Jump to content
adventureUS2

How bi are you?

Recommended Posts

Yes, swinging is just one facet of my sex life, really. I've never thought of myself as first and foremost a swinger, but a free, bisexual woman who also happens to swing. lol

  • Like 2

Share this post


Link to post

I liked fiona response. I wish I could explore more of my bi curious side with my fiance. She hasn't brought it up but do like viewing attractive men. I guess I'm situationally bi as well. I hope as time evolves that women are more comfortable with men exploring with other men.

  • Like 2

Share this post


Link to post

As a Lifestyle Wife for 15 years, of course I am Bi and been so since college, when I took up bodybuilding and met other sexy gals like me, so we naturally hooked up. My first Husband was insecure about my Bi side, and I then met Dave, who had done adult entertainment around the same time I did for extra money of course LOL. He embraced my Sapphic side and joined many of my girlfriends with me. One day Dave told me about how popular he was in college, and being a Nudist like me when growing up, fell into mags and film including gay porn which paid much better. So now we a Bi Swingers who are both secure with our sexuality and open to share without jealousies and insecurities. There are other couples like us for sure....we make new friends all the time.

Laura and Dave

vegasnudecouple

  • Like 2

Share this post


Link to post

Beautiful! So you see many couples and/or have many gfs even outside of such couples? Seems like you are both getting the best of both worlds! :)

  • Like 1

Share this post


Link to post
I liked fiona response. I wish I could explore more of my bi curious side with my fiance. She hasn't brought it up but do like viewing attractive men. I guess I'm situationally bi as well. I hope as time evolves that women are more comfortable with men exploring with other men.

I could not agree with you more!!! Bi men are still much less accepted in society than bi women. Hell, they are barely accepted in the swinger community that is supposed to be “open minded” and “nonjudgmental”. I was just telling a swinger friend of mine that I’m interested in exploring my bi side. She asked if my wife would be open to it, and sadly enough that answer is no.

 

I hope you ALL get the chance to take your sexuality to wherever you would like it to go!

  • Like 2

Share this post


Link to post
I could not agree with you more!!! Bi men are still much less accepted in society than bi women. Hell, they are barely accepted in the swinger community that is supposed to be “open minded” and “nonjudgmental”. I was just telling a swinger friend of mine that I’m interested in exploring my bi side. She asked if my wife would be open to it, and sadly enough that answer is no.

 

I hope you ALL get the chance to take your sexuality to wherever you would like it to go!

 

Yes, very true. So your wife isn't open to it? What a shame.I think she's missing out. ;) lol

Share this post


Link to post

It was Carl Jung who originally said that all mammals are innately Bisexual. Look at monkeys and other primates. It is our society that has dictated what we could be instead of letting nature take hold. Fiona is right, a wife who is open to the Bi play and enjoyment has it made, and my Hubby and I find that those that are not open to at least try usually have some insecurity, which is OK for them, but those of us in the Open Lifestyle can put away the fear, jealousies and insecurities to share with each other and other like-minded couples who are truly liberated.

Laura and Dave

Share this post


Link to post

I am very bi, I have had homosexual monogamous relationships. I prefer women and couldn't see myself never enjoying a woman again, so that's why I consider myself bisexual.

  • Like 1

Share this post


Link to post

No, Freaky Fiona, she’s not open to it. Based on your reply it sounds like a scenario you would fancy. Have you ever been with 2 bi men?

Share this post


Link to post

I consider myself fairly bisexual in that I am open to a relationship with either a man or a woman. I think that it is more difficult for out bi men to meet women open to their orientation, however. Not sure where I would fall on the Kinsey scale, though!

  • Like 1

Share this post


Link to post
I once had an orgy with 4 Bi guys including my husband and that image will stick in my mind always.

Laura

Vegas Nude Couple

 

Different vibe than one woman with four straight men isn't it?

 

Most of the group sex I've been involved with has had predominantly bi males. Even if there are only one or two women in the room they are less the center of attention & it less of a gang bang atmosphere.

Share this post


Link to post

Hey GMO I had more Bi males in my 20's in college and 30's that I thought more than Dave I guess, but it is the truly Bisexual Couples that are more honest and less likely to show their insecurities. I knew I had a Bi personality even before my hubby, but we have shared more history and herstory when we got to know each other to appreciate each others' honesty and secrets that others did not know about us.

