hytril
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15 GoodAbout hytril
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- Birthday June 21
Personal Info
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Relationship Status
M. Male (married to talltxlady)
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Location
houston
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Interests
Reading (sci-fi, fantasy, comedy) Animie, RPG's
Swinger Info
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SLS Name
hytril
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No wonder we have not meet anybody. I have been wearing the wrong pin!!!! Now if i can only find room with all these other pins...
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Age is one of those things I consider mind over matter. You dont mind, it don't matter.
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beep... we cant come to the phone right now. One of us has tied up the other one. Please leave your name and number and we will get back to you as soon as we can get loose..... beep..
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I would also love to hear about the over all exp. Oh and I hope you have / had a great time.
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I think a lot of it depends on what you want to get out of swinging. some just want to live out their fantasies. Some want a close personal relationship. Some want it all the time, others don't. I would hazard a guess it all boils down to as long as everyone in the swinging group is ok with what is going on then it's ok. And if not it needs to change before blowups happen. It is not like once you agree to whatever that you are locked into a contract like a cell phone. It just take people honestly expressing what they want and desire.
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I hate to get into semantics but, If it would seem to me that oral sex falls under the umbrella of sex. If Hard swap is sex with someone that is not your partner then it would seem to me that oral sex would be hard swap. After all the mere phrase is 'oral sex' has the word sex in it. It just seems like there is a grey line here with everyone's definitions on where oral sex should fall. In the end I guess as long as everyone is ok with whats going on it does not matter.
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I think it can work. Provided that everyone is on the same page and nothing is assumed. I can not control who I fall in love with, only what my actions are. I have feelings for many people, on many levels. Now that does not mean I want to have sex with every one of them, nor can/would for that matter With my relationship with my wife it is becoming where we are basically two faces on the same coin. I can't and don't want to imagine my life without her. Swinging is a only a way to fulfill some fantasies and make friends. We have already discussed a lot of things concerning swinging and high on the list is if anything is not comfortable for both of us it stops, we discuss it and move forward. Forward might mean anything from wild orgies to no more swinging. In the end it is our choice made together. I think the biggest problem in swinging comes when people assume stuff or fear what might happen to their relationship if someone says no to something. I feel that any arrangement can work as long as everyone involved is open, honest, accepts, communicates and follows what they have agreed to. Not saying over time things can and won't change. I might be totally wrong but life did not come with a manual.
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From everything I have read and been told full swap is switching partners for intercourse. Now to me oral sex right now seem to be a grey area to me. I don't know if it falls into full or partial. Could some of the more experienced people please clear up that issue for me?
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Not sure if I would try any of this if given the chance or not. Not sure if I would have a shy bladder or not. I do know fresh out of the body urine is about as sterile as you can get. It's just all the other stuff in it that goes bad real fast. But in the end as one of my favorite sayings goes, It's all mind over matter. You don't mind, it don't matter.
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