we are in our mid 50's I love to watch my wife with other men she has always requested that they be at least 40 or older i think it is due to us having sons 38, 35 & 26. Lately in our search for a regular playmate we been getting lots of intrest from guys 30-35 she keeps saying no but they keep persisting. I think she is going to give 1 or 2 a try