Hi, we are an older couple, 60 and 58 married a few years and both in good shape. While I was active in the lifestyle in my forties my wife has no experience other than going to a club with her former husband also in her forties. We want to move our bedroom fantasies to reality by exploring the lifestyle but are really not sure if we are now "too old" to go to clubs. I know there are several good clubs in Manhattan but we hold back from going because we really don't want to look or feel out of place. Any thought or suggestions would be appreciated. Thanks.