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Should We Talk Dirty To YOU?  

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  1. 1. Should We Talk Dirty To YOU?

    • The Dirtier the Better!
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    • I can take it or leave it
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    • Dirty Talk is a turn off
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    • It's ok to a point
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My wife says, "Good Cook, Lady in Public, and a Whore in Bed"

 

She calls me "Admiral" because I was stationed at Subic, and she gets wet. A real gusher.

 

Otto

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I've never been able to "do" dirty-talk. I just feel like a retard when I try to say it, and I get turned off in a big hurry if someone calls me a slut, whore, bitch, or whatever. I don't care if it is only play; if it gives me the impression that my partner has a less-than-acceptable level of respect for me, I am offended. This is somewhat strange because it's not uncommon for me to have a fantasy that involves this sort of degradation. I just can't do it in real life.

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Hi, my name is Pepper, and I'm a wonton slut.... :)

 

Oh, I LOVE the dirty talk, and for me, there's very little that would shock me out of being turned on. In real life, I am a feminist too, but I think part of liberating women is to acknowledge the fact that some of us do like to be treated like a whore in bed, and that there's nothing wrong with our self-esteem because of it. Just because someone says something during play doesn't mean they feel that way towards me in real life. To me, sex is play, and just like I used to pretend that I was a doctor when I was 5, it didn't make me Doogie Houser, MD in the real world.

 

My husband loves and respects me. We are partners in business and in our lives. But if we want to pretend that he's my pimp and he's going to whore me out, and he calls me dirty, dirty things..... facelick he's still going to love and respect me tomorrow and he will still consider me his equal. I know what I want, and I ask for it and am unashamed to say so.

 

If it's not something you really enjoy, don't do it and let your old flame know it too. But, if you think that you could enjoy it, but you're worried that you won't be considered a liberated woman, part of the liberation is to be sexually free. The limits are whatever you want them to be.

 

Pepper

 

PS: For a really interesting read along these same lines, you may want to read "Whores and Other Feminists" by Jill Nagle. It's very thought-provoking and definitely changed my outlook.

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Talking really dirty doesn't turn Mrs. WS on except when we are having sex, and she'll initiate it with stuff that sometimes shocks me! :lol: I can talk ultra-dirty to her in the heat of the moment, but wouldn't think of talking to her like that outside the bedroom. Also, that kind of talk is play-talk and in no way is representative of how I view her in reality. It's play-talk and nothing else.

 

Mr. WS

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I don't really mind dirty talk, but I do mind the way it is said.

 

I have a play partner who talks dirty and I really enjoy it when he does it because it is the tone of his voice. He has this very soft whisper, husky voice that just turns me on when he says things while playing. You can hear the passion in his voice.

 

Then again, I have been with a guy who has said the same words to me while playing, and it just turned me off. It was his tone. Very forceful and loud. No passion, no respect, no softness to it.

 

I do have a problem talking dirty. I end up giggling at myself and that kind of kills the mood!

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bear_and_babe said:

I do have a problem talking dirty. I end up giggling at myself and that kind of kills the mood!

 

HAHA .. that's me as well.. I love being talked dirty to, but I cant talk dirty back, I start giggling and wind up laughing so hard we have to stop. I'm not sure why it turns me on when he does it but makes me laugh when I do it. :hahaha:

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intuition897 said:
I've never been able to "do" dirty-talk. I just feel like a retard when I try to say it, and I get turned off in a big hurry if someone calls me a slut, whore, bitch, or whatever. I don't care if it is only play; if it gives me the impression that my partner has a less-than-acceptable level of respect for me, I am offended. This is somewhat strange because it's not uncommon for me to have a fantasy that involves this sort of degradation. I just can't do it in real life.

 

Hey thanks. I actually look forward to my boyfriend and I next encounter ... we have talked about it outside of bed too (and that just makes me hornier still!) so he's consented to "teaching" me ... ooh!

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I don't mind dirty talk but I draw a line at *slut/bitch/whore* talk. And the dreaded C word. You can dirty talk me, I will try to talk back but I am not that good at it..lol...but certain words you can not call me...at any time.

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Slut is actually a compliment around Spoomonkey Ranch...

 

I call Mrs Spoo that - she calls herself that - and she even has a sexy little leather choker that has the word in metal letters...

 

But, I don't call my playmates that - and our playmates don't call Mrs Spoo that. Certainly, if the right person did it, she wouldn't mind - and if I were comfortable enough with a playmate, I might feel a little more free to. But I really think there has to be an underlining understanding of respect.

