Just wanted to share something good.

Between the shift work Gator works and the second job Kitten has, it has been even more difficult than normal to see each other. Quad time has been scare and dyad time with boyfriends and girlfriends almost non existent. After much discussion initiated by me, I discovered we were all feeling the loss and felt disconnected. Therefore, date nights were set.

Gator and Kitten went on a date Thursday night since they were both off work. A big break through for Gator was that he finally felt unconflicted about who to spend his limited off time with. He and Kitten had a good time and was able to have much needed face to face talk with each other. They just do not communicate as well unless they can talk in person.

Tech and I went on a date last night, Friday. Dinner and movies. Horror movies is something he and I do together that the other two don't care much for. I very much needed the time to connect with him. We had a great time as well.

I just don't know if I'm more pleased over our nice time together or that Gator really enjoyed himself with Kitten and didn't worry about me being home alone. All and all, I'm just a very happy camper right now and can't wait for Gator to get home from work. I have a date with him planned for tomorrow morning (we have to be creative with timing). Its a chance to spend time with him and show him that less time for he and I doesn't have to interfere with the quality of time he and I have.

It's a good week for us.

Vol