Laura and Dave

Share this post


Link to post

I’v sucked several men and I got to taste their cum twice when they didn’t pull out fast enough. But I want to suck a guy and have him shoot in my mouth until he’s dry. Don’t know if I’ll swallow, but I do want to taste the cum.

  • Like 1

Share this post


Link to post

Way to go Never. Been having guys shoot in my mouth since high school. My Hubby started in college and can he suck a cock. Cum tastes very different which is why we like to try many different friends so no two are alike.

Laura and Dave

  • Like 1

Share this post


Link to post

Bi experiences are still vivid memories for me. I would love to explore them again, as I really enjoyed the experience of a close friend coming in my mouth.

 

I'd probably be classified as heteroflexible. I really loved my few MFM experiences, but have only swallowed cum about ten times. Even the the taste and volume varied a lot, I just loved being able to bring pleasure to someone I was really close to. 

 

I was always the invited partner to friends who were couples. As I've recently learned that I'm polyamorous (acknowledged in the past 2 years) I want to share those experiences again. 

 

It's strange, as I've never been turned on by the idea of kissing another guy, but the vivid image of seeing my friend's wife masturbating in the background as he burst cum into my mouth is a memory I'd like to relive again some day.

 

I guess that since I've swallowed four different guys' cum that I'm probably more bi than hetero, but having only had the one woman for more than 25 years now, it's probably difficult to categorise clearly how bi I am, or could be.

Share this post


Link to post
On 2/16/2020 at 9:39 PM, Nevertooold said:

I’v sucked several men and I got to taste their cum twice when they didn’t pull out fast enough. But I want to suck a guy and have him shoot in my mouth until he’s dry. Don’t know if I’ll swallow, but I do want to taste the cum.

I love salty cum. When I suck off another man, that groaning and twitching as he thrusts his hips and his load hits my throat is my biggest thrill. I love pulling my mouth off his dick and it being wet with no cum left. The masculine guys that tell me I suck as good as their women make me feel good too. 

Share this post


Link to post

I am 100% bisexual!!!  I am as much into men as women.  Though i prefer them both at the same time.

  • Like 2

Share this post


Link to post
On 8/2/2020 at 6:09 AM, Goodbi69 said:

I am 100% bisexual!!!  I am as much into men as women.  Though i prefer them both at the same time.

That's me.  My favorite is FFM.

Share this post


Link to post

I wouldn’t consider myself Bi or even curious, however I have jacked off guys and been jacked off.  I’ve let couple guys suck me, 1 couple I let him suck me just so I could fuck her ass, which was wonderful.  

Share this post


Link to post

We are the same, I am bisexual and love men and love women.  I have sex with both and enjoy both equally for different reasons.  My husband has also done and received the occasional blowjob at my request and enjoyed it.  

Share this post


Link to post
On 7/10/2018 at 11:49 PM, Freaky.Fiona said:

Like a special support group of women to share the load, but with the added bonus of sexual enjoyment between you girls! I have one very close friend (Alison), also a married mother, who is my most regular lover (of women)

Do you ever have the problem with your husbands that sometimes playtime is supposed to be only a girl thing, but he wants to jump in?  Although FFM is our go-to arrangement, sometimes we need an FF or even FFF.  Just watch the damn kids.

  • Haha 3

Share this post


Link to post

I would never consider myself bi as I have no desire to be with another guy but I will watch him with Linda. 

  • Like 1

Share this post


Link to post

Mrs.Jo is bisexual and has had a couple of female lovers in and out of college before we married. I am situationally bisexual now, but I did have one relationship after college that lasted for a few months. The emotion wasn’t there, I guess you could call it an experimentation relationship to see if I could. Sexually, it was out of this world, but zero emotions involved.

  • Like 1
  • Hot! 1

Share this post


Link to post

This is a good question--I suppose I'd call my self situational/cyclically bi-oral.  I generally do not find men attractive or have a desire to kiss them or engage in any sort of ass play with them, but in the heat of the moment the idea of a hard cock in my mouth, especially as I watch my wife giving oral, can be very appealing.   

