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The Click... when it works, and when it doesn't

We met and played with two couples over the course of the summer, and it just illustrates that when things are right- Wow! and not.. meh.   We had some health issues and so were on the bench from May to August, but two new couples got in touch with us through SLS (in itself, a miracle- hardly ever happens) and really wanted to meet us, so we had the dinner & drinks routine with both. The first couple were nice enough, we had dinner twice over the summer, made it clear to us they wanted to
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The Old Gray Mare...

Well, that's what it's starting to feel like. There's been a big change in my libido over the past 6 years. Menopause is a bitch.   We had a house party a couple of weeks ago; I did nothing. That is, I was the perfect hostess, in that I didn't play, but just socialized with my guests all night. This isn't the first house party we've attended in the past year or so where that's happened. Simply too often I am not in the mood. Being 53 can really suck.   PB is having trouble understanding a
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Interesting Evening

So we were at a loose end on Saturday night, didn't feel like clubbing it, and headed out to a house party an hour and a half away we'd never been to. Don't know if we'll go back again.   Had to pay $20 at the door. I know, that's how some people do this, but in our core group of friends, it's a party, not a paid event.   PB had to wear a wristband. At a house party.   A series of small rooms (and I mean SMALL) The guest list was huge and I don't know how they'd all fit in there.   A very
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Has it been that long??

So while I was in the shower rinsing off the sensitive skin Nair (seriously, the best) in preparation for the visit of new friends this evening, I realized that our last couple-to-couple date was November 25. Holy. We have been to house parties, hotel takeovers, and camp-outs since then, but our last real 4-person date was last fall.   Don't get me wrong, we're not deprived, it's just- how do we do this? A little confused, especially since the hot tub is out of commission (shit). We've alre
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Migraine relief!!

I can't find the blog entry where some of us were trading comments about suffering from migraines, but thought I'd post an update here on my botox experiment.   IT WORKED!! I should have had a migraine last friday when the Texas low dumped on us, and I should have one right now, but I have nothing. Zilch. Nada. Not a twinge.
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Happy anniversary!

Three years ago today we had our swinging cherry popped. And where are we today? I have a lot fewer "what if's" than I did 3 years ago, and all of my vanilla friends tell us that we've never seemed happier/more relaxed/more in love than we do now. I was turning into a recluse and not minding my husband going out without me because I just didn't want/need to socialize. Now we just assume we're going out together on a Saturday night. My son would be shocked- shocked! if we stayed home.   This wee
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Well, this might be awkward....

We met up with a couple this summer. Everyone seemed to like what they saw, and we played together a couple of times. When they left our house a month ago it was all yes, yes, see you soon, and then... nothing. We sent a brief note saying we enjoyed ourselves, and she had left her earrings here, see ya soon....... crickets. PB was a little disheartened because he had really enjoyed himself with the female half, and I had a good enough time with the male half, but we're big kids, and time to move
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Ch ch changes...

Turn and face the strange... oh yes, that's me.   It's been an interesting summer for PB and me. Busy! Lord, even after our two weeks when he was off work and we spent all our time together was over, we have been enjoying ourselves immensely. We even managed finally to connect with a very nice single man and hope to see him again.   Things are shifting a little though, mostly because of me. Last summer I dabbled my toes in the pool of BDSM, discovering that I have a deep untapped desire to
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Isn't this what it's all about?

For the last two weeks both PB and I have been off work, and instead of planning some epic road trip, we decided to just amuse ourselves as best we could. Not sure why I'm going to tell you the whole tale except I think that it has something to say about why the Lifestyle has worked out so well for us.   We started out going to a club, which for us is a hit-or-miss thing, since neither of us are particularly good at the whole mingling thing. So we ended up in the back room just us, which doesn'
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The search for the single man continues.... sigh

Le sigh. There are so many out there... why so difficult to find a good one? First one- turned out to be a local guy; even though we both advertised as being from a city an hour away, he actually lived 7 mins away. He was married, but his wife wasn't too into playing, and we met her and she said she was okay with it, so the three of us played several times. Good times. Then he started getting more interested in guy-on-guy, which we weren't into, and he decided I made a great confidante and sta
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I Love this Life(style)

I turn 50 next week. And I am having the time of my life!!   My sweet PB is hosting 2 parties for me. This Saturday night I get the house party... on my actual birthday I get the open house. While I have given into reality and decided to make some food for the parties (you have to understand... I AM the party food queen!- with control issues), my basic role is to enjoy myself. Oh, I will.   I have some of my favourite people attending the house party... one of them at least bringing some leat
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The long dark twilight of the soul... or something

Weird day. I have succumbed to the first cold in years, and have taken the day off from doing anything except vegetating. Hot rum toddies and sleeping under my duvet figure prominently in my programme. PB is on his afternoon shift, so doesn't roll in until midnight (on Saturday!!) but at least because of my cold I'm not pining too much for some fun and games.   If I HAD been healthy, I'd be at a vanilla friends' sex toy party, oddly enough. Hmmmm.... that might be an odd experience. Imagine...
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Life....

Well whaddya know... things seem to be going great, then they change.   PB had a new friend... then she disappeared, and that really bummed him out. I still had a friend to play with on the side, then he got a "real" girlfriend, and is busy going through the throes of seriousness over that. So nobody to tie me up... damn. I understand completely that things have changed, but I still miss the fun and games we had together this summer. Actually, I'm really pissed off at him, not because he got a
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Drama? Oh Yes

Well, we had an interesting spring, and we all know that interesting means trouble. We've had our share of that, but things are looking good now, and although this doesn't need to go in Situational Help! because we know what to do, it just helps to get it out and down on "paper".   At the beginning of April we met a new couple, played with them that night- oh my- and then twice more during the month. Him and me- WOW. Instant click, couldn't stop. PB and her- well, he thought it was going great,
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Party Time's A-Comin'!

We have taken the plunge and we will host our first house party in three weeks time! I hope that we've learned both from the house party we've attended several times over the past year, AND of course the copious advice of others in the forums here.   We had an invite list of around 20 couples, knowing they wouldn't all be able to make it. So far we've had 13 couples accept, so even if a few bail at the last minute everyone should have lots of... hmmm.... choice.   We've invited people we know
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