Cuckolding

[couplers 4,140]

I voted yes for both hubby and me for several reasons, although it may not meet all the points of the definition.

 

Our initial foray into the lifestyle was hubby being monogamous and me having a boyfriend with whom I usually played (and still currently play) alone. But my playing alone is because my bf prefers it that way and it's easier to schedule, not any humiliation aspect. That never entered into it. When the three of us do get together sexually hubby and bf act as equals, which mean they defer to me by taking their turns or we do a DP.

 

Several years after we married hubby started playing as well, but the girls he had did not want me there, current gf excepted. Only one even let me watch. So I guess I was being cuckolded to some extent, but again it had nothing to do with humiliation - it took a lot for me to talk a few women into fucking my husband and they said it would be uncomfortable if I were there. So I wasn't going to spoil it. All that changed with our current girlfriend who is comfortable with a threesome or alone with either of us. So since we play alone a lot I guess you can say we are both being cuckolded, both by the same woman if girl-on-girl play alone counts.

 

Hubby and I agree now that if either of us encounters the opportunity and has the urge for sex with someone else there is no restriction (except the usual good sense: no one married & cheating, no underage, no co-workers) or prior approval required. The funny thing is neither hubby nor I have acted on it. There's no "tell everything" rule, but believe me we would share the joy.

[Big Rock 173]

I think that a majority of posters are confusing the "hot wife", idea, with cuckolding. It seems that Cuckolding implies humiliation or degradation of the spouse, particularly the male spouse. That the sexual gratification for both, involves this aspect of humiliation. If there is consent, where is the humiliation? If there isn't consent, then it's cheating. Unless it's some form of role-playing, which is another subject entirely.

[Dirty489 15]

Cuckolding is pretty much how we started the whole thing.

[Alura 2,766]

From The American Heritage Dictionary of the English Language:

 

cuckold n. A man whose wife has commited adultery. —tr.v. To make a cuckold of. Said of a husband. [Middle English cukeweld, cokewold, from Norman French cucuald (unattested), variant of Old French cucualt, from cucu, cuckoo (perhaps because cuckoos leave their eggs in the nests of other birds) (imitative) cuckoldry

 

Alura

[MN Tom 251]

I haven't actually met anyone yet who goes by the classic porn cuckold definition of wanting to be humiliated while seeing his wife being with another man.

 

We have met a few guys though who prefer the "hot wife" type of scenario, where they enjoy watching their wife with another man more than they enjoy being with that man's wife.

 

Actually that situation is where my "test" of being on video happened. The guy loves to watch his wife get fucked by other men, so they have a setup where she videos the play and he watches watch it later. They have little kids, so he was watching the kids when she went out. I talked with the guy in person before agreeing to this and his eyes were nearly glowing when he was describing how much he liked it.

[Tina and Bob 236]

We've done it and enjoy it although more often than not it's me having the sex either while he watches or on my own, but always with his knowledge and pre-appproval. We are not into the kinkier stuff like creampie eating and cleaning of the male by the husband, although bob has done sloppy seconds, thirds, etc. Tina

[olderyder 15]

Does it count as a cuckold if your only participation in the lifestyle was watching your wife play, or being in MFM's with your wife? After 3 years I told the wife that I was done with limited access, and she should just go ahead and do her own thing without me. I have been told on numerous occasions that I am a cuckold, and just want to be sure.

[fun4Ds 1,097]

My feelings are that any action that demeans one partner, or has the potential to be demeaning, is extremely risky, even with prior consent. These are, BTW, my objections to gangbangs. Once done, it can't be undone. The risk of anxiety, resentment, or jealousy in this type of playing is enormous.

 

I'm just curious, Big Rock. You came here stating that your "partner" had sex without your prior consent. Would you say that you've been a cuckold?

 

Could you clarify? Are you a cuckold?

 

Let me explain myself first.

