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Who would you least want to run into at a swingers club?

Who would you hate to run into?  

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  1. 1. Who would you hate to run into?

    • Parents or Parent's friends
      192
    • Sister or Brother
      53
    • Neighbor
      15
    • Fellow Co-Worker
      85


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My boss.

 

He already seems to watch me lustfully, and that would just make it worse. Ick.

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It thought that my worst fears were realized one night at a swing club when a man who was the spitting image of my son came strolling in and then went back to the entrance. I told my wife, "I'd better go find out and get it out in the open if it is my son." Man did he and I have a good laugh when I tapped him on the shoulder and found that he was a total stranger. The resemblance was uncanny, however!

So, in answer to the question...none of the above...LOL.

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I would not care if I met family members but wouldn't play with Parents, Siblings or Children or their Spouses/Children, i.e. no incestuous activity. We would probably try to play in a different area too. I figure they or neighbors or fellow workers or Pastors/friends are there to enjoy the Lifestyle too. I would interact with the non family members on an individual basis, the opportunity has not arisen but might be interesting. We did run across a patient's family once at a Nudist Facility, no stress!

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Running into family or neighbors is cool, so no problem running into any of them. We'd all understand and be comfortable with it. A co-worker would be awkward, but we wouldn't hate it. We'd just be the least comfortable running into them.

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We didn't play at the local Miami club because wife was teaching at time and didn't wanna run into her students' parents. Her school was less than 4 miles away.

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