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intuition897 last won the day on May 11 2019

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About intuition897

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    Canadian, eh?
  • Birthday 02/10/1975

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    Couple
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    Ontario
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    Fishing, hunting, fast cars, motorcycles, good food, good wine/scotch, weight lifting, and definitely cooking!
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    Management/Administrative Assistant
  • Swinging Experience
    Since 2003

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  1. I found out while checking Facebook at work and sat at my desk crying. I told Mr. intuition on the way home, again, tears welling up (I'm a bit of a crybaby) and he said he was very sorry about my friend. "Ah well," he says, "I'm sure he's found his way through the pearly gates and is getting the same talking-to that his wife got: 'Now like I told Laura, this is not THAT kind of afterlife. You can't do that here.'" I laughed and said the vanillas can keep their heaven. I would rather be roasting my ass on a clothing-optional beach in hell with all the heathens. I'm sure they're better company.
  2. If any of the old goats on SB are still around, we've lost a legend. Al of Alura passed away on the 10th, joining his wife who passed some years before. Goddamned cancer! You may recognize Alura's name around here on some of the older posts, giving sage advice, and blessing us with his earthy sense of humour. I've enjoyed a years-long internet friendship with Al, and I will deeply miss our conversations. I always meant to get down to Oklahoma to meet him in person and regret that I never did. If anyone has memories to share, please do.
  3. Hoo, boy. I have questions. I guess first, what is it you want from this single woman? You seem unsure how to feel about the whole thing. Are you titillated by the idea of cheating? Of her "giving herself completely" to you (aka falling in love with you)? Is that something you want to happen, or is it something you're trying to avoid? I'm not a fan of dishonesty, so I don't exactly get warm, fuzzy feelings if, for example, a single woman thought my husband was stepping out on me and she was totally okay with that. It speaks to a lack of integrity which would naturally extend to the way she deals with other things, too. At least the logic would follow. I'm not anyone's babysitter, and I can't tell them how to manage themselves, but if I knew that a playmate was actually married and fucking around behind his wife's back...just saying...there comes a point where I get to make a decision about my involvement, too. And I've got enough bad karma already. A former friend of mine had a disastrous 3some with a homewrecking coworker - she had to get absolutely shitfaced to go through with it 🚩 because her husband was dead set on this happening 🚩. She worked with this woman 🚩, whom she knew had a history of breaking up marriages for fun 🚩. She went through with it but didn't remember any of it, then had to go back to work with this soul-sucking vampire woman who emotionally tortured her by saying things like, "I wonder if J is thinking about you or me right now?" 🚩 Oh, and she gave her the clap. In her throat. 🚩Good times. Anyhoo, if you're seeing any red flags like these popping up, maybe back up a bit and talk to your wife about your concerns.
  4. I prefer to give people the benefit of the doubt, especially when they're suspected of behaviour so shitty that it would turn me right off playing with them. Mr. intuition and I prefer playing in separate rooms, so we wouldn't likely run into this exact scenario. But if it became apparent to me that Mr. Sexypants was going out of his way to make Mr. intuition feel like shit, or trying to compete with him in any way, you can bet he'd be set straight in a hurry. That's not cool. Not sexy. Definitely NOT okay with me. And Mr. intuition wouldn't have to say a word; I'd make sure the jackass understood in no uncertain terms exactly who was running the fucking show here. And it's not him. He's there by Mr. intuition's permission ONLY, and if he can't get on board with that, the door is thataway. And don't you worry about me, I have a magic wand.
  5. Oh my God, y'all are getting me wound up. I think I need to be alone for a few minutes.
  6. Although it's not lifestyle-related, I've had vanilla PM conversations with a gentleman in a Facebook group who claims to be somewhat famous. It's a bit of a pain in the ass, because he just doesn't trust ANYone, and gets weird and cagey if I ask any questions that could possibly be construed as "cornering" him into identifying himself. I have no idea what his name is, or exactly what he does. I just enjoy our conversations.
