The recent 2 night visit with friends is still reaping benefits.

When I was with my playmate and she started to suck on my nipples, I told her to go ahead and bite them and get rough. She was quite surprised of my tolerance. I'm not normally a pain person, but please, bite them till their sore two days later!

So this morning, three days removed from the moment, she sends me a text. Apparently she tried the same on her husband last night and they were both pleasantly surprised how much he liked it. After all their years of marriage (thirteen!) they had never experimented with it. That news just made my day!

So I shared a tidbit back with her: When she and I were together I'd done something a little different. While she was on her back I grabbed her ankles, spread her legs wide (I'm 6'3", she's 5'4".. no problem here) and proceeded to tongue fuck her. It drove her nuts. So when I had the same opportunity the night before I did this to my wife. A similarly pleasant response!

Just one of the benefits of swinging that doesn't get much notice: learning something new with your playmate that you can take back to your loved one!