Our first swing encounter was with a couple at a club. they came up to us in the pool and asked if we wanted to play. We did and went to a room. While my wife was playing with the male half he went to sleep (he had worked 72 hours straight) the female was very quite and said that she doesn't make any noise while having sex. This made it real hard to stay interested. My wife reached over and massaged my balls to get me off. This really turned us off, but we were lucky enough to meet another couple online and meet them at the same club and have a wonderful time.