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NCfuncouple98 last won the day on January 19 2010
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367 ExcellentAbout NCfuncouple98
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- Birthday 07/03/1971
Personal Info
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Relationship Status
Couple
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Location
North Caroliina
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Interests
Each other
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Swinging Experience
Over a year ago
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SLS Name
ncfuncouple98
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Favorite Club(s)
CF Estate
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NCfuncouple98 started following Swallowing swing partner's cum, What is your profession?, Drama due to vanilla/non vanilla friends together and and 4 others
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What's Your Advice for Beginners?
NCfuncouple98 replied to DoubleL's topic in Curious About Swinging?
THIS is #1. No doubt about it. Whether it's money, sex, swinging, kids, cars, jobs, it doesn't matter....All of it comes down to communication. Mr NC and I started swinging almost 3 years ago, and the ONLY way we got through all of the emotions that go along with it is constant communication. -
Interested in the wife, but not the husband
NCfuncouple98 replied to IvorieManiac's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
We don't "take one for the team", ever. If there is ZERO attraction or interest in the husband, it's really not fair to lead them on and let them think there's a chance of 4-way play. Mrs. NC -
Wife sharing ... crossing the line?
NCfuncouple98 replied to jandlvaldosta's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
Nice guys are great to work with and have conversations with. I don't need boats or jewelry or expensive Amazon items at this point in my life. I'd rather stick to my happy marriage and just go swing with who we want to! It's all choice and perspective. For me, I like swinging because of the variety and going home with my husband and not dealing with other men and their wallets or size or ... or.... or.... So no, it wouldn't matter to me what he had to offer. If your wife isn't turned off, but also isn't turned on, what's the point? Mrs. NC -
I don't know that it's your moral responsibility to report to his wife. You put forth an experiment, and now you see the results. It depends on how close you are to the couple as to whether or not you tell the wife. Personally? I wouldn't want to be in that position, and it's not my place to tell her what's going on. Sure I'd want to know if it were my husband, but then again I wouldn't ask you to go behind his back. Does that make sense? Some friends of ours are going through a divorce - vanilla friends - and she was cheating. We know this from HIM, but she has not said a word. We do not speak of the spouse when we talk to either one. We're still friends - albeit separately. I prefer to let marriages/relationships live out their destiny and stand back. It doesn't do anything to my life and my relationship to get in the middle. I understand your curiosity and your experiment. What you ran into is all too common, unfortunately. Mrs. NC
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I can say for us we do NOT want to be exclusive. We like to play spontaneously when the mood strikes, and not feel like there are ANY strings. We played with a couple recently and had a great time - we live hundreds of miles apart. With her we can both text and joke and have a good time, but her husband? Always wants to have sexting going on with me, and that just doesn't turn me on. I would MUCH rather meet someone that I connect with and have a good time, with no strings to anyone but my husband. Mrs. NC.
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Etiquette when meeting new couples
NCfuncouple98 replied to funcoupledayton's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
That's what we have learned as well. Dinner + club implies a possibility - and for us there are NO possibilities until we meet and click. Much easier to meet AT the club with no expectations. -
Husbands absent from pics on SLS
NCfuncouple98 replied to shrevecouple's topic in Finding People to Swing With
We made sure to take pics of both of us for our profile because I HATE seeing nothing but the female pics. Hello, is there a man somewhere? Unfortunately we have noticed it's very common, and in those cases we offer to meet at the local club for a drink. I ended up blocking one male from contacting me. We chatted a few times - the only pic of his wife was a very innocent pic - sitting at her laptop. After a few chats he admitted she really wasn't into the lifestyle at all. Troll! -
I normally wear my contacts. On the rare occasion that I do wear glasses? I leave them on - DH also likes the "dirty librarian" look. I only take them off at the point that there's nothing to see anymore, just feel away...
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Congratulations! We also got started with MFM and absolutely love them!
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This! You can never tell, ever. They could have been with 1,000 people, or 1. It only takes the 1 time..... Doesn't matter what they say or how they look, dress or act. If it smells? Yeah, I'd be running! Mrs NC
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Ok, I seriously did try to read the whole story. I did. But it was just too much. How many years ago did this start? And with all the issues, why are you still going forward with the idea? Sorry, but it sounds like a heck of a story for a magazine somewhere..... Jealousy issues are very normal, and very common, in the beginning. But in all honesty, for all the "years" you both have tried this, I would think you would be giving the advice on how to overcome jealousy! I don't mean to sound harsh, but after almost 2 years, we have dealt with all of these issues. The way you write, you have been at this many years longer, and are asking our advice? I guess I don't understand why you continue to try swinging if it has not worked for you at all so far.....
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Why is laughter such a problem?
NCfuncouple98 replied to NCfuncouple98's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
Ok, point taken. I would never laugh, and point. at the exact same moment. I mean, come on, I have been with Mr. NC over 14 years and I've held back the laughter and pointing. Why would I start now? -
Why is laughter such a problem?
NCfuncouple98 replied to NCfuncouple98's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
It wasn't at that point. And it wasn't referring to "him" - but laughter, apparently, more than one, has taken personally to mean "I am laughing at you".