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New friend, but beware

My new friend lives three hours away. We've been friends for a while, but only recently got intimate. Thankfully, my new friend lives three hours away. Admittedly it's a NRE thing. She's a vanilla and I've been clear about my marriage. She's met Mrs.Stop and thinks the world of her. But you can tell from our conversations that there is a little something extra under the surface. I won't deny it on my end, but that's not that same as dreaming of running off with her. But we've said doz
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The Call

Mrs & I went to a Meet & Greet the other night. I'm personally getting a little concerned about these events because they seem to be getting a bit cliquish. But maybe people thought the same about the six of us huddled up at a table together most of the night.   We caught up with some playmates of ours, and introduced them to each other. One couple we had not seen in at least a month of which the female is one of my favorite partners, and the feeling seems to be mutual. As a matter
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She's playing... I'm ok?

For the first time this past weekend, we were in a situation where Mrs was off playing with someone and I wasn't.   I only realized this the day after. Fortunately I wasn't overly concerned (or even a bit concerned) about what was going on.   We'd hoped he and his wife would just us for a foursome. His wife went off with someone else leaving the three of us standing around. I was holding the key to the locker hoping our "party bag". We headed off to get the bag and I said to Mrs "Are you o
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To cum or not to cum

Visited Eyz Wide Shut in Tampa recently (sidebar: If you're ever in the area, go there). Took up a room with a partner I've been with before. She's definitely a lot of fun, which is why I was with her again.   But boy, is she a lot of work. Before we first got together months ago she warned me. "I'll only cum once. And it's hard to make me cum." And while she certainly enjoys play, it's a long, long way to the peak.   So while we played that night, she simply wore me out physically. I'm
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The ironic journey

A couple initiated contact recently on SLS (we LOVE it when that happens) and we got to meet them on Thursday. They are each 10 years other than we, but our recent experience with another older couple was quite positive, so we had no apprehensions whatsoever. They are an interesting pair... more into mental stimulation than any other couple we have conversed with. Scheduling hasn't yet worked out for a date, but it's not really much of an issue since anticipation is very much part of the gam
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Music to my ears

Yesterday we met up with two other couples for an early evening romp. After we all seduced ourselves silly we made it into the bedroom. All the ladies got on the bed. All the men on their knees servicing them orally.   At one point our male host says "Okay guys, rotate!" And after a chuckle, we did just that. 15 minutes later I said "Ok fellas, let's finish up at home" and we rotated to our wives for the final round of orgasms.   The sound of three women simultaneously moaning in delight i
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Respect your elders!

Within days of our initiation to the Lifestyle, I created a profile on a couple of the swinger sites, but eventually settled into using SLS as our primary choice. It wasn't long after that that I found a surprising email waiting for us. A couple from the Melbourne area, about 70 minutes away, was inviting us to their place for a party. Admittedly we were too new to know what to do at a swinger's party (other than the obvious, of course). They host on Saturday nights, and it would just be too
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Two and two... and two!

We met them a couple week ago at a Meet & Greet. We were already interested.   A week later was "Girls Uncorked", where the ladies sit at talk about LS. No play, just female bonding. Mrs. was there, as was the female of this pair. We tried for a couple days to set up a date, but couldn't get to work. At the same time we had to back out of plans to see another couple that we've played with before.   Last Thursday, another M&G, and both couples were there. We reschedule our broken d
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"I close my eyes and she slipped away..."

With all thanks to Brad Delp and Boston, it was the only thing I could feel after Saturday night.   Mrs and I spent Friday night at our friends house, had a great time with them until 3 in the morning, then helped get ready for the party the next evening.   Things were scheduled to start at 8, and she arrived not long afterward with her husband. She was every bit as strikingly beautiful as their Swing Lifestyle profile indicated. And those legs that went on forever. I said hello to them bot
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Fixation

We're about to break the news to our dear friends and favorite swing partners.   We can't see you again for a while.   The sex is great; the chemistry electric. We met almost two months ago at a party. We've played together 4 times in that span, three times spending the night, one of those times spending two nights. And we're spending two more nights next weekend.   We haven't seen anyone else in that span of time. Not for lack of trying, but it just hasn't worked out. We've known for a
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Awkward moment avoided...

There are times when you want to advertise that you are part of the Lifestyle, and times when you'd rather not.   I figured the trip to Fredrick's of Hollywood I recently took alone was part of the latter. I came looking fro something sexy for the other woman in my life. I'd previously bought her a baby doll (with her husband's permission) but it was a size too small (note guys: a good way to flatter her is to guess too small).   Mrs.DontStop had been out shopping a couple days prior and sai
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Looking back... three months into the LS.

It's been three months since Mrs. DontStop went to a party thrown by a swinging couple while I was out of town. We knew they'd be the beginning of something fun, we just didn't know how or when, or what lay ahead of us.   I remember talking to Mrs. the morning after and she nervously telling me that she ended up in bed with the male. I rushed home as soon as I could and we had the most *incredible* sex we'd ever had that afternoon and evening.   In the ensuing week I found this site and took
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Tgi...mfm!?!

