My fiance were just having a convo about this subject last night, he asked what I plan on wearing to the club and I said anything that doesn't make me look bad. His response was that the only thing that makes me look bad are the clothes that I am uncomfortable in. You see I am not fat by any means but I am not thin either. I am very well toned but have a bubble butt and large natural breasts. I have an hourglass figure. 50 years ago I would've been a pin up girl, but now our priorities have changed. No longer are women valued for looking feminine but for looking a-sexual. I personally prefer women to look like women and so do most the people I know. So if you are happy with yourself good for you, if not then you can work on it. As far as the insulting goes its fine to have an opinion, but by no means do you have a right to direct anything hateful towards anybody. Esp. if you are not perfect yourself...