 

Now - dirty phrase like "fuck me harder" or something similar are not uncommon with playmates. But it really has a lot to do with the comfort levels and mutual respect. The women I have called sluts are - without exception - the women I respect the most ;)

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LOVE the dirty talk... however it's also a very fine line between what I like and what will incite a "WTF?!"

 

I'm with the other ladies who said bitch/cunt/whore, etc. generally does not do anything for me. There's a whole other range of dirty talk if you're creative... and mental stimulation is always the most erotic. Happy to talk dirty, too, tho I'm not sure Husband's into that :o

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Mr. Eyesonus here. We don't like "dirty" talk either, and by "dirty" we mean the filthy words mentioned here, e.g., whore, cunt, bitch. Thats just not for us. "Fuck" is a word I use (way too often) in casual conversation, but I just don't like to say it much during sex. It's a cuss word, not a sex word anymore. Maybe we're just too polite, being southern and all, but some words are just too bad to use in anything so beautiful as sex.

 

IMHO there are different types and degrees of "dirty" talk. The lowest, like those mentioned above, then, words and phrases I call "graphic." Like "I love to feel my cock sliding into your juicy pussy, you have such a sweet pussy," or "you want this big cock in you now, baby?" The words are used to graphically describe what is, or if you like, what you want to imagine is happening. Basically descriptive but not crude words.

 

The third group (and there are many, this is all I can think of right now) are the words used to make "stories," when we talk through a fantasy, or a memory, of an erotic experience. I often talk to Mrs. E. this way, and graphically, but we don't use filthy words...well...maybe on those occasions when she cris out "FUCK ME NOW!" which is great because that means orgasm, and well, at that moment, anything goes! OMG :o

 

Have I just refuted myself? How embarrassing. :lol:

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I've never been able to "do" dirty-talk. I just feel like a retard when I try to say it...

 

LMAO! I do too Intuition! Actually, I got a little better at it once I learned how to do the phone sex thing. However, all the terms were a struggle for me, because I was raised in a household, where cursing was strictly forbidden. I was even afraid to curse outside of home, for fear something might slip at home one day. lol In any case, I know we're not talking about cursing her per se, but that "gutter language" as my mother called it, was really difficult for me to get used to as an adult.

 

 

...and I get turned off in a big hurry if someone calls me a slut, whore, bitch, or whatever. I don't care if it is only play; if it gives me the impression that my partner has a less-than-acceptable level of respect for me, I am offended. This is somewhat strange because it's not uncommon for me to have a fantasy that involves this sort of degradation. I just can't do it in real life.

 

Same here, and also gives me the impression that my "partner has a less-than-acceptable level of respect for me." Although I do not have any fantasies that involves that kind of language. In addition, you can add the c*nt to the list as well. That word is a sure-fire turn off for me, no matter how it's used. Probably because I only heard it at school, as a derogatory word against girls. But I'm no psychologist by any means. :D

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Originally Posted by GerdOEvert

My wife says, "Good Cook, Lady in Public, and a Whore in Bed"

All depends on what makes you comfortable. The misses loves it when I talk dirty to her! Sends her over the edge. It's bedroom talk, and not meant to be taken out of context, or disrespectable.

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I don't think I could get into this. I don't watch any porn with this, and if it comes on, it instantly spoils the mood. I was so relived the first girl I was with wasn't very vocal either. It was pretty affectionate yet fun. Just the way I prefer it I think.

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Thanks to all the threaders ... I wonder whether a woman's ability to "play by the rules" in life and be generally a good girl outside of the bedroom is in direct correlation to her wanting to talk dirty in bed and other sexual encounter venues ... I have had my share of wantonness and maybe I'm just burned out. So it's like overkill to have an illicit sexual thing and have him say nasty words as well ... too much of a good thing?

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I am vocal, but not so good at dirty talk. I once entertained a man who wanted me to storytell my personal exploits during sex - that was a HUGE turn off.

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It depends on my mood but usually I like to hear when my partner is enjoying himself. I think there's an arousing way to talk during sex and times when it doesn't work at all. I will say that if you get a "fuck" out of me you're doing something right. ;)

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I agree with you. The less talk the better for some people. Nothing spoils the moment like a WTF comment. If I'm already committed I smile and put up one finger to my lips in a polite 'be quiet' gesture. Some people are just really nervous and that seems to calm them down.

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