 

I've never been a cuckold by definition, nor participated in a cuckold relationship of others. Although, one of our male playmates admits by definition that he has been and is, a cuckold. We've spoken openly about it.

 

I'm just curious to your definition in your experience, or how these feelings you mentioned ("anxiety, resentment, or jealousy") were dealt with ? If in fact they need be, as a cuckold ?

 

IF, being a cuckold, are the "rights to equality" applied? Such as in a gang bang, or in either relationship? Are/should these rights be exercised in your situation, or do they need be? In order to have, again, "rights of equality".

 

IF, what you say is true "once done it can't be un-done."

 

Help me understand this It seems you have knowledge, that might be beneficial to others in the same situation here some day

 

To me, It seems the acceptance of inequality apply, if the "rights to equality" are not exercised or acknowledged, and agreed to.

 

Fun~ Who's leaving out your improper misspelling of gang bang , according to my "limited knowledge" of proper spelling.

[Big Rock 173]

This is thread-jacking, but I'll give it a shot. According to Alura's definition, I wasn't, as we were not married at the time. That it WAS cheating I have no doubt, and she agrees with me 100%, and has been at great pains to show me that nothing like this will EVER happen again. As I understand "cuckolding", a major part of the attraction, is the intentional humiliation of the spouse. This was obviously not the case here, as it was never intended that I should know, until way after the fact, if ever.

 

Why she did it? WE haven't completely answered this question, and our relationship cannot progress until it is answered. Look... I haven't any more knowledge than anybody else. I'm trying to find my way just like you or any other person in a relationship. If you or anyone else have any insights, I would be grateful for them. I do want to say that I believe that ANY activity that is agreed upon beforehand, by BOTH partners is OK, just that all parties be on the same page and are aware of the risks involved.

[Big Rock 173]

BTW, equality and equal opportunity are NOT the same thing.

[prometheius 137]

WE haven't completely answered this question, and our relationship cannot progress until it is answered.

 

If you or anyone else have any insights, I would be grateful for them.

 

If you are waiting to have your questions answered completely before progressing further into the relationship, you may never get any further than you are now. After all, She has assured you that nothing like this will ever happen again and has apologized profusely. What is the point of rehashing this over and over. Wouldn't it be better to learn what you can from it and move forward?

[Big Rock 173]

I expect you're right, Promethius, and we are doing what we can to put it into perspective. I've forgiven her, and she says it won't happen again, and she is impeccably honest, so I don't have a major problem. She, on the other hand , still feels guilty about it, and that is what we are mainly dealing with , right now.

[MacNfries 122]

It's always interesting to see all the various understandings/opinions of such a well defined word as cuckold. It seems that the word takes on new definitions and meaning as more days pass. Personally, one can call anything they wish "cuckold", but where the problem lies is when several people try having a discussion about it, and everyone has a different interpretation of the word.

 

We are provided a ton of definitional sources in word search, and each and every one of them (excluding some website definitions) refer to cuckolding as (1) a man married to an unfaithful wife, or (2) a man married to a woman who is or has been unfaithful, or (3) a man whose wife has committed infidelity. Notice nothing mentioned about single people or a man who encourages his wife to cheat.

 

The husband may know or NOT know of his wife's infidelities, but the fact is, he has no control over the situation.

 

Another word, which might better describe a man who condones and even encourages his wife to have sex with other men, is wittol

 

True or Real cuckolding is not generally an enjoyable situation for the cucked man. He experiences emotional strain, depression, and many of the other stressful events associated with being involuntarily involved with a cheating spouse.

 

It seems that cuckolding, however, has mutated over the past few years. Now it is encouraged by the male spouse, and it not only includes husbands as cuckolds, but wives as well ... I reference you to Sandra Bullock & the late Elizabeth Edwards, both whom referred to themselves as being cuckolded when they discovered their spouses cheating on them.

