GerdOEvert I think the reason it is not more clearly written in profiles, is that women like to find out indirectly what the other pair's interests and leanings are.
In our most active years, many many of the women were bi, but not many were lesbian.
I also think it is the bi orientaiton that brings many to the LifeStyle Scene. If there were not a need for something different, and curiosity + experience, the vanilla life would continue. The lifestyle has some risks, especially for women.
Now, something I would like to learn about is: How many women in the lifestyle had gay or bi experiences in college? Eileen certainly did, and enjoyed them. Good Catholic Girls School. My friends in Nursing also say that is not uncommon there.
Otto & Eileen.