AS we generally swing within a long standing group, condoms are rarely used. Few if any women make a dash for the bathroom straight after the man pulls out. However, we were with a different couple over the weekend and as soon as the sex was over, she would immeadiately grab a wad of tissues and run off. which leads to my question. How do others feel about cleaning up after sex. Should it happen straight away or should it wait at least until the post orgasmic euphoria has subsided. Most of the women in our group tend to leave it until the HAVE to visit the bathroom. Do we have a strange subculture in the group?