As many of you know, Menages was our first Club experience. As such, it was a soul searching situation for me. I have a question, both for those there and other clubbers as well. (So this may belong in another thread?)
If you saw a woman with a single breast in a Swingers Club would you:
1. Avoid her?
2. Feel she shouldn't be there?
3. Recoil?
4. Be disgusted?
5. Feel uncomfortable?
6. Shrug and go on?
7. Kiss the wound?
8. ...???...
Probably there are at least three answers in each of you for this query. One, your knee jerk reaction. Two, the knee jerk adjusted to be the answer of the person that you are/want to be. and Three, the answer, for me, because you may know me.
Please know that I am comfortable with my body and make no apologies for it's condition. But, that said, I feel that it is part of my job, as a participant in such a situation to present the "body beautiful" or at least the body whole, so as to make everyone else comfortable.
In an extreme, I can't imagine being asked to leave a club, but I do believe it would be within the rights of management to ask me to leave. After all, the purpose of the place is to be happy and carefree and escape reality for a while.
I'm looking forward to your insights. Thanks, in advance.
Smiles!