Would love to invite another male into our bedroom for some MFM fun..We have been in the swinging lifestyle for several years (couple/couple)..I have always wanted her to be able to enjoy 2 men at a time..She gets so turned on watching x rated movies where women have multiple men partners..One of her fantasies is to do a DP.. When I ask her about having another man join us, she is always reluctant..Should I press the issue or plan a surprise?..I need some advice, especially from couples who have encountered the same issues..