How do you orgasm during intercourse?

[watergrrl]

I’m opposite than a lot of women I hear about because it’s far easier for me to orgasm from intercourse than oral sex. But even though I get my orgasm from vaginal penetration it’s actually still a clitoral orgasm. My clit is rather low on my body, as in close to my pussy. Good oral sex can be difficult due to it’s size. So I’m eternally grateful for a little thing called a labia! As many know the labia is like the legs of the clit and extends back along the sides of the vagina. My labia is fairly sensitive and during good vaginal sex the man’s penis will tug on my labia which in turn tugs on the hood of my clit. It’s all connected, and for me good sex feels more like outward pulling than inward pushing. Also, the good aspect of my clit being so close to my vagina is that thrusting action usually gives me some nice friction on my clit. So put it all together and the result is that I usually orgasm from vaginal sex without direct clit stimulation because I’m getting so much indirect clit action. The negative side of all this is because of how my plumbing is situated I’m forced to care about a guy’s penis girth. I truly would rather not, but a thick one tugs more firmly on my labia and creates more friction against the outside of my clit during thrusting. Of course the motion of the ocean is quite important too, and I appreciate a man who knows how to move just right. I’ve had multiples just from intercourse and the most I’ve ever had is eight, so it helps if the guy can last awhile too! More fun for all!

[WesternSwing]

I'm lucky, Mrs. WS orgasms both vaginally and clitorally. Intercourse, toys, oral, she'll cum from all of them. She also has incredible orgasms where she shakes and shudders and you can't even touch her for minutes afterwards. This has surprised some of our playmates like they have done something wrong, when in fact they have done EVERYTHING right.

Mr. WS

[My77038]

Most of the time i can cum both ways.. yet they are totally separate. The clitoral is wonderfully delicious mmmm just boby shuttering tension then release. The vaginal Orgasm is like a pushing then release and very wet. THe g spot is wonderful thing. Vaginally is the best one for me because i can do it over and over and it is such a relief to my body. The euphoria after is great. Some times it makes me cry. I love it!!!!!!!!! I hate the clean up though.

My

[RenoFantasy]

Broken. There should be female AND male responses, and the option of multiple selections. We're swingers, and for most of us that means couples.

Since men don't usually orgasm in different ways in the same sense as women, it the men's options should have been along the lines of what works best for achieving an orgasm. Such as different positions: missionary, doggie style, woman astride, 69, other; oriface/method: oral, vaginal, anal (her), anal (him), handjob from her, finish himself off, other; situational: when being watched, when NOT being watched, when watching another couple, when with 2 women, when with a woman and another guy, when being photographed/recorded, bondage/fetish, other.

Come to think of it, maybe that's too many options.

Matt & Sarah

[prettylady]

It wasn't until I met my Dog that I knew vaginal orgasims were real. What a waste of 34 years.
He was good enough to show me the elusive Gspot, and I thank him everyday for that.
Now I cum at the thought of Dogs visits.
I enjoy it all now. His hand, my hand, toys, oral, and yes vaginal.
Hey Westernswing, I have the same wonderful shaking and shuddering that your wife has, isn't it wonderful. Like a wave of thousand little orgasims rushing over my body.
Your friend,
Prettylady

[MissMaryPA]

Originally Posted by lnk4u

OK I tried to pick more than one option as more than one applies to me. Vaginal alone works as well as vaginal with clitoral with either me or him using hands and/or toys as well as clitoral orgasms during intercourse. I don't rally think poll is faulty just need to be able to pick more than one option.

This is me, too.

[MissKat]

Whether I have a vaginal or clitoral orgasm through penetration alone or with assistance (toys, fingers, tongue) just varies from encounter to encounter and, sometimes, partner to partner. I will say though, when I have multiple orgasms through penetration alone (no extra help) they're usually clitoral orgasms. The vaginal ones tend to hit me so hard that Im not quite 'ready to go' straight away whereas the clitoral ones hit me hard but still leave me with enough energy to keep on going.

[ShellyM]

I orgasm through vaginal intercourse, with me on top. I cannot ever reach orgasm in the missionary position, and this is honestly frustrating to me. Depending on how much foreplay we have, I have very intense orgasms. I can reach orgasm honestly pretty easily. Jay is very good with oral, I am thinking about having his tongue bronzed lol facelick . And then of course, there is masturbation which is a given. I think all men have that ego problem when it comes to female orgasms. Lately I have been very tired, and honestly there were a few times when I had to take care of myself so to speak. I think the first time he was hurt, thinking that he must not have been man enough to take care of business. The key is communication. I am thinking about having a clitoral pin put in, but I am worried about how much it is going to HURT!

[ShellyM]

Yes, the vaginal ones are strong, right? Its almost embarassing, but my entire body almost short circuits lol, and I momentarily lose muscle control. Man, they are really something else. I don't think men get orgasms that are strong like the ones women get.

[Tybee Swing]

"other" - my vote is multiple choice, the first four choices of the poll.

[Karmickiss]

Took me my first year of marriage, to even learn that female orgasm was not a "myth"..lol, though I did marry young....it had everything to do with me being comfortable with my own body, and making love to other women, taught me alot about myself

Now,I am multi-orgasmic, and have been for several years, and I'm a short-circut-ing,female ejaculating,shuddering, shaky,grateful mess afterwards and during.... :rollseyes

The most intense and first kind of orgasm I have ever to really experience, and give to another, was the internal,"g"-spot kind of thing......yummy...and I can have a strictly clitoral one, but this is more rare, or less intense, but usually sets off the other kind...resulting in a simulataneous mess, of clitoral and internal magic....making me one lucky and constantly in disbelief at how intense things can be-woman. the mix of the two is the most desired and common result for me these days, and it does happen for the most part now;and is partly dependant on the chemistry I have with someone, sure, (though now that would be the only way I will be engaging in sex in the first place, as a result of chemistry)but also as importantly, my comfort level and expectations I have with myself...which are both much more helathy than ever.

[NJCouple]

I vote that this a faulty poll. I can orgasm with all of the listed methods as well as without direct stimulation. My touching and giving oral sex is enough to make me orgasm. I can have dozens of orgasms during sex, some quite strong and long lasting. In one session I lost count at one hundred. Typically once I am really hot someone just playing with my breasts can cause orgasms. I am sure there are other woman out there that like to cum as much as I do.
Fess up

[Amanda69]

I also voted faulty. I can orgasm through multiple methods much depends on my mood. A purely vaginal one is rare but fun, though to me doesn't feel any different as my whole body is involved no matter what.

I love oral and come that way with patience. I love best coming when my partner is inside with me providing some manual stimulation to the clit or me on top rubbing against him.

[uksexymona]

I am blessed with having a big hard clit which enhances my sexual life.I can orgasm by rubbing my clit during either vaginal or anal sex and I usually have the strongest climax in multiple orgasms.
Recently my husband discovered my G-Spot and by stimulating it I can have a much stronger orgasms accommpaied by lot of squirts.

[LFM2]

I can orgasm vaginally, and can have more than one, and then sometimes can't have one at all. That's not all bad because I really do love sex. I don't have to orgasm every time to have a wonderful experience.

I can't have a clitoral orgasm through sex, though. Well -- Come to think of it, I did once and that was freaking AMAZING!! That one usually has to be either oral or toys.