It's Friday morning and Mrs. and I have a legal issue that requires our presence in court... 90 minutes from home. So not looking forward to this. Mrs. actually didn't have to be there, but her presence and noticing a technicality may have swung things into our favor.   We had plans to visit family that live 30 minutes to the south, but that didn't pan out so we called our favorite swing couple (who live 30 minutes to the north) to see what they had on their schedule.   Female half can't get
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The other swinging benefit...

The recent 2 night visit with friends is still reaping benefits.   When I was with my playmate and she started to suck on my nipples, I told her to go ahead and bite them and get rough. She was quite surprised of my tolerance. I'm not normally a pain person, but please, bite them till their sore two days later!   So this morning, three days removed from the moment, she sends me a text. Apparently she tried the same on her husband last night and they were both pleasantly surprised how much h
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Reflections on two days with them

We finally went to visit them. They invited us to spend Tuesday with them while the kids were in school. We headed over Monday night, after further arranging to spend two days with them.   If you've read the previous entries, you know that I knew the male from school many years ago and many miles away. That lead to our unlikely reconnection via SLS, hook up at a party, and finally the two days together.   In the week leading up to the visit we all engaged in sexting, which is unusual for Mr
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From humble beginnings...

September, 1982: We moved to a new neighborhood, forcing me to switch schools in 8th grade. One day not too much later at school, the kid living upstairs from me, Sean, introduces me to his best friend, Don. I would see Don here and there for that school year and the next, but we ultimately travel in different circles and have little in common. When Sean moves away a year later, mine and Don's contact is reduced to an occasional hello in the hallways and lunch.   October, 1985: We leave Ne
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Peeling away our newbie tag

Had a first last weekend. We went to a hotel takeover. Had fun dancing and mingling, but wasn't able to find a couple where the interest was mutual. We eventually retired to our room and had great sex, dozed off and woke up to some more. We both had a great time.   While getting ready for this party we'd found a couple on Swing Lifestyle that we were trying to negotiate some time with. We finally came up with a Wednesday of all days, breaking our self-imposed rule that we only play on Satu
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Funny, at least from my green perspective

Anyone who looks at my entries knows I'm still pretty amused at the differences between the vanilla and the swinging life. Having just stepped to the dark side, I still laugh at some of the situations we find ourselves in.   This morning Mrs. Dont.Stop was awakened by the sound of a condom wrapper opening. And there was her husband, mounting the woman in the next bed. We giggled at the thought of telling this to a non-swinger:   "Oh my goodness. This morning I woke up to my husband having
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I want candy...

Still very new to the swinging game, every milestone gives pause. Who are we? Who were we? Who are we becoming? How did we arrive here?   Two friends in sexually unsatisfying relationships. The "were" part is easy.   Lovers stretching their sexual boundaries. "Are" isn't so hard either.   How did we arrive here? See "were" and "are". Connecting the dots is not very trying.   Who are we becoming? We have vanilla friends that we've barely talked to since we embarked upon this journey t
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Swinging = Foreplay

Yes, I love to see my wife pleasured. Yes, she loves to see me pleasured. She loves to watch me give pleasure, because as she likes to say "I know just what if feels like getting it!" I love the reaction a guy gets from experiencing my oh-so-orgasmic wife.   But in the end, no matter how far we go with our partners... soft swap or full... it's all just foreplay.   As soon as we get home, game on. It's the hottest sex we'll ever have as the memories are still fresh. We'll talk about it ove
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Relax, just do it...

In a battle of nerves vs nerves, we had our first play date with a couple that we only knew from SLS. We're only about six weeks into swinging, have visited on-premise clubs and swapped with some friends of ours... but this was new territory.   If you followed the Three Dates in Four Nights entries, this would be Couple #1. They had flown out of town the day after we had our meet & greet. Mrs. and I were definitely hot for them. The ladies shared text messages while the couple was away,
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Three dates in four nights, Part III

Date one was a great time, and we experienced the high of meeting a fun couple and the promise of more good times as we all clicked. Date two was another great time, with even more fun and the elation of a future with them as well. That came crashing down as they later decided the chemistry is not quite right.   But none of that would prepare us for date three.   We pulled into Hooters just a before eight. It was an hour drive for us, and just about the same for our guests who were coming i
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Three dates in four nights, Part II

We originally planned to meet up at Smokey Bones, but our guests suddenly didn't have a sitter. They asked if we would just meet them at the house. They have some nice feedback on their SLS profile, and the couple we had just met in Part I knew them also and said they were great people. So, we made the 45 minute drive to their place. They said we didn't need to bring anything, but we brought strawberries and homemade whipped cream anyway. Yes, we were nervous, but that was put to rest immed
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Three dates in four nights, Part I

Last night kicked off the first of three dates in four nights with couples we have met on SLS. These are all set to be meet & greets. Until this point we hadn't met any couples from the cyberworld.   We met our couple at Chili's at 8:00 (unknowingly in the midst of "Kids Eat Free" night. We initially found space at the bar but it wasn't conducive to four way conversation. Eventually a booth opened up and we grabbed it.   Mrs. and I were a bit nervous as this is the first time we'd sat
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