I remember back when we got started. We had been married about 4 years and we had a friend from college who we knew was a little different. She started telling us about this party she went to with her boyfriend at the time and we were astonished that we knew someone who would do that. We were just having a conversation with this friend one day and she said how hot it would be if she could watch us one day. Not wanting an opportunity to pass by, we jumped right into it and needless to say, she did a little more than watch. Later, we went to the beach and shared a condo with her and her boyfriend and they started in their bed and we got turned on and started in ours. By the time the night was over we were all in the same bed. We never really thought of ourselves as swingers, just a young couple exploring and having fun. The sad part is once her friend moved away, we were never able to find anyone else who shared our desire.