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scalcpl714 started following How soon do you swing with another couple?, Husband's mixed feelings after MFM threesome, How many people had parents who were swingers? and and 1 other
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Wow....some story. It can be hard sometimes reading people when talking online or even on the phone so I can see where you wanted to meet face to face. All in all, you read them right and got out of a situation that could of turned ugly so all's good. Plenty more fish in the sea
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Husband's mixed feelings after MFM threesome
scalcpl714 replied to SadieSuhan's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
I see warning lights all over this. If he brings these things up then he definately has fantasies about MFM's but.....some people learn quickly that the fantasy can be better then the reality if they are not truly ready. It sounds as if he has some issue's he needs to work out first, ie when you said he was feeling inadequate...altho everything might seem fine, these things can turn quite ugly if everyone involved isn't quite ready for it. As far as your second question about how other's have dealt with these problems....can't really say that we have had these problems. I know when we first started swinging it was 3somes and we were quite young (seniors in high school) but I loved it....watching her with other's just does it for me I suppose. When we had 3somes with her girlfriends we never had any problems in reverse....think it just comes down to having the self-confidence...if you have that, the reality will surpass the fantasy big time. -
I don't care what other countries consider illegal, my "point" was in reference to a post calling us who wish to not party with those doing illegal drugs hypocrisy...and like I said in my earlier post, give me a break. Does the person who posted that even know what the definition of hypocrisy is? It's the act of pretending to have beliefs, virtues and feelings that one does not truly possess. Ummmm, how are we, who do not party with pot smokers, hypocrites then? We are 35 and 36, and I don't really believe it has anything to do with age, most hippies that grew up in the 60's are over 50, and I bet many of them still smoke out. As far as addiction is concerned...150,000 people enter drug rehab for the sole purpose of marijuana addiction each year. If there is no marijuana addiction then explain that please. We really could care less if you smoke weed, or do any other illegal drug...just don't want to party with you, as I'm sure you would not like to be around someone who will not tolerate your drug use...
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Hypocrisy? Because we don't want to be around any illegal drugs makes us hypocrites? Since we are swingers we should tolerate everything? If you wish to partake then go ahead, we are not trying to stop you but we have no wish to party with those that do...how is that making those that wish to use, not use? Hypocrites, give me a break.
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How many people had parents who were swingers?
scalcpl714 replied to mwsw4ever's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
Found out my parents were swingers in the late 70's when I was a young teen. Snooping around in their bedroom and found some pictures of orgies, with the both of them in the middle. Guess there is a swinger gene or something. As for her parents, no way no how.....