 

Cuckolding now has a second form ... Fantasy Play Cuckolding where the male spouse encourages and even arranges for his wife to have sex with other men. Included with this form of cuckolding are many developing fetishes such as creampie eating, small penis humiliation, sissy dress of male spouse, interracial sex, pregnancy, large cocks, cuckold agreements, domestic house cleaning assignments to the cuck, sex denial, cocklocks, cuckold & cuckoldress jewelry & tattoos & dresswear, etc etc. Generally, the couples, getting into cuckold play, pick and choose the fetishes that provide them the greatest excitement.

 

A few key facts about cuckoldings are:

(1) the female is promiscuous while the male remains monogamous,

(2) in true cuckolding, the female is in control of the situation, and the cuckolding continues until either the relationship breaks up, or she decides to stop,

(3) in fantasy play cuckolding, the couple, but primarily the male, is in control of the situation. When he finally tires of sharing his wife's charms, he turns it off, and it stops.

 

Cuckolding is even more devastating to marriages than regular swinging. Men who encourage their spouses to cuckold them often lose control of the situation, and more often an emotional bond is created between his wife and the lover(S) she has taken. Whereas men seem to separate sex and love more easily, women prefer those two emotions together, thus frequent emotional bonds do occur.

 

I would never encourage my wife to go OUT on dates or seek sex without my presents. Communication & trust are key to surviving the cuckold games. Mac

[carl01tx 17]

We would take cuckolding to mean, I, the husband who's wife plays without him and comes home to tell him about it and, on other occasions, watches his wife play with others.

Picking up a guy may seem risky to most but she and I have discussed it and we feel we have ways of her doing it with very minimal risks. My wife has a natural amorous glow whenever we do this and that, in itself, is obvious to people around her.

 

This was one way that she picked up a guy; we went to a dinner club several times and watched for guys who frequent the club and have a group of people there that are regulars meeting them there. Once we felt like he seemed to be a nice guy (as best we could from observation), she fluttered in and flirted with the men in the group and hung out with them until the guy she is interested in got flirty back at her. She gave me a smile and nod from across the room want to the restroom and phoned me about the plans she has with the guy. The plan included a motel and a time that he will drop her off at home. She updated me at the motel with a phone call and proceeded to have sex. By the time she got home I was anxiously ready to hear all the details and have sex. We have done a very similar encounter where I was with her while she flirted and we had a guy come to a room with us where she had both of us at once and one on one.

 

It is a fun way to people watch, have sexy conversation, and finish the evening with great sex, also, I do not have to be concerned with a wife(with turbo sex drive), having to lie or cheat.

[Big Rock 173]

Regardless of her, "turbo sex drive", I wasn't aware of any situation where a wife "has", to lie or cheat.

[celtic239 297]

I thought that the purpose of cuckold meant "husband" was being humiliated with direct or indirect knowledge of his wife's infidelity and was powerless to do anything about it.

[Big Rock 173]

I thought that the purpose of cuckold meant "husband" was being humiliated with direct or indirect knowledge of his wife's infidelity and was powerless to do anything about it.

I agree with this post. This is why I think that most posters are confusing "cuckolding", with "hot wife". In cuckolding, the husband has no choice and is completely marginalized, without power of consent. In hot wife the sex is agreed upon, and it is merely role playing.

[SheerBliss 92]

I agree with the last post - cuckolding involves some kind of humiliation or degradation of the husband while the wife is having sex with someone else. For example telling the husband how the new partner's cock is bigger...he's a better lay...makes me cum harder...etc, etc...

 

The Hot Wife culture involves men who are aroused by seeing their wife with another man, then re-claiming her afterwards. Usually involves just watching and/or threesomes. My husband is very much into this which I think makes me an extremely lucky woman! We play with couples too, but he is not nearly as turned on by being with another woman as he is by me being with another man.

 

I mentioned in another thread somewhere that a friend of mine has written a book about the hot wife culture called "Insatiable Wives and the Men Who Love Them". It's a very interesting, research-based look at this phenomenon.