 

I've only ever engaged in oral with a few guys and in the presence of the wife (no same sex exploration growing up) and, although she was deeply turned on by it initially, she finds it to be a massive turn off now, so I'm not sure I'll get the opportunity again.   

 

But sucking a dick to completion remains on my fantasy list--one day I'd love to experience a man cuming in my mouth.  As far as penetrative sex, I don' think I'd want to fuck a man, though I am mildly curious what it might be liked to be topped.

  • Like 2
  • Sad 1
  • Hot! 1

Share this post


Link to post

I'm situationally bi, mostly oral

I really love swallowing CUM

Would love to have my wife watching, encouraging, and insisting that I swallow everything that fills my slut mouth. Enjoy 

  • Like 1
  • Hot! 2

Share this post


Link to post

Join the conversation

You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.


  • Similar Content

    • By NerdsAreFun
      Some stats on the swinging world.  Interesting that a slim majority (50.2%) of men now identify as bi.  65.8% in the 18-39 age group.  I think the days of that being a closeted thing in the swinger world are coming to an end.  Also surprised me that 80.5% were soft swap only.
      https://swingershelp.com/swinger-survey-results-2022/
       
       
      And they also provide a list of most popular swinging sites in various cities.
      https://swingershelp.com/popular-swinging-dating-sites/
    • By Erotics
      I'm as straight as an arrow and never even looked at another man in a sexual way. We play as a couple and have had regular 3somes (mfm) which she thoroughly enjoy. The focus is always on her, giving her pleasure and making sure she is having fun.
       
      Recently we were in a 3some with this gent and while we were playing (foreplay) he asked me whether I have ever been touched by or touch another man myself. The answer was no.
       
      He then dared me to touch him, which I then proceeded to do. Funny enough, it was not so weird as I thought it would be and although it felt strange, at the same time it felt familiar.
       
      I then proceeded to keep his dick in my hand and point it towards her mouth while she was blowing him. He did the same with me while she was blowing me later.
       
      Suddenly it was not strange anymore and I even guided his cock into her pussy later on. It all felt so natural in the situation. Fun was had by all 3 of us and it did not gross me out or even the wife.
       
      We (me and wife) had a discussion afterwards and she said she found it actually very kinky and she would like to see me in a male-male experience. Ever since it has been playing in my head and I don't know what to think.
       
      Touching is one thing, but actually going down on someone is something totally different (or is it not?)
       
      Although I still don't look at men in a sexual way, I found myself thinking about this a lot. A part of me says don't do it, you don't find men sexually attractive, but a part of my tell me to not to knock it and try it at least once and then make up my mind.
       
      The wife said that she became bisexual by also experimenting and only later become attracted to females as she became accustomed to the situation.
       
      Do you think I should proceed and experiment?
       
      I don't think I have the guts to take a cock in my mouth and suck it, but a part of me tells me I have the guts and should go ahead. I know it would be big visual turn-on for the wife and I would do anything to turn her on...just not sure about sucking a cock to turn her on. LOL
       
      To be honest, I'm very nervous.
    • By CowboyBob
      Just wondering, here...
       
      In my wife's and my experience, we've noticed that most of the women in the lifestyle have at least been curious about having sex with other women, at least as much as, if not more curious about having sex with other men.
       
      Of course, the exact opposite holds true for the men in the lifestyle. I've only met one guy who's ever even considered having sex with another man.
       
      Without counting, I'd guess that of all the women we've encountered have gotten into swinging, about two thirds have indicated they've done so at least in part to try sex with another woman.
       
      So, how about it, Ladies? How many of you have gotten into swinging at least in part because of the urge to have sex with another woman?
       
      For my wife, she admits it was mostly curiosity about women. She's mostly into guys, though. Happily, that includes myself.
    • By Miss_Piggy
      Okay this poll is prompted by EBF's poll on tolerance of bisexual activity. In order to make sense of what people think we have decided to make a more narrow poll.
       
      As a swinger, how tolerant are you of male-male bisexual activity?
       
      Please post your comments/justification.
    • By Elusive BiFem
      OK...I think we've been down similar roads before, but jcbicouple sparked some new questions. So the poll...if I can get this straight!
       

       
      Oh, yeah...you can choose more than one.
×
×
  • Create New...