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enhancer last won the day on March 18

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  • Birthday 06/23/1971

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    Saskatoon, Canada
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    Squirtal13

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  1. Fantasies are just that a fantasy! In a healthy relationship people should be able to share their fantasies as just that a fantasy. There are fantasies I have and I share them with the missus knowing that some of them are not her fantasies! Same goes for her with me. No one should ever feel pressured to do anything they are not interested in doing. If someone can not be fulfilled if every one of their fantasies don’t happen then they will never be satisfied. If I tried to guilt her into doing something she didn’t want to do or her to me there would be a problem. That is a good way to push someone away and make them question their relationship. People should spend more time thinking about the positive things they have going in their relationship then focusing on what they feel they are missing out on.
  2. How we would have dealt with it when we were still considering other males is stop talking to him! We would not play with a married guy unless we were playing with his wife. Really don’t care if they are in a sexless marriage. That is their problem and if they don’t like it then they always have the option of getting out of that relationship. Can’t stand deceitful people which in our opinion is a large amount of the men on the sites.
  3. If she is also in the lifestyle she is not going to out you without outing herself! Missus E has an uncle and aunt we know are in the lifestyle and are pretty sure they know we are. Nothing is said to each other or anyone else and we feel pretty safe nothing will.
  4. Anything that makes people eat healthier and exercise more is a good thing! Yes personality is going to be important, but being healthy and in good shape is going to make a huge difference in the people you are going to attract. If we are going to have sex with other people they will first need to be physically attractive to us. We already have loads of friends with great personalities we don’t want to have sex with. Not looking for more.
  5. Absolutely! Just don’t get it and it seems to happen often on here.
  6. I never get how anal sex just happens with no communication between the person doing it and the person taking it! It wouldn’t with Missus E I can safely say. If someone tried to stick anything in her ass without asking they would be stopped immediately and more then likely all play with that person would stop. You don’t just sodomize someone without permission. It isn’t like a penis is just going to fall into a virgin ass. Takes a bit of work and a lot of lube to make that happen. As far as how I would feel if she did anal with someone else before me I would be okay with that if it was something she was asked to do and she agreed with. Nothing is off limits as long as we are both there and there is consent.
  7. If I find a woman attractive and like her personality I could care less what her pussy looks like as long as it not a penis! It isn’t any more important to me then what a guys penis looks like to my lady. Sexual organs do not define a person as attractive and something we do not need to see to know if we find someone attractive or not. In fact if that is all people show on their online profiles we are not even going to bother talking to them.
  8. The only time in my life a have had a STD is when I was young a long time gf I had cheated on me and gave me Chlamydia! I would rather get a STD in a situation where I am aware of the risk than in a situation where I am trusting in someone and being betrayed. I would think that STD’s are more likely to occur in cheating relationships then in the swinging community due to the dishonest nature of the person cheating.
  9. We have been in long breaks in between in the past and have been on a long one now, because it is really not that important to us. We came to the conclusion after lots of talks that we are just not that interested in having sex with other people anymore. We both are very happy with what we get from each other and know what a pain in the ass it is to find other people we both actually find attractive and are interested in. If a perfect opportunity popped up we may consider it again, but we won’t bother unless it does. No point in settling when we already have what we feel is the best.
  10. First of all I don’t think someone suddenly having a higher sex drive would mean they suddenly want to have sex with other people! Unless their partner was not able to keep up or provide the excitement needed. I doubt that is the reason she is suggesting it. More than likely she just desires someone different to experiment. That is a natural thing for some and not so much for others. There are many reasons people enjoy watching their spouse with other people and those reasons are going to vary from person to person. If you can’t find any reasons why you yourself would enjoy it then I don’t think you should. No one is going to change who you are and how you see things. Live your life how it works for you best. As for your wife wanting to try this you just have to be honest and say it doesn’t work for you. She can either accept that and try to find the spice she wants at home with you or decide to move on. Fucking other people should never be an expected requirement in a relationship unless both people are aware of that right from the get go.
  11. We are equals in every way! No use whatsoever for self proclaimed doms and boy are there lots out there. We find it quite ridiculous.
  12. enhancer

    kissing

    Neither one of us would have sex with anyone without kissing involved! A good kisser will get me hard faster than a blowjob and a bad kisser will make it really hard for me to be interested. We both absolutely love making out. For us it is the best skill a lover can have and highly underrated.
  13. I would be careful about trying to make her something she is not! The way you describe things it really doesn’t sound like something she wants to do in the first place. Why push it? A woman does not need to be slutty to be good in bed. My missus is far from slutty, but is by far the best sex I have ever had. Might take a little more effort on the man’s part to have a good sex life with a woman who is not slutty, but passion trumps slutty any day of the week and if you spend more time learning what makes her tick you might be surprised how good things can be. Probably why so many guys like submissive women is because it is a hell of a lot easier to use someone then it is to actually please them.
  14. We both enjoy electronic industrial music for our play time! Great beats usually around 120 bpm to pump to. Bands like NIN, Front Line Assembly and KNFDM.
  15. The line about him trying to establish his dominance and make you his submissive is one of the biggest reasons she is no longer interested in men at all! There seems to be a really big amount of guys married or not that think all women should be submissive and do what they’re told and that they actually think this is an attractive trait to have. It is not and it is ridiculous. There is nothing manly about dominating women. As the missus puts it she has a guy that is every part a man that treats her like a queen in the bedroom and gives more then he takes why would I settle for some insecure want to be alpha male treating me like garbage. It is too bad, because I really enjoyed sharing her and would have again if guys were not so fucking thick between the ears and clueless.
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