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The Hall Pass Poll - Do you and your partner do Hall Passes?

Do you and your partner do Hall Passes?  

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  1. 1. Do you and your partner do Hall Passes?

    • Yes, we do them
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    • Nope, we don't do them
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My wife has a hall pass but not the other way around (am ok with this).   My only ground rules are that she communicate with me before and after and to stay safe.  To date she has not taken me up on this offer though I know it is something she is curious about.  We'll see in time...

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If a hall pass is allowing the other partner play solo count us as yes. 

Swinging is newer to us, playing around is not. I travel extensively and I did meet women who were more than eager to join me in some fun. I sometimes spent the night with female clients and associates. I never hid my marital status. Many of the women I met are married too. I was sure my wife knew I was with women over the years. At a Las Vegas trade show I shared a room with a business associate. I had always talked about her to my wife as someone I enjoyed going to dinner with. This one time my wife asked if I was sleeping with her and I gave her the answer of what happens in LV stays there.  Without getting mad she pressed for details. 

All this led to her asking if she could meet men. 

Our rules:

Be Careful

Don’t lie

Be open to sharing details

No falling in love 

No long term relationships

 

Our deal was no more than four dates with the same person. 

My wife signed up on dating sites and cheating sites. I suggested she meet married men as they most likely don’t want a relationship. She gave me her passwords to prove she wasn’t hiding anything. 

We shared our intimate details. Finally we got to a point where we agreed to swinging. I encouraged my wife to find our swinger friends. 

For me giving her all the freedom of meeting men was easier than playing with her and watching her. 

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Thinking about it, it wouldn't bother me if Red or hubby had sex with another woman.  I'd be really curious and want to know the details, but would have no opposition to it.  It would bother me, however, if Clair or Lora had sex with some other guy or especially another woman and didn't discuss it with me and the other beforehand.  Not because of the sex or intimacy, but because we share everything among us and I'd feel left out.

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For some reason, I took another look at this post and the multitude of reactions.

 

It seems to me what the definition of 'hall pass' is in your relationship is important. Does it mean that either party can have unrestrained sex with whomever they please with no consequences? Or does it come with conditions?

 

For us, I'd say, no, we don't have 'hall passes.'  Before either of us solos, we opt to inform our mate, ask for 'permission.' Although I can't think of a time when 'permission' wasn't granted, it did give us the opportunity to consider if the proposed liaison was a good idea or not.

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My husband and I do Hall Passes when ever I travel for work.  While I'm away I can fuck whomever I want and he can fuck whomever he wants.  Its fun.  

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On 10/5/2019 at 7:44 AM, Guest said:

Our only requirement is that we share the story and experience and try to get "proof" of sex with a video or some photos. It's a very big turn on and the reconnect sex is fantastic.

Most of our play is alone play or threesomes within our closed group, either one of us with another couple or one of them joining us.  We don't have a rule about needing prior permission to play or a subsequent disclosure, although it is always mentioned.  The "proof" from my wife that I like best is smelling pussy on her breath and finding cum in her cunt.  Nothing has been better than the occasions when they're in our bed when I get home.

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  • When did you start doing hall passes? Did you ever have a rule against them that you broke?
  • were you both 100% on same page with them or was one partner more in favor?
  • if you don't do the hall pass, why? Do you ever think you will?
  • what good and bad hall pass stories have YOU had?

Ans: Hi Nikki here will write my experiences

 

We started our lifestyle with only couples and then slowly got comfortable with the regular couple and started to play alone while Tomy and the other wife watches and vice versa and then there were times when both the couples couldn't meet together so decided to play alone with the same couple. We just had a rule of only playing alone with only this couple. The rule was broken by us as when i had my child and had to move alone to my parents house for about 10 months so taking care of the child was ease, we both decided to break the rule and play alone. I found a partner who i met on tinder there and was having hall pass with him and tomy too was having his time and yes we both were on the same page the entire time. More than the bad experience i will say we had a lot of good experiences with the hallpass.

 

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I encourage my wife if she wanted to try casual sex while I was out for work and even bought her spare condoms and put in her purge in case she needs a quickly.

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On 9/9/2022 at 3:39 PM, Tomy Nikki said:

we both decided to break the rule and play alone. I found a partner who i met on tinder there and was having hall pass with him and tomy too was having his time and yes we both were on the same page the entire time.

That was very generous, understanding, and mature of both of you.  You two have a great marriage and a great sex life.

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