Show me someone without a scar, and I will show you someone that is too young to be doing this.
I have a long scar on my leg, a scar that was once a hole in my chin where my teeth went through in a car wreck, and a wonderful scar from a tummy tuck that got rid of the scar from the c-section.
I have some emotional scars, too.
It's all just part of the total package, and not a definition. I really try hard not to define myself or others by their defects.