[Alura 2,766]

I agree with this post. This is why I think that most posters are confusing "cuckolding", with "hot wife". In cuckolding, the husband has no choice and is completely marginalized, without power of consent. In Hot wife the sex is agreed upon, and it is merely role playing.

 

The dictionaries don't say that. A cuckold is simply "a man whose wife is unfaithful." Nevertheless, at the time the word entered the English Language my guess is that humiliation and dishonor were the expected results of having learned of one's wife's infidelities. A man could kill both his wife and her lover and never face charges. The last I heard, such a "crime of passion" was excusable in Texas and other states. That may have changed. I don't keep up on such things.

 

Alura

[Big Rock 173]

I expect you're right, Alura, as far as definition goes. I think, however, that word usage changes as time goes by. Cuckolding is usually a very negative term, but that might change in the future. Traditionally, it implies the humiliation and disrespect for the person being cuckolded.

[CdnCpl4Fun 15]

I always thought of a cuckold played the submissive role and didn't participate in the sexual activity unless his partner ordered him to do so.

 

In our discussions my wife she wants me to participate, this is very important to both of us. If I don't then she is only having sex with another man. If I am involved we are both having sex with her.

 

However, I usually imagine that they start off together at first. I join in soon afterwards or she starts on both of us at the same time, maybe with double oral.

 

At the same time, during the sex act she is in charge of what happens. The entire fantasy revolves around her enjoying herself.

[Big Rock 173]

I always thought of a cuckold played the submissive role and didn't participate in the sexual activity unless his partner ordered him to do so.

 

In our discussions my wife she wants me to participate, this is very important to both of us. If I don't then she is only having sex with another man. If I am involved we are both having sex with her.

 

However, I usually imagine that they start off together at first. I join in soon afterwards or she starts on both of us at the same time, maybe with double oral.

 

At the same time, during the sex act she is in charge of what happens. The entire fantasy revolves around her enjoying herself.

But isn't this role-playing? By participating, your consent is implied. From what I understand, in a true cuckold situation, part of the attraction is the humiliation and marginalization of the male partner.

[MacNfries 122]

I think, having been in a few cuckold forums the past 7-8 years, where the true definition of cuckolding gets lost is where each individual's perception of what "cheating" is. Some individuals feel that when a married woman has sex with another man, regardless of whether her husband arranged or encouraged it, she has been unfaithful and committed "infidelity" ... thus violating her marriage vows, and making her husband a cuckold.

 

Personally, I dislike redefining a word that is so clearly defined, and I don't feel a married woman has been unfaithful or committed infidelity if her husband has arranged or encouraged her act. But sometimes, when we have forum or chat room discussions, all these various understandings of the definition simply confuse the topic.

 

Certainly, however, the use of cuckold is evolving ... reference Elizabeth Edwards & Sandra Bullock's use of the word when their husbands cheated on them. Also, it is becoming a fantasy play as couples play out the fantasy of the wife being an insatiable whore ... married men love this play. Its not much different from swinging, except that the married man remains monogamous, whereas the wife is allowed to have lovers. Mac

[funn 15]

We have been swinging for the past 7 years. My wife has spent the night at her boyfriend's house a couple of times and the experience is mind numbing! The more detail she gives me about her night the more I ravage her when she comes home.

[strathmore 20]

We have been swinging for the past 7 years. My wife has spent the night at her boyfriend's house a couple of times and the experience is mind numbing! The more detail she gives me about her night the more I ravage her when she comes home.

 

I've been the 'other guy' (bull) a few times and couples tell me similar stories to yours; that they have wild sex after she tells him all the details or he cleans her up etc.

[dr_pepper 25]

Back a few years ago, I was married to a lady with whom I had the closest thing to being in the LS. Actually, it was an open marriage in the truest sense, I think.

 

I had one gf I saw once and a while, and she had a couple bf's. One fellow she had know since they were 5 or 6 and then became intimate with around 13 or so. The other, an older fellow, who was rather shaken up when he met me one day, and knew that I knew all about their fun, and approved.

