This is a subject that hits home for me. I have been called fat most of my life. Even when I wasn't. I went through high school thinking I was huge. I weighed 183lbs and was 5'9-10 with a 38C chest. I was gorgeous, only do I see that now as I look back. I'm at 198lbs, 48D chest now. People still see me as fat. I'm not exactly "fit" but I do work out and eat healthy.
People look at what is on tv and think that its real life. I guess they are so narrow-minded because of the way they were raised or because of fear...or maybe because they are just plain rude.
My husband likes bigger women, and so do I. They look more real.
SOME PEOPLE WILL NEVER LOOK LIKE BARBIE!!
Personally we never reply to ads that say "hot couple" or "HWP". I stay away from them like the plague. We usually don't reply to ads if they are under 150lbs either. We want people who are more like us.
Either way. I'm comfortable with who I am. If someone else isn't, oh well. There are more people out there. I don't need their hangups. I have plenty of my own to deal with.