couplers

I was happy that another young woman was joining me on the SwingersBoard, then I looked at the date of the post and realized that she's now somewhat older than me. 🙁

I am a married woman, and it is understandable to me that being a single man would be difficult in the lifestyle. Perhaps concentrating on finding a like-minded woman to join you on this adventure may be more rewarding.

If you marry this woman, and I think that you should, the feelings will only get more intense all the way around. Your wife, mother of your children. Please give us her perspective as well. How does she feel about the other men, you, and especially herself?

I know several women trapped in their miserable marriages because of the kids who consider themselves to be "sex workers."

You were doing him a favor. She went home happy.

Let her know that you love her and it would make you happy for her to have some fun sex on the side. Let her do whatever, whoever, whenever, wherever she wants with you there or not, all up to her. Once she is comfortable with playing, she'll get you involved on her terms.

When it comes to sex, people are irrational, even towards their own kinks. That's especially true with male homo/bi sexuality. (Women have it so much easier in that regard.) Humans just have a lot of baggage around simple acts. That's just the way it is.

I have trouble answering this question the same way I did the post about my first swinging experience. It started with just us (Red, David, and me) being young and them sharing me, first separately then the occasional MFM. As we explored further, that's how it was with us, a few couples, many single women who were curious, eager to have sex with an attractive man who was safe because he already belonged to another woman and she was giving permission.

"It [the phallus sculpture] was highly polished - and clearly recognisable!" "Its life size suggested that it may well have been used as a sex aid by its makers," Perhaps being used as a dildo caused it to become highly polished.

These are not just things that I like, but need to initiate a sexual relationship. Strangely, definitely with a man but less so for me with a woman. And it's fine for me if David or Red engages in a purely sexual relationship with another woman; that's something I can appreciate. If it were Lora or Clair, however, it would trouble me. I can't explain it, but it's the way I am.

We in our family are all lucky things turned out as they have. But None of us would have wanted to make a baby and endure the consequences of raising a child with just anyone we fucked.

Creating a baby trap? For you or her? (I shouldn't talk. It was unintentional I believe (Clair offered to abort) but that's what turned our woman (me) with husband and boyfriend casually playing with other single women into our poly family. It was the best thing to happen.)

There have been several times that I've been so excited and got so wet it was embarrassing. Like I peed my pants. We don't use toys, but both sides need lots of lube for bum sex. That's one of the things about it that turns me on, especially FMF threesomes - the mixture of fluids produced by MF mating, the sexual products of their bodies.

Some are straight like an oboe, some curved like a bassoon.

It is instinctual, but appears as practiced art. That's the beauty of it. Two people who have never done it before, engage perfectly.