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As you can see from almost everyone here - this couple means trouble. If dissing them means a fight between you and your man, you have to sort it out pronto, cause then there's something wrong. And don't let him tell you you're just being jealous, this other woman is trouble in capital letters. I had a similar situation right in the beginning and was scared to complain as for sounding jealous, but luckily this trouble girl made life for herself hell by upsetting all our friends and my hubby could see her true colours.

We didn't mean in it that way, raising kids as nudists, we just want them to be comfortable with their bodies.

Long term relationship is fine.

I grew up with being very openminded with regards to nudity - and also sat chatting to BOTH my parents for hours in the bathroom, as it was the only time they both sat still. I'm sure I'll raise my kids the same one day.

Interesting thread. Here in South Africa, when advertising on personal sites, one would easily classify the woman of the couple as being bi-curious, meaning, that she is bi in the swinging scene, not in her total personal sexual orientation (as in she could marry a male or a female). So, if you call yourself totally bi - in our terms it means that you most probably have had a relationship with another of the same sex. Therefore, I would classify myself as Bi-Curious, as I enjoy the ladies interaction but only when we are swinging and would never be able to have a relationship with a woman.

We started swinging when we were dating for 6 months, - and it's now been 4 years. Still loving it - and it's really cool that we both ventured into it toghether. Both being married before, we totally knew what we wanted out of our sex lives and didnt' waste time in exploring it. We've been married two years, now, and very happily so!

Here's ours: 1. Same room only 2. No pain 3. Condoms if we do a full swop 4. I rule - but if one of us aren't happy, then it's a no go 5. Don't arrange for dinner on the first date. - coffee or drinks Simple and effictive.

Being part of a private group of friends, our parties almost always end up into the early hours of the next morning, and we just love having the parties at our house. Obviously don't have kids. I won't stay over night at a couples house which isn't in the regular group - it feels akward and I want my own bed, but when we party with our very close friends - we sometimes only get home on Sunday evening !!

We've had both situations, 1. Where you go on the first date and nothing happens, and 2. Where you go on the first date and the chemistry is just right. Here's the trick, if you want to ask a couple home, be it on the first or second date. - YOU HAVE TO GIVE THEM A PRIVATE MOMENT TO DISCUSS IT... very very NB>>>> There's nothing that gets to me so much as when a couple asks us for "coffee" to their house after drinks, but they don't give us a moment to at least chat to each other. I realise it's not easy, but just give it a thought. Once, we met with a couple, and my hubby was very happy with them, but all through the night, I thought they were terrible and just wished the evening would end. Being new, and not having our secret signs sorted yet, when they invited us for coffee, he agreed, - and I secretly died on the spot. Since then, I actually don't care what the couple think, but I make sure that I get a private little word, even a whisper to my man, to make sure that we agree. Does anyone understand what I'm on about ???

Yikes, how weird, luckily we've never bumped into people we know in the scene when we visit clubs etc. We have however, heard through the swinging grapevines, about another guy who swings single and apperently told everyone that he know's us in the business realm. I've just always prayed that we don't actually bump into him - and thankfully we don't do business with him either.