 

I loved hearing all of the details of their meetings and usually knew when they were together. The guy who she had known for so long, became a friend of mine too, and we actually worked together for quite a while. Needless to say, we had some great conversations. Later he got with my sister too....

 

This was a great time, and we did try to expand our horizons with others, but were not able to find the right fits. Sadly, other issues caused us to part.

 

If this is being Cuckolded, then go for it!

[Big Rock 173]

From what I understand, Dr. Pepper, this isn't cuckolding. It's seems more like the "hot wife", thing.

[Brian and Jo 344]

We have had an open marriage for many years. We both have permission to play alone provided we are open and honest with one another about what we are doing. So we have cuckolded many times, mostly Jo on her own but sometimes with Brian present. If Jo is on her own it is always a turn-on for Brian when she gets home and reports on what she did. When Brian is there he has the great pleasure of watching Jo having sex with another man which he never tires of seeing.

[Wailea07 21]

Mrs. Wailea and I played separately with the spouses of a very close couple friend of ours many times. And on a few occasions Mrs. Wailea has played with three men alone with my permission. While this has all been fun and erotic it is not our preferred way to play. We would rather have same room full swaps or MFM. I am definitely a voyeur and love to watch Mrs. Wailea having a good time, almost to the point I prefer it more than me having sex with another women. I just find I am so attracted to my wife I would rather do her than any other woman. I guess that is another reason I really enjoy MFM. We fantasize all the time about her picking up a guy in a bar and telling me about it later. Not sure we will ever do it. It will probably be one of those things that makes for hot bedroom talk during sex but never becomes a reality.

[yummywetpuss 16]

I've watched cuckolding videos and it's something I would love to try. I would love to be a housewife and have my man watch me fucking other men and it would really be a turn-on to watch him eat the creampies that the others have left behind. Really Hot!!!

[arrangiarsi 15]

"Hell Yes! We love it."

;-)

[StewartP 171]

Jesus, no. Not ever!

 

We play separately sometimes, but the humiliation aspect of cuckolding? Fuck no! I looked at cuckold subreddit like /r/polyamory and /r/CuckoldCommunity and made the mistake of reading some of the threads there.... That would break me.

[lookingfora3rd 34]

The worst thing we have found are the guys again. To many talk a big game but when it comes to ironing out details they run away like little boys..

 

Couldn't agree more.

 

Ms. Lookingfora3rd has been trying to find a fuck buddy for a long time now as we both find the idea of her playing alone very very hot. Two different guys have shown major interest then just disappeared for no reason BEFORE doing anything with her other than light kissing/petting. Problem is she is honest with them and I guess guys get scared off pretty easy. All I know is when I was single if a HOT young horny chick told me that she wanted a fuck buddy and nothing more emotionally speaking, I would never have ran off like a scared little boy.

 

It is all about intentions and we seem to think that the guys with bad intentions are worried about the consequences that may be served by hubby. Especially when hubby is a tattooed biker dude

[yourluvrman 28]

I've been the 'other guy' (bull) a few times and couples tell me similar stories to yours; that they have wild sex after she tells him all the details or he cleans her up etc.

 

Ditto this.

[yourluvrman 28]

we have been swinging for the past 7 years. My wife has spent the night at her bf's house a couple of times and the experience is mind numbing! The more detail she gives me about her night the more I ravage her when she comes home.

 

To take it even a step further. On many occasion, the Cuckoldress has communicated to her Cuck, in real time (phone or Skype), in addition to snap shots or video, her enjoyment, much to the Cuck's delight. I have found this a highly erotic experience in fulfilling the Bull role.

[D&D 362]

It seems that there is a lot of confusion between cuckold and Hotwife. Two very different things!

[sunbuckus 3,565]

It seems that there is a lot of confusion between cuckold and Hotwife. Two very different things!

 

I'm still confused sometimes!! For me, the difference is that cuckold is where the wife humiliates the husband. Hotwifing is not...but I think others' have different opinions.

