I'm not saying there wasn't a part of me that enjoyed the sights, sounds and smells of her getting laid, but there wasn't a 'cuckold' portion to it for us. I had no desire to be humiliated, nor did she want to humiliate me. It was simply for the fun of it.

 

So, if you believe that I'm a guy who simply 'won't admit it', well, that's on you.

I think you might have misunderstood my post, or perhaps I phrased it poorly.  I'm more like you.  I love seeing my GF getting fucked and I don't feel or get off on being humiliated or being cucked.  My post was intended to the guy who is fucking my GF.  I have seen many times, especially from friends where they get off on the idea of fucking her because she is my GF.  Just because we don't feel like cucks or humiliated, doesn't mean that they aren't getting off on the idea of cucking us.

 

There is a taboo to fucking someone else's SO.  If someone had a rule against having sex with a married woman, then they wouldn't do it.  But because they are married, it makes it that much hotter to those who do it.  In their head they are competing when they fuck her.  I am not saying this rule applies 100% of the time but I believe it's extremely common.  And I can see it by the way the guys react, the way they talk, questions they ask, etc., that a big part of the turn on of fucking my GF is that she is my GF.  That adds an entire element to it for them.  Now some guys might take that element and react differently to it when fucking her but it is still there.

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Ah, sorry, now I see your point.

 

Yes, some of my wife's lovers were turned on because they were into the taboo of having another man's wife. Usually, this wasn't a problem; in fact, the 'competition' they were contending in made them more vigorous lovers, my wife enjoyed that. 

 

A few times the man tried to belittle me with my wife; she quickly told them to knock it off. Not surprisingly, this happened more often when she was soloing than when I was in the room with them. One time, I remember, a guy was fucking her doggy style and he was saying weird shit to me about how I wasn't capable of satisfying her, etc.  My wife pushed him away, put a robe on and told him to get out. I was proud of her for that.

 

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34 minutes ago, AdamGunn2 said:

Ah, sorry, now I see your point.

 

Yes, some of my wife's lovers were turned on because they were into the taboo of having another man's wife. Usually, this wasn't a problem; in fact, the 'competition' they were contending in made them more vigorous lovers, my wife enjoyed that. 

 

A few times the man tried to belittle me with my wife; she quickly told them to knock it off. Not surprisingly, this happened more often when she was soloing than when I was in the room with them. One time, I remember, a guy was fucking her doggy style and he was saying weird shit to me about how I wasn't capable of satisfying her, etc.  My wife pushed him away, put a robe on and told him to get out. I was proud of her for that.

 

I agree that it is usually a good thing too.  I was just pointing out that it's extremely common to be turned on by fucking someone's SO.  It's no different than a younger person getting off on the idea of fucking their best friend's mom or their teacher.  I see nothing wrong with it being a turn on, nor would I judge anyone for it.  I think some people just don't like to actually admit it.

 

There have been a couple of occasions where what you said may have happened but they are rare and we wouldn't put up with it.  I think more of what we've seen are guys asking my GF "did your boyfriend ever ______" and then fill it in with whatever they did or wanted to do, whether it's "fuck you that hard," "make you squirt," "piss on you," etc etc etc.  Honestly, it doesn't bother me in the least because I understand the kink.  A lot of times they ask her in private or via text and my GF tells me about it or shows it to me and we talk or laugh over it.

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21 hours ago, Anon321 said:

I see this all the time with guys who fuck my GF, especially my friends.  It plays into the whole cuckold and dominance fetishes.  It's also taboo which adds to it.

 

19 hours ago, Anon321 said:

If someone had a rule against having sex with a married woman, then they wouldn't do it.  But because they are married, it makes it that much hotter to those who do it.  In their head they are competing when they fuck her. 

If you marry this woman, and I think that you should, the feelings will only get more intense all the way around.  Your wife, mother of your children. 

 

Please give us her perspective as well.  How does she feel about the other men, you, and especially herself?

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On 5/16/2024 at 8:02 AM, couplers said:

 

If you marry this woman, and I think that you should, the feelings will only get more intense all the way around.  Your wife, mother of your children. 

 

Please give us her perspective as well.  How does she feel about the other men, you, and especially herself?

She loves it.  And she notices the energy that the guys bring because of how kinky and taboo the situation is.

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