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Pics while swinging?

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Do you take/allow pics to be taken during playtime?  

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  1. 1. Do you take/allow pics to be taken during playtime?

    • Yes
      322
    • No
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twoormoretotango    35

twoormoretotango
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Like most here, we have to be with people we like and trust, but we generally only play with people we like and trust. ;) We video-ed our second play time, G/G only at the time, and we're so glad we did, it's so hot/cool to be able to revisit it. We often find as we talk about a recent playtime on our podcast that we don't remember the details, or one of us saw something the other didn't, and it would be great to have video or pics of it to see what happened, LOL! We like video and taking the pictures from the video (as you can then pick the exact moment for the hottest pics from the video.) We didn't video or have pics of our very first playtime, when Mrs. Tango was on the sofa with another woman and they started making out (unexpectedly!) and it progressed to incredibly hot play on the sofa, and we SO wish we had that on video now!

 

For us, the trickiest part is asking the other couple or couples if they mind if we video it (and we always offer to give them a copy) and making sure if they say yes they are truly comfortable with it. But again, we usually would know them well enough to know whether they truly are and if we sense any trepidation, we simply don't.

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Fi86    78

Fi86
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I never take pictures but I don't have a problem with others photographing or videoing me.

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oc1234    430

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My wife and I get turned on when the video cameras are rolling. We are also fine with still cameras. Years ago we we were getting rid of a lot of old VHS tapes. Our usual threesome buddy had a man who tore apart the old cassettes for the screws. We gave our buddy some tapes to give the man. A few days later the man returned the tape quite embarrassed since it was one of my wife and I playing. Our buddy told us and we told him it actually turned us on and told him to give his friend a DVD of the tape. We actually had a policy that our buddy could show our playtime videos to any of his friends.

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