[yourluvrman 28]

I'm still confused sometimes!! For me, the difference is that cuckold is where the wife humiliates the husband. Hotwifing is not...but I think others' have different opinions.

 

This is generally the consensus, however, the women in the cuck fetish is commonly referred to as the 'Cuckoldress'. So the comparison/contrast would be between the Cuckoldress and Hotwife.

 

Typically, I distinguish between the two as I have had vacations and weekend getaways with the Hotwife, as she is more in a dating relationship with me, as opposed to the Cuckoldress who is more about the play. That is just my experience, however.

[M1F2KTJ 470]

I think I came across a poll where they asked if swinging was a lifestyle or hobby. I chose hobby. I think the same thing is true with cuckolding. My wife loved having sex with other men to the point that she started picking out playmates on her own. Some of the guys were really cocky, arrogant and disrespectful of me when they found out I like to share my wife. I felt like a cuckold the night she shut the door on me as I followed them back to the bedroom. She wanted to spend time alone with him. I wasn't mad at her. I kind of liked it. I passed out on the couch watching TV knowing they were fucking. It has never become a "lifestyle".

[D&D 362]

Everyone derives pleasure in many different ways. Not passing judgment, but the first time mrs D plays cuckoldress is the last time we swing.... I am way to insecure to deal with that.

[bydforever511 18]

In my opinion, since I enjoy watching my wife and fully approve of what goes on -- not to mention I hate being humiliated -- I'd have to say that cuckolding wouldn't be for us, nor have we ever done anything like that. "Hotwifing" maybe, but not cuckolding.

[Sunnyexbrit 1]

Dear Hoistsail Quick question. How "bonded" do you become when you are a bull for a cuck/hotwife couple ? Just curious. Or is it they who are more into you?

[GoNatural 104]

I've only read the first post then this last page, so I may be repeating something that someone else said.

 

First, yes my partner (who is married to someone else, she's poly) goes into cuckold fetish territory with me. We do light cuckolding. It's not direct humiliation with the exception of us both calling my average dick a "little dick" once in a while. Other than that, we play with the perspective that her other boyfriends are better in bed and fuck her better than I do, even if she only tells me when I ask. It's the underlying perspective. There is no other humiliation play.

 

From my experience, even more accurate than saying humiliation must be used for it to qualify as cuckolding, is saying that pleasure is derived from having the perspective that the other male is sexually superior or more talented with women in general. Then, after that there are different levels of cuckolding play.

 

The Hotwife fetish is more being turned on because the wife is hot and can enjoy sex with several men while having a sexually liberated attitude and both partners have much respect for her sexuality. In fact, I think her sexuality is help up slightly on a pedestal here more than it is in regular swinging. It's the praise of the hot woman, just as there is social praise for the handsome stud who beds women more easily than usual.

[goodlil666 15]

I enjoy being the other man in the cucking. I have had numerous encounters with couples into this and it varies to what extent it is carried. I have had some where hubby had to wait in the next room or outside or not present at all. Had one where we video taped the entire tryst for her to take home for them to watch later. I have had some where hubby was made to watch at very close range while wife verbally humiliated him and others where wife would make hubby expose himself while she made fun of his small size and inadequacies in bed. I have had others that would make hubby watch and even photograph and videotape our encounter and sometimes even make hubby lick my fresh cream pie from their honeypot. Even had a few that would make hubby perform oral on me to clean her mess up and to start new wood and even bust a load in hubbies mouth. The most fun for me was an ongoing cuckold FWB relationship I had that lasted over 2 years where hubby was made to watch, take pics, of us and even other male and female partners that would join us per her request. It started out once or twice a month and at the end when her job transfered out of state it was 3-4 nights a week. Being the other man has been an enormous amount of fun for me and I still continue to see cuckold couples. Thanks cucks

[male4ypleasure 64]

I find that there are actually quite a few "lifestyles" presented here and that often some feel that they can't be open about their choice because it isn't the primarily accepted one. At one point I think the poly people here felt that way, hopefully they don't anymore... I'm wondering if this may also be true of those who enjoy cuckolding.

