How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)?
Would you engage with your partner or partners with an audience?
406 members have voted
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1. Would you engage with your partner or partners with an audience?
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He: Sure. Excites me. Bring a camera.129
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He: No problems (but forget the camera).144
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He: Friends, yes. Strangers, No.31
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He: Not as a solo performance, but as part of a group, I'd be OK.46
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He: No thanks. Groupsex yes, but in the limelight? No.29
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He: I prefer the intmacy that one-on-one affords us.10
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He: Hell, no. I would even prefer the lights out, anyway!5
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He: Can I "Take the Fifth?"5
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She: Sure. Excites me. Bring a camera.89
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She: No problems (but forget the camera).112
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She: Friends, yes. Strangers, No.34
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She: Not as a solo performance, but as part of a group, OK.38
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She: No thanks. Groupsex yes, but in the limelight? No.26
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She: I prefer the intimacy that one-on-one affords us.13
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She: Hell, no. I would even prefer the lights out, anyway!5
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She: Can I "Take the Fifth?"5
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