Swinger Escorts: swinging for profit

[JustAskJulie 2,588]

I was just looking at my latest follows on twitter and it's always rather interesting to see who is there and what they post. I noticed one recent follower that has the following in their twitter profile:

 

 

Hi, we are Sarah & Tjames a Swinging Couple (Male + Female) available for Mens, Womens and Couples for Live Action, Threesomes or Foursome!

 

Nothing, really obvious there, but then when you look at their twitter image it says "swinger escort couple".

 

We've had a few topics around here about the option of using an escort to fulfill a threesome fantasy, but this got me wondering, how many couples would pay for an "escort couple"? Then my thoughts wondered over to the idea of how in so many ways people have jumped on the "swinger" as a way to make money, whether it's the new swinger dating site that seems to pop up every day (my twitter follows are full of those as well) or a couple that decides, hey instead of just swinging for fun, we could swing for profit.

 

So, what are your thoughts on this?

[mauijanedoe 1,414]

I've actually recommended hiring an escort, even though it's something I'd never do myself. I've done so when it appears the couple has no interest in actual swinging, but just wants to fulfill a particular fantasy and a third person is required in the same way a toy is needed at times. In those instances, a professional might be a much better option.

 

Perhaps an escort couple would fulfill the same need, when the fantasy is on such a narrow band that all the work necessary to begin swinging isn't needed or desired.

 

As far as swinging for profit, I find the idea faintly repulsive, but also see it as the inevitable result of swinging's increasing visibility.

[sunbuckus 3,565]

The only way it would be profitable is if singles/couples are looking to fulfill a fantasy once, like maui suggested. Someone once pointed out that there would be no reason for true swingers to turn to escorts when they can find suitable couples for free.

[Chicup 38]

I've seen this a few times in SLS adds, looking for "generous" couples.

 

Meh, not my thing. I'd rather pass myself, and as for doing it hell no. NOT because I am morally against prostitution, I am just against having sex with people I don't find attractive. We were commenting about "the chocolate room" on the cruise (if I ever get my ass down to write the review, maybe tonight) with some couples we met and once we found out the guys couldn't say no, we realized its the worst job in the world.

[Coupleerotic22 1,417]

There is enough fun to be had for free so why pay.

 

Come to think of free is a bit of a misnomer, with all the associated cost. Let me rephrase - enough fun to be had without paying for act itself. Now that I think about it, paying for it may be cheaper in the long run, but still seems like a hell of a lot less fun than doing it the old fashioned way and looking for people you find interesting and feel the same towards you.

 

I guess if there was a fantasy we just could not fulfill without paying we might consider it, but I seriously doubt it.

 

I am not sure how I would react if some we thought was interested asked us to pay, beyond telling them we pass. I would likely be a bit irritated if we had invested a fair amount of time only to discover at the last minute it was a play to pay scenario. If they were upfront we would just pass and not give much thought I guess.

[funcoupledayton 2,707]

Interesting. I would like to hear about their experiences.

 

I wouldn't pay to swing or be paid. I like being with people I like and am attracted to and feel the same about my husband and I.

[ViSexual 1,006]

I think it might be something to do if the fantasy you and your spouse want fulfilled is sort of one sided. For example, there was a part of the old Emanuelle film where Emanuelle and her husband got a very nice 'couples' massage from two very cute Thai young ladies. My wife and I have often mentioned us trying something like that. I could see hiring a couple to give us massages that included sex.

[M&S 265]

I have no problem with the notion of paying a couple to swing. If there is a buyer and a seller, as long as no one is hurt, let the market work.

 

Like others, I would not do it myself. One of the draws of swinging, for us, is the process and intrigue of meeting a couple, making a connection and then playing.

[two4youinswva 3,067]

I wonder if they charge extra for dealing with drama?

 

"How much for a half and half with some unplanned jealous rage?"

[kellimc 214]

I've had a number of single guys offer to pay me to be their dates at couples-only house parties and swinger clubs so that they could get an invitation. One couple offered to pay me after I told them I wasn't interested in them. Another couple offered to pay me to participate with the female half in a gangbang, as they knew I had done gangbangs before. I declined all offers.

[JustAskJulie 2,588]

I've seen this a few times in SLS adds, looking for "generous" couples.

 

Meh, not my thing. I'd rather pass myself, and as for doing it hell no. NOT because I am morally against prostitution, I am just against having sex with people I don't find attractive. We were commenting about "the chocolate room" on the cruise (if I ever get my ass down to write the review, maybe tonight) with some couples we met and once we found out the guys couldn't say no, we realized its the worst job in the world.

 

Chocolate room? Ok, still waiting on that review and your "How to Make the Most of Swinger Cruises" write-up.

 

I've had a number of single guys offer to pay me to be their dates at couples-only house parties and swinger clubs so that they could get an invitation. One couple offered to pay me after I told them I wasn't interested in them. Another couple offered to pay me to participate with the female half in a gangbang, as they knew I had done gangbangs before. I declined all offers.

 

Sounds like you could make some good money as a SF Swinger Escort. I'm thinking if I were single I might consider it.... but then, at the same time, it just seems like it would take so much of the fun out of it.

[kellimc 214]

Chocolate room? Ok, still waiting on that review and your "How to Make the Most of Swinger Cruises" write-up.

 

 

 

Sounds like you could make some good money as a SF Swinger Escort. I'm thinking if I were single I might consider it.... but then, at the same time, it just seems like it would take so much of the fun out of it.

 

I've had my opportunities to escort, but I haven't. I will admit that I've considered it, but you never know what type of guys you might run into. It can be dangerous. As for swinging, I just want to have fun and do only what I want to do. If I accept money from swingers, I'm obligated to do what they want to do.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,019]

There is a woman near us who has an SLS profile. There are no hints in her profile that she offers this service. We occasionally see her at a meet-n-greet event. She revealed the fact that she offers this service after I had chatted her up on a few different occasions. She says some of her swing dates are paid dates; others are just for fun, if she likes the person. I'm afraid to ask her if I am one of those likable types. She has not, however, quit her "day job".

[David3State 24]

There’s an old saying: You don’t pay an escort to cum, you pay them to go.

 

I have actually been on the other end: a single guy who has hired couples to play with. I find that the couple escorts know what they want, in terms of fun and profit, and although they do not go out with just anyone, the barrier to entry is relatively low and as a single guy it is nice to know that play will definitely occur.

 

Not cheap, though! However I will say that there is no correlation of price to quality. Also, since the crackdown on Craigslist/Backpage it is very difficult to find couples in the US (one reason I enjoy visiting UK, Germany and Spain!)

[Napoleon 232]

Hiring an escort is below me.

[MidwestHoneys 335]

Honey isn’t an escort getting things from her partners, she gets things from someone who watches with no participation. 

[nusofties 50]

What is a “chocolate room”?