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I think male bisexuality is a lot more acceptable in 2016. Have had this discussion before and I think it is largely do to the evolution of society. Younger folks of today are a lot more open minded than previous generations.

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I have to say we are wary of bi males who are married. It is hard to sort out the men with hall passes and those who are on the side so to speak.

 

I agree, too many cheaters and after the amout of time and effort it took for my wife and I to work it out openly and honestly, I am NOT going to play with a cheater!

 

Some guys will let you talk to their wives (but who knows if it is really her), for me, I just hope I come across as honest as my wife is not up for vetting me to others. Also, I have been on the sites I use for hookup for along time, there is a running history of our process...

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OK, I think one reason a man will try it is to learn what his wife or girlfriends experience when they do it to him. So, guys, aren't you also curious about the whole experience they feel? I've admitted, for years, that I was 'curious'..., now I'm beginning to be completely 'curious'! :)

The male 1/2 of J&Wu really enjoys the opposite sex however occasionally over the years has seen an erect penis he would like to play with! The one time I asked a couple years ago I was turned down. I will look forward to the guys being more open about play with other guys. I too have always been "curious" see what it feels like to give head and receive anal, don't particularly need to give the latter.

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I agree with this a lot. I have no objection to any form of honestly expressed sexuality, even if I , myself , do not want to participate. I do NOT want to touch another man's junk, or have contact with another man's sperm. But....that is MY issue, not anybody else's. I have tried gay sex a couple of times on the understanding that it would be as if the other person was female. What I discovered is that a guy's mouth on my cock feels much like a woman's, and that a guy's ass feels like a woman's ass from the inside. So, for me, the issue is reciprocity. I am not willing to suck another man or allow another man to fuck me, so it would be hypocritical for me to become involved with a gay or Bi male. But I fully support those who are into it.

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Much to the contrary I think you would find someone such as yourself in high demand. A "top". Just look at how many Craigslist ads say no reciprocation needed/wanted.

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Can't add anything to the Craigs List comment. My take is most of the men on the swinger web sites looking for a 'top' are into cuckold activities. In talking to them complex role playing, humiliation, & some other oddball activities come up. I'm not much of a actor & its not my thing so cant comment of where that leads. I still will participate in a threesome or foursome that includes a straight male, but have not had any interest in pleasuring a man who cannot recip.

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Whether or not the sub guy agrees to no reciprocation, is immaterial to my feelings of hypocrisy . I do not like gay sex, for myself, so for me to involve myself in it would be dishonest. But that is beside the point. I actually envisage a time where words like gay or straight will have very little relevance.

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