  7. Every now and then I like to bump up this thread. The poll is anonymous, so no one can see who voted for what. If you want to comment, but don't want to identify your status using your regular profile, I believe you can use a guest account. Having to deal with maintaining your public persona while continuing to be a real person with feelings and flaws must be awful. Perhaps that's one of the reasons that you hear rumours about celebrities being attracted to the lifestyle (other than, of course, that it's scandal-worthy): it's a very accepting, open community where people from all walks of life can meet on a level playing field. Because everybody looks kinda weird naked. And while we might not be famous, we, too, value our privacy. I'd like to think that this board is a kind of safe space where people can express themselves freely, where they can find support, and some measure of normalcy in an otherwise fucked up world.
  8. We've never met nor hooked up with anyone remotely famous. It's a bit of a shame, actually. We're not particularly prone to being starstruck, and could hang out with pretty much anyone. We'd be a good match for a couple who are burnt out on having to uphold their public persona. I'll bet it's a royal pain in the ass, and I certainly wouldn't envy them. I'd greet the revelation about their celebrity with the same fascination I would at anyone telling me about, for example, their unusual/unique/very cool job in a highly specialized field.
  9. I was going to say - before my post disappeared - that one of the great things about swinging is that we don't have to have the pressure any more of being up on one another's pedestal. I don't have to be his everything. I don't HAVE to be interested in all the same things as he is. I don't HAVE to be THE most perfect, most attractive, most energetic, most amazing at every single sex act. Other women are just as amazing as I am, and I love that I'm secure enough in myself, my worth, and what I have to offer him that I can happily - even enthusiastically - give him the freedom to interact with these other beautiful women. Everyone wonders, well, what's left? Indeed, good question. I can't put words to it, but it's...our history I guess. Other women might be more beautiful than I am, more intelligent, and yeah, maybe even have a better sexual connection with Mr. intuition than I have. But none of them are me. We've chosen one another as traveling companions on this road trip through life. We meet a lot of interesting people, and the roadside attractions that draw each of us aren't necessarily the same, but that's okay. What interests me most is his experience. That he's excited to tell me all about it. That I get to see his face lit up, and that he is really enjoying the trip. THAT's the connection.
  10. LOL, EVERY corner of our department is under video surveillance! I tell you what, there'll be no hanky panky going on on campus. Like, EVER! Nope, if Mr. intuition and I decide to do anything about this, it'll be as separate from my work life as though it was happening on another planet.
  11. He's only in his 3rd year of undergrad. And regardless of whether or not he's a consenting adult, the fact that it creates a conflict of interest, or a potential vulnerability to abuse of authority, does not do my career any favours. There are unwritten rules. It's considered to be very unprofessional, unethical, and - considering I'm married - immoral.
  12. Actually I'd get fired in a hot minute, and probably blacklisted from getting another job at the university. Although I'm not a prof, I do have access to student records. It's considered...unseemly...to fraternize over much with students.
  13. That is sincerely appreciated! Honestly? I wouldn't feel uncomfortable with the idea of breaking the rules with him. He seems to have his shit together, and he's anything but vindictive or dramatic. I'm highly UNLIKELY to actually do anything there. Y'all will be the first to know, however. Yes, that's sort of the dynamic I would see happening. A young friend who could benefit from some sage life advice and a rowdy fucking. I would certainly be doing another woman a favour by offering him the opportunity to...refine his technique. However, Mr. intuition897 and I have never gone the hot wife route before. I don't think it's really Mr. intuition's thing. So if for no other reason than that, it's a no go.
  14. Sadly, he's not. Generally speaking. I never fancied myself a cougar either, but this guy's maturity belies his years. He really is delightful to talk to. And my God, is he pretty. Jesus H. Christ. He's a good Muslim boy, though, so I don't know how into swinging he'd be. He seems to be a bit of a retrosexual.
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