 

If this is something you enjoy, please post your thoughts and share with us what turns you on about this idea, and (if you act on it) how you go about acting on it.

 

male4ypleasure I love playing with cuckold couples. I like watching the husband get turned on watching me pleasure his wife, Additionally, I love the look of pleasure on the wife's face while she watches her husband suck her lover's cock clean.

[male4ypleasure 64]

male4ypleasure, I totally agree with your post and have had the pleasure of three long term cuckold relationships. Having the husband watch or listen from another room is a real turn-on. Additionally, I love the look of excitement on the wives faces when they have their husbands suck my hard cock clean.

[GerdOEvert 48]

I found cuckold very hot. It was also a hotwife experience.

 

We did it three different ways. We would go to an on-premises club and Darlene would find a male who was of interest to her. She would go off with him, or in one case them. Sometimes I would watch, other times she would be in a closed room for privacy. After they finished she would tell me the details and often I would go down and eat her out. I found that really erotic.

 

The other way was to have a MFM threesome. We did that four or five times and Darlene always picked out the guys she wanted for the adventure.

 

Later we had an unusual agreement. She would have a lover over for several hours Sunday morning while I took the kids on some adventure and breakfast. She would tell me later what transpired. I even got to talk with her lover on the phone, and he thanked me. Eventually, they went for a three day weekend of sex and golf at Harpers Ferry.

 

I found it very hot for my wife to have sex with others. I really love sloppy seconds and cream pies. I wish we were still having those experiences.

 

Otto

[male4ypleasure 64]

Enjoyed your post on cuckolding and wish you were located closer!

[sahajacpl 95]

I find that there are actually quite a few "lifestyles" presented here and that often some feel that they can't be open about their choice because it isn't the primarily accepted one. At one point I think the poly people here felt that way, hopefully they don't anymore... I'm wondering if this may also be true of those who enjoy cuckolding.

 

If this is something you enjoy, please post your thoughts and share with us what turns you on about this idea, and (if you act on it) how you go about acting on it.

 

So, how does cuckolding differ from swinging separately or open marriage with or without consent of your primary mate? As a thought and a variation of good old-fashioned swinging where both husband/wife are present during sexual play, and, of course intercourse with another male/female it sounds exciting.

 

And, as a variation of swinging, cuckolding sounds very exciting particularly when you meet a sexy woman where her husband is away, and, you would love to fuck her in a one-on-one or f/m/f fashion. I have actually done, i.e., fucked a few women in this scenario, but never thought of the encounter as cuckolding. Never thought of involving her hubby to watch or play and perhaps that made it just cheating on her part. In one case after I fucked the woman and then met her hubby the next day and just the thought of his not knowing that I had done his wife previous night I got a hard-on.

[Butchj 65]

My husband is my slave. I have him by the balls so he has no choice but let me play. I keep my husband hard and horny begging for attention. He gets spanked and if he begs I screw him with a strapon. I’m an experienced cocksucker so he is addicted to my mouth. I use him for orally satisfying me having trained him early on. I had a hysterectomy so I can’t get pregnant. I have a daughter that I take great care of. In my early 20’s I hooked in NY city on weekends with my girlfriend so I know every way to get money out of a guy. I like Rich married guys who are safe and pay me what I deserve. I like hung guys and have a college boyfriend on the side who can screw me inside out. I even let him screw my ass. I’ve learned how to use men for my pleasures and see nothing wrong with it. I practice safe sex and am picky on my lovers. My boyfriend acts as my bodyguard and driver when I see clients. He knows I’m experienced with dildoes and recently got the nerve to ask me to fuck his ass. It was hot to see him bent over with a huge erection squealing as I took his ass. Now he is my slave